483: Grayisms. Thoughts on Leadership That Apply Right Now. From Al Gray.
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This is Jocko podcast number 483 with Echo Charles and me, Jocko Willink. Good evening, Echo. Good evening. During the night of May 14th, 1967, three Marines who were en route to a listening post northeast of the perimeter became confused in the darkness and unknowingly entered an area heavily mined with M2 and M16 mines. One of the Marines inadvertently detonated a mine which killed him and seriously wounded his comrades.

Upon learning of the accident major gray immediately proceeded to the area and realizing that the casualties required immediate medical medical attention Unhesitatingly entered the mind area to assist them disregarding his own safety major gray accompanied by another marine calmly and skillfully probed a cleared path 40 meters through the unmarked minefield to the side of the wounded men

Directing his companion to guide stretcher bearers along the cleared route, Major Gray moved one of the casualties away from a sensitized mine and began administering first aid to the injured Marines. When stretcher bearers arrived, he directed the safe evacuation of the casualties through the minefield. Subsequently, he maneuvered through the dangerous area to the side of the mortally wounded Marine and left the hazardous area only after he was assured that the man was dead.

His timely and heroic actions in the face of great personal danger inspired all those who served with him and were instrumental in saving the lives of two Marines. By his inspiring courage, bold initiative, and selfless devotion to duty, Major Gray upheld the highest traditions of the Marine Corps and of the United States Naval Service. And that right there is a quote from the Silver Star citation of Major Alfred Gray.

who eventually became the legendary general al gray commandant of the marine corps from july 7 1987 until june 30 1991 he always stood out because he's the only one of the reasons that he stood out he's the only commandant to have his official marine corps commandant picture taken in his camouflage uniform so when you look at the long line of

Commandants of the Marine Corps, they're all in their dress uniforms, except for General Gray, who's just in his camis, reminding all Marines that they are riflemen and warriors and they're meant for war and not for peace. So General Gray, he enlisted in the Marine Corps in 1950. He was commissioned in 1952. He served in Korea with the 1st Marine Division. He served in Vietnam as well. And as I mentioned, he was awarded the Silver Star there.

He commanded 1st Battalion, 2nd Marine Regiment. He made full colonel in 1972. He made brigadier general in 1976. He made major general in 1980. He commanded 2nd Marine Division. He was promoted to lieutenant general in 1984. And he finally promoted to four-star and commandant of the Marine Corps, like I said, in 1987 until he retired in 1991 after 41 years of service. And while he was a commandant, he was... He drove...

maneuver warfare and brain power as the crucial weapon of war. He oversaw the creation of FM FM one war fighting, which was we covered on this podcast. It's just an outstanding field manual. We covered on podcast 35. So that was like almost 10 years ago. We covered FM FM one war fighting and he made war fighting, not just the manual, but the action, the focus of the Marine Corps.

and he had a lasting impact on Marines and sailors like me as well who heard about him because he was the commandant when I first came in the Navy. He died on March 24th, 2024 at the age of 95 in Alexandria, Virginia. Now there's a place called the Potomac Institute for Policy Studies and they made a document called Grayisms. Grayisms and other thoughts on leadership from General Al Gray

It was compiled by a guy named Paul Ott, who is also a Marine. It was published by the Potomac Institute Press, and I think it captures some of the lessons from this great leader and from people who learned from him, and they passed it on. In this, if you call it a book or a document, I don't know, but this book, we'll call it a book, Grayisms and Other Thoughts on Leadership.

So let's get to it. You can get this, by the way. You can just download this. It's online. Here's the intro. From the very beginning of working with General Gray, there were several things that became very obvious. Foremost are how much he loves his Marines along with the sailors who serve with them and how much they love and respect him in return.

Has great ad from admiration for all armed forces another thing is how humble he really is it's never been and never will be about him and Part of that respect is off how often people have general gray stories to share with you We gave them a name grayism. So that's kind of where the stuff comes from fast forward a little bit we were able to gain greater insight into this very special Marine who took what he got and made what he wanted and

This book is a compilation of many sayings we have heard and heard repeated as they have been shared from one Marine to another. And that's from Paul Ott, Corporal, USMC, 1961 to 1965. And they wrote this book in 2014. I think it came out in 2015. So, General Gray.

The cool thing about these modern generals is there's videos of him talking, and you can see he's fired up. What are grayisms? Grayisms are the embodiment of simplicity. The listing is in no particular order of importance. Grayisms, like other words of guidance, become important when they are applied. As evidenced from the many times these statements were repeated, they are important to the Marines that remember them. If applied, they will become important to any leader.

Straightforward this guy's just a straight shooter and guess what it starts off with well the one I'm gonna start with you are the one responsible boom There you go General Gray has always seen himself as the one ultimately responsible for what happened to his Marines in 1990 after a helicopter crash in Korea Marines were medically evacuated to a burn center in San Antonio, Texas

Sergeant Major Summers was with him when General Gray walked into the waiting room, told the family's assembly assembled there that he was responsible for their son's injuries and asked them what he could do to help. This took moral courage. So there you go. This is such an awesome example of ownership because here's the commandant of the Marine Corps in charge of almost 300,000 Marines. And there's a helicopter crash.

Now, was he flying that helicopter? Was he near that helicopter? Was he in charge of the helicopter's maintenance? Did he come up with a flight plan? Did he even know that thing was happening? No, of course not. He's in charge of 300,000 Marines. But he knows that as a commandant, he is ultimately responsible. That's what I called extreme ownership in the book Extreme Ownership.

Fast forward a little bit, it goes back to General John A. Lejeune, our 13th Commandant, when he said that the relationship between officers and enlisted Marines is not one of a superior to subordinate, but more like a teacher and a scholar.

He implored that all Marines should be responsible for their activities and that you owe it to your Marines to see to it that each one is Stronger morally mentally and physically when he leaves you then when he joins you and that's the cardinal thought process that Marine Commandants share and accept as a responsibility So that's the way it all starts off. You are the one responsible There's a little story here

This is under the title, hold them together and point them in the right direction. During Desert Storm and Desert Shield, General Gray went to visit the troops often. The mission each time was to talk to as many young officers and NCOs as possible. The message, the message, the most critical leadership point is in the first 15 seconds. Hold your Marines together and point them in the right direction. Boom.

The hardest thing was when he had to come back to Washington. Sergeant Major Summers said that the general was worried about his Marines and

The chemical threat general gray was very very concerned with the possibility of heavy casualties as a result We spent a lot of time going from one unit to another I sat in meetings with him constantly We would come out of the meetings and we would discuss what went on in the meeting and it was always what do you think sergeant major? I also often shared with him my worry for him personally He was so concerned that I was becoming increasingly concerned about his own health. The man didn't sleep. He didn't eat. I

He was constantly traveling, constantly working, constantly preaching the message of preparedness. And that's from Sergeant Major Summers, who wrote a book called Uncommon Men. So he continues on here. The greatest tribute to General Gray's philosophy for leading came during Desert Storm. There wasn't an officer or enlisted leader on the battlefield that was afraid to make a decision following the maneuver thought process, mission guidance, and commander's intent. So I'll say that again. There wasn't an officer or an enlisted guy that wasn't

That was hesitant to make a decision. They were going to make decisions. That's decentralized command. Continuing on, we had focused so hard on our capability, on training, on maneuver warfare, on all the things we did in the liberation of Kuwait. To me, it was the final examination. Does it work? Yes, it did. Our Marines went through that place like a knife through butter. We saw young officers and young corporals and sergeants who, in the true sense of maneuver warfare...

Didn't have to worry about getting authority from higher command They understood the commander's intent and that freed them to do what they had to do So again, this is decentralized command Everyone is a leader and they've got to understand not just what they're doing, but why they're doing it next title

Next quote don't paint rocks you ever been on a Marine Corps base. No. Oh, yeah Have you ever seen white rocks or army base sometimes like on the side of a road kind of? Going along outlining a road not that I can do call Yeah, if you go to unfortunately you go to some some bases and there's white rocks there like kind of they'll put them along the road and

It's probably not that necessary to paint your rocks white. Don't paint rocks. His point, don't waste your effort doing unnecessary things. Well-meaning people can go to great lengths doing things that are not required. Painting rocks in advance of a general's visit is just one example. We all know organizations that paint rocks and leaders that knowingly allow it to occur. Some might even expect it.

Some paint rocks in more subtle but still wasteful ways. I don't... You don't get it? Yeah. I mean, I think I get it, but why do they paint rocks literally? Why is there white rocks? Literally paint the rocks because they... So all the rocks look the same.

And they're all uniformed and they look clean and they look squared away. Like rocks, like. Like a rock the size of a shoe box. Yeah. And paint 30 of those rocks white and then line the road with them. Like. Yeah. Spaced apart, you know, 20 feet. Yeah.

- All right, so I still don't get why they do that though. - 'Cause it looks nice. - Straight up. - In their mind it looks nice. And if you're a general and you're like, wait a second, the last guy had his rocks painted. Why do I have like shabby looking rocks? - Wait, so he has rocks, what do you mean he has rocks? Like when I drive to my office? - Okay, so imagine this. I was coming to visit you at your house. - Yeah. - And out on your driveway, you had some rocks that kind of lined the driveway and you want it to look nice.

For your visit. For my visit, because I'm the general and you're the colonel. And so you're like, hey, corporal, we need all these rocks to be the same. Paint them all white. And what's the corporal do? He paints them white. And now I show up, I'm like, oh, those rocks look good. They obviously care about me. They show that they, you see what I'm saying? Okay, yeah. It goes beyond, to use one of my terms, functional cleanliness, right? So we have functional cleanliness. Okay, it makes sense. We're gonna put some rocks on the road so people can see the road a little more clearly at night. Cool. Cool.

Oh, now we're painting him white. Oh, now we're repainting. Do you know what I'm saying? It's a waste of time. That's what he's getting at. I got you. Okay. So the white rock painting scenario is commonplace in the Marine base? It's a little too... I've seen it. I think there's less of it now, but it certainly was a thing. Oh, for real? Yeah. Okay.

Hundred percent cool. See some white rocks lighting the road. Yeah, so he's saying hey brother. That's unnecessary Don't be pain. I got you. Yeah next quote know yourself know your people know your profession This is general Gray's fundamental tenet of leadership He will quickly point out that he's not the first leader who believed it to which we would respond he personified it to be a leader one must begin with knowing yourself the real you not what you think you are and

but what others know you are, and it includes knowing what you don't know. Knowing your people knows going beyond their name, rank, and serial number. It means knowing them as people starting with each individual. Fast forward a little bit. Many think no one may know their profession better than General Gray.

His office even today resembles a small library. When deployed, he often took a footlocker full of books to read. And when he returned, they were not only read, they were also marked up with highlighters and notes. And here's a quote from General Gray. In my humble opinion, the military is going overboard on information and underbored, if that's a word, on knowledge. And we ought to concentrate more on knowledge and what that means and less on information.

This is the idea of memorizing stuff as opposed to learning stuff. When I went to college, I had memorized all kinds of stuff. And I'm good at memorizing, I can memorize anything. And I would memorize stuff and it's good,

But there's a limitation to it you it's so much better to actually understand something than it is to just memorize something Gotta understand the context of why it is that way and how it got to be that way and then you have in my opinion You have deeper and longer lasting knowledge than I just memorized a bunch of facts. Yeah. Yeah the um, you know how they say that the world isn't I mean you

- The problem isn't the limitations of access to knowledge or to information. It's the lack of knowledge that people have. So that if, yeah, like in jujitsu, right? Where it's like you can watch a million YouTube videos on a million moves, but doesn't mean you know jujitsu now, you know, kind of a thing. - Yeah. - Like you kind of gotta become-- - Well, there's a physical barrier there too. You know, you have to do, you can't just watch a physical activity. You have to do it. It'll help somewhat to watch it.

But you have to do the thing. And that is similar here. You can read a bunch of military tactics about how to react to contact

And you can memorize different moves, but it's different. You get out there on that terrain and you see that little ravine and you see that finger sticking out and you see that enemy is like moving behind concealment. Oh, and now they're moving to cover. There's all these things are going to happen. You didn't expect. Oh yeah. And that's not to mention, even if, and there's varying degrees of like experience, you know, there's like training experience. There's like real combat experiences, all this stuff where if you don't have any of it, then you only have the information. It seems like it doesn't translate to knowledge.

At all. Yeah, but it is so interesting that that gets you can contrast that with the fact that this guy read so many books all the time right and and I I can honestly say that I experienced that when I read about face so much That not so much like the hey, we're in combat. We're getting shot at Translation, but a lot of the administrative stuff a lot of like oh, I

One of the things that I got from Hackworth just off the top of my head, I mean, I've stole all kinds of things from Hackworth, but understanding that the next echelon above you in the chain of command doesn't get it, that's the opinion. Oh, the next echelon doesn't get it. And understanding that that's not correct, and that you're responsible for making sure that they get it, that was a huge part of me thinking

being successful and building a good relationship with my boss, instead of being like, oh, he doesn't get it. And I was like, oh, he doesn't get it because of me. It's my fault. And I need to make sure that he does understand what's happening. I need to do a better job with the after actions report. So doing those things, I read about them and then I saw them in real life. If I hadn't read about them, look, is there a 50% chance I could have figured it out? Maybe, but maybe not. So reading about it gave me a heads up

And then actually doing it. And then it was like, okay, cool. This makes sense. So you could do the same thing with jujitsu where it's like, oh, if the person does this on the arm lock, you need to make adjust your hips over here. And you go, oh, and you could read it or watch it. And then when you do it, you could have a pretty good chance of executing it. Maybe you have to execute it a few times before you get it. But it's all adding value.

everything that you can do to add knowledge into your, add information into your brain, that that information then can be contextualized and turned into knowledge more rapidly. Yeah. And jujitsu is one of those. You can't just trial and error your way through jujitsu at all. Like if you don't know, someone's going to show you, someone is going to demonstrate whether it's a video or a coach or whatever, uh,

Um, you can't just be like, oh yeah, I know zero jujitsu and then just sort of figure it out. We're about to have an ecological, uh, jujitsu discussion. Are you tracking any of that right now? Ecological. Oh yeah. There's like a whole theory of training of ecological training versus, and I don't know what they call traditional training, but basically ecological training is,

In jujitsu, you don't get shown any moves. You just get told what the outcome is that you're looking for. And there's some people that that's how they're training. So you basically make games. Get around their legs or whatever. So it's just... And I think there's obviously a good balance of all these things that make things work well. But that's where I thought... I thought you were about to just break into this. No, well, we... Into the ecological discussion. We obviously could, but...

in and of it so that feels like we couldn't because you don't know what it is i do now oh okay that you just told me people are real into it i dig it but i don't know i don't know that that would be the best and then again i don't know i'd have to know the details and really what it looks like in real life but i don't know that that would be as beneficial as one might think if someone's starting from zero so it's like yeah get around those legs because that was me my first day of jiu-jitsu i knew what i

I didn't know what side mount was, but I knew what mount was. I know what rear naked choke is. I know what arm bar is. I know what guard is. Oh yeah, bro. I was trying to get there all day and I was freaking just gassing. I didn't know what to do. I didn't know any moves. And then if no one ever taught me moves, I don't think I would ever got there. Even, I mean, maybe you would have got there at a very, very, very slow pace. If you had a certain type of mind too, because there's some people like,

You ever notice some people say, oh, I just did this and it worked. And some people are like, they don't even know what they just did, whether it worked or not. Yeah. But usually like even people with that kind of mind, it's like there's some foundation that that was taught to them, you know, like.

Even like Helio Gracie himself, by the way, he's watching judo guys and Japanese jiu-jitsu guys. He's watching the framework. And then, yes, of course, he had one of these minds where he thought, okay, I can make these adjustments and make up stuff off of this framework. But you can't just trial and error your way. I mean, look, am I going to say can't? I'm not going to be absolute and say that, but I'm just saying I don't see that as...

But if you have a lot of knowledge, oh, oh, frick yeah, all day. In fact, that's one of Jeff Glover's like training methods. Is what? He'd be like, hey, get to here. Oh, yeah, for sure. From this position, just get to here. And then you got to use all your knowledge that you learned, by the way. Yeah, that you learned. That's like Jeff Glover being the original ecological jujitsu practitioner trainer. But I also used to do this with kids because little kids...

They will actually figure things out that you didn't think of and so when you tell a kid Okay, you put a kid in the guard and you say okay now get now get to this other position and you don't tell them how They're gonna figure out like nine different ways. I would say Seven out of ten kids will figure out a way three kids will be like you hey, do you need to push over here? And that's just the way it is. Like you said there's like a personality a certain personality That is gonna be very

open-minded and very Risk-taking and we'll try different stuff with adults like you can't do that doesn't work as well because adults are like oh I got get around their legs our minds are too closed when we're when we're grown up We need to be told what to do more little kids are just figure figure stuff out yeah, and I think a big part of a big vet a big part of why that's valuable for kids is because

And this applies to adults, but I don't know, for whatever reason, maybe kids' minds are just like more like that, where, you know how if something is relevant, then it becomes way more interesting? So if you're just like, hey, you wanna get around his legs, they're gonna be like, okay, cool, I'm gonna do it. And sure, they'll just try anything. They'll, you know, whatever, they'll go. But they know they're attached, their brain is attached to getting around the legs.

So they're like, okay, they try this, they try that, they try this. And usually the other kid is not some expert kid. He's another kid, you know, whatever. If it's some expert kid, trust me, they're a little creative of mine. Ain't getting around those legs. You know what I'm saying? So they're going to do, and it's all fun. It's a game. They know the outcome that they're going for, whatever. And they get creative and they're like, okay, that's cool. And you can, but what it does is at the end of the day, it makes that guard pass really. Yeah.

So now when you teach them a move, they're going to be like, ooh, I can do that next time I'm trying to quote unquote get around these legs. See what I'm saying? So it's now it's that relevant, creates this like demand, this hole that they can fill. Yes, and it contextualizes. Exactly. Which is why I think this is important that it's, look, you need information. That's why you read books. That's why you study. That's why you learn. But then you need to have an opportunity to put that into action and contextualize that

And bring into the real world the information that you have and you that's what turns the information into knowledge So if you're a trainer, it's very beneficial to do that. It's another good point if I had a seal platoon and I could see that the way that they're getting headcount was bad if I told them Hey the way you're getting your head count like I'm watching them in a rehearsal and I can see that the way they're getting their head count is bad if I said hey the way you're getting your head count is bad they'd be like well, this is how we want to do it, okay, and

I stopped telling them that. I would tell them after because guess what happens in the field? They have to get a head count. They can't get one. There's confusion. There's chaos. They fail.

Now exactly what you just said, now they come back, their mind is open. And they're like, when you say, hey, I know a good methodology for getting a head count in chaotic situations, they go, what is it? And you tell them and boom, they're in the game. Before you go out, you're like, hey, this isn't the best way to get a head count. Oh, it's going to work fine. I did it my last between this way. Yeah, I'll just count them. Yeah, whatever. Yeah, yeah, whatever. Just like, I'll just get around the legs. Easy. So it's good to create a little bit of...

A little bit of an opening. A little bit of a gap. When they see the gap, they're more likely to fill it. When they don't see the gap, you hand them something, they're just like, what am I going to use this for? Yeah, what's this for? Yeah, exactly. It doesn't make any sense. This might be my favorite quote. Take what you get, make what you want. Take what you get, make what you want. What an attitude to have.

It says, this is one of the most often repeated phrases of General Gray. He uses it many ways in talking about his assignments, the Marines he has led, the Marines he has had the responsibility to lead, and in overcoming the obstacles he faced. While others sought out assignments that would further their careers, General Gray accepted every duty given to him and made the best of it. In the long run, it was a key ingredient to his success as a professional in the nation's Corps of Marines. But what a great attitude. Take what you get, make what you want. You're not going to get...

Anything handed to you the way you want it to be on a silver platter. It's not happening. This is not happening You take what you get. Okay, this is what I got now. I'm gonna make it what I want Freaking it get yourself an attitude adjustment another good one. You cannot write a recipe for all situations Doctrine is a guide general grade tells us he wrote in the forward to war fighting this book describes my philosophy on war fighting and

It is the Marine Corps doctrine and as such, it provides the authoritative basis for how we fight and how we prepare to fight. It is not intended as a reference manual, but it is designed to be read from cover to cover. This book does not contain specific techniques and procedures for conduct. It requires judgment in application. So remember that doctrine should be a guide. Just like in jujitsu,

Passing guard and where you put your hands and where you put that's a guide and there's some everyone Glover showed up and he had like back escapes Someone be on his back and he'd do something that was completely against everything that I ever learned. Yeah, what are you doing? Jeff Glover? Why are you doing this? What are you doing? Why are you doing this and it's like oh cuz when I do this they do that and I get over here and then I'm out Oh Wow, so

You can't write a recipe for all situations. This is also good in terms of self-defense when it's like, well, what situation are you going to be in? Downward stabbing attack motion with the overhead knife. Like that is cool. You can learn one self-defense move for that, but that's not what's going to happen in the street. It's going to be different. So you need to learn the philosophies about how to fight, about distance, about timing, about closing the distance, about what to do with weapons, about how to deescalate before the whole thing gets started. These are all...

Things that you need to apply and it's the same thing with combat It's the same thing with leadership like there are gonna be times in leadership where it's you guess what you need to do Jocko talks about the indirect approach all the time. There's three times in leadership We need to go hey echo you need to stop doing that now totally direct there are times that that happens There are times that that happens so we as we learn Skills we need to learn to adapt those skills and and you ever seen that before

video of Larry Bird Shooting a shot. He's behind the backboard and he shoots a shot over the backboard swish Hoop like he's about to fall out of bounds. He gets the ball He sees the hoop and just like shoots from behind the backboard. He never practiced that shot in his life Right. He didn't practice behind the backboard shots But did he use that he used the skills that he had to adapt into that moment? And that's what you need to do with leadership

That's what you need to do with jiu-jitsu. That's what you need with combat. That's what you need to do with writing. That's what you need to do with life. Keep an open mind. You can't write a recipe for all situations. He says, it doesn't cost any money to think. Thinking can be our greatest resource. Thinking can be the source of new ideas, new approaches, and new solutions. Thinking doesn't cost any money, and it just might save money. Isn't it interesting that we could actually sit around and discuss and think through problems, and it doesn't cost anything?

Fast forward a little bit want a new idea read an old book and he says this I have always been a reader and of course I spend so much time aboard ship for example I would take a footlocker full of books with me to the Mediterranean and to the Mideast and Read about the countries in that region and the imprint the impact of their religious history and culture and this is my Key component of this it's important to look at people through their eyes Not just our eyes

So he's just trying to gain perspective of the way other people are thinking. And he says, you name it, I read it. Fast forward, getting into some core leadership activities here. You must care more about the people you are privileged to lead than about yourself. Everything that gets done gets done through people.

Leaders must truly care more about the people they lead than themselves. To him, to General Gray, these are more than just words. They represent a way of life, his life, and he proved it by the example that he set. Unless, and here's another one, unless you care more about others than yourself, you will fall prey to careerism. Careerism. Do they have that in a normal world or is that just a military thing? What is careerism? I'm looking out for my career. Mm-hmm.

Would imagine I don't know. Yeah. Yeah, they do then. What am I saying? Of course they do they do it might not be as profound or as obvious but you know in the military like you get this job to get this job and you get that job you need to take this job and you got God you get that job and you get it you see I'm saying yeah, you're we call them in the SEAL teams ticket punchers. Mm-hmm Yeah, it feels like it'd be a different dynamic in the military because just how what you said I learned this completely from you by the way I wasn't in the military, you know that

But you say that if you have a career without any like black marks on it or whatever, you know, it's like, oh, that looks good. You know, more so than, hey, this like this guy made these cool changes with this this new way of thinking, you know, like really brought this freaking outfit to the next level. It's less about that and more about, you know, staying safe or whatever. Yeah.

in the real world or whatever, the corporate world or whatever, it's like you are kind of rewarded for like bringing things to the next level a little bit more. But I will say this on an individual level, um,

Oh yeah, I think, and I've even witnessed it. I don't, I haven't really had that many. Well, I've had a lot of jobs, but yes, on an individual level, people will be like, no, no, no. I have a job to do. It doesn't matter how it affects necessarily the longterm, whatever. I can say this week that I did my job good, you know, regardless of like the other repercussions kind of thing. Oh, I see that all the time, even right now. Yeah. And, and what you're talking about really is what we in the SEAL teams would call risk of, and in the military in general, risk averse, right? So,

"Oh, hey, we could go do this mission. "If it goes well, that'd be awesome. "If it goes bad, I'm gonna look bad." And generally speaking, generally speaking, people oftentimes will say, "I'd rather just play it safe." Because the upside that you get for conducting an operation, the operation goes well, great job,

Let's say in a point system, let's say you get five points because you went out, did a risky operation and it went really well. You get five points for that. If it goes bad, you're getting negative 15. So you're like, well, I could get five, but I could lose 15. I'm just going to keep it at zero. I'm just going to stay safe. And there's a lot of people, unfortunately, in the military that kind of can take that. See, in the corporate world, the same thing can happen. And because in the corporate world, it's like, oh...

I'm going to take a risk to go into this market. If I fail, if I win, cool. I won five points.

If I fail, we lose a bunch of capital. We might have to shut down some of our divisions. Minus 15. So it can be the same thing on both sides. Probably maybe the five and plus five minus 15 might not be quite the same because the minus 15 in the military is like, oh, you lost people. People got wounded. People got killed. There's collateral damage. Civilians got killed. Like those are...

So much worse than like oh, we did a great job. Yeah. Yeah in the corporate world real world Whatever we'll call it what private industry cool. Whatever um that you can make big moves and get big payoffs and

See what I'm saying? Like in the military, you're like, you can't get a raise. You can't, you know, make more money for the Navy. Like for instance, you do a mission. Like you've got a mission that comes up to go capture this bad guy. Well, who's this bad guy? Like you could probably name three actual bad guys of the last 20 years, right? You got like, if you went down the list, you'd name three of them. Sure. Including Saddam Hussein. You see what I'm saying? Most people like, so there's very few bad guys

where everyone goes, oh, that is worth the risk. So you go out, you capture this bad guy, great, everything goes well, cool. You high five, you get plus three on your tab. But go out and

Capture that guy that's gonna get look if you go and you kill Osama bin Laden cool plus 15 right of course You go capture Saddam cool plus 15, but most people that you're going to capture. It's like plus 2 mm-hmm plus 1 Maybe plus 3 cool now you go out you do an operation you have massive civilian casualties

Or you take casualties, people get wounded, people get killed, minus eight, minus 15. So why is it worth the risk? You see what I'm saying? So you can understand why people are risk averse. And then it comes down to, okay, how do we mitigate some of that risk? Yeah, it seems hard to measure massive success. Like in the corporate industry, whatever, private industry, it's easy to measure massive success

Like someone makes a huge move, they double revenue this year. It's like, boom, easy, tangible. You know, it's hard to demonstrate that in the military. It is definitely difficult. Check. Next point. Never say I unless you are talking about making a mistake. It is amazing how the general consistently gives credit to others in all accomplishments saying we while taking responsibility for a mistake or an error in judgment.

made by saying I. So pretty straightforward. You know what we really need to do? You can accomplish anything you want if you don't care who gets the credit. I've probably heard that one before. Here's one. No one makes a mistake on purpose. We tend to over-supervise people and become concerned about how our effort will look when they make mistakes. We must turn our people loose and let them take actions. That is how they learn. Mistakes are to be minimized but not eliminated. People can learn from mistakes.

And learning from mistakes is the best way to reduce future mistakes. Accepting mistakes can be seen as an investment in your people. That's a really good way of putting it. Accepting mistakes can be seen as an investment in your people. The greatest mistake a person could make can be the unwillingness to move forward because it involves risks. The failure to act a mistake leads to mediocrity. And in a world moving forward at a rapid pace, mediocrity leads to failure.

Should someone ever make an intentional mistake? No as General Gray says no, no one makes a mistake on purpose So it's really good to remember that and it's good to understand what people's intent is because like when you got kids they make mistakes But what's their intent if their intent was like I'm trying to get away with something I did this thing over here Okay, that's bad if their intent was like I was trying to do this thing and this is a bad thing happened Okay, cool. We get it mistake, right?

General Gray says, "Those who can't teach can't lead. "If you're not teaching, you're not leading." Also says, "You can never spend too much money on training." Pretty straightforward. And this is something that I just talked about with Hackworth. General Gray points out the same thing. The next level of authority is your natural enemy. General Gray believed the person best able to make a decision is the one closest to the situation, especially when the next level of authority may be miles away or even in another country.

Gaining approvals from higher levels can greatly reduce momentum and cause needless delays. While this grayism may be more tongue-in-cheek than the others, it clearly shows General Gray's dislike for what can be overly bureaucratic structures. Systems can aid and abet mediocrity. Bureaucracy, while needed, should be minimized whenever possible.

With a smile, General Gray says, "Headquarters has an insatiable appetite for information. Give them what they ask for, but pay no gratitudes." When General Gray was Commandant, he became higher headquarters. He followed his grayism, cutting 10% per year, staff and resources out of headquarters and sending them to the field. There's cool videos of General Gray walking around talking to young Marines and he'd be like, "When's the last time you were in the field?"

It'd be like, well, sir, I'm not, you don't even remember? It was that long ago? Need to get in the field. He wasn't playing around. Speaking of risk, there is nothing worth seeking that doesn't involve risk. General Gray believes that a risk-averse or zero-debt defect mentality is the antithesis of leadership. It stifles innovation, motivation, and leadership. Chaos and uncertainty create opportunities.

Certainty is described as following established policies and procedures, making consistent and safe decisions, low risk, minimizing mistakes, thoroughly planning before acting, and building on what is. Uncertainty is described as creating new paths, making bold decisions, learning from mistakes, acting quickly, exploiting opportunities, and building on what can be.

That's interesting. It's also, you can see the more you're building on what can be, the more risk there is. Hey, we know these things are factual. We know what, we know what foundation we have. We can build on that. But when you're like, well, we might have this foundation and as a little nebulous right now, there's more risk, but that chaos and uncertainty, that's where the, that's where the opportunities are.

Next one, intent is the glue that holds everything together. Every mission has multiple parts. The task to be accomplished, which is the what, and the intent, the reason why, along with the desired result of the action or the intent. Of the two, the intent is predominant. The intent must convey the leader's vision. It must be clearly understood at least two echelons or levels above and two echelons or levels below.

This permits subordinates to take action and decisively, quickly and decisively when the opportunity arises and when it is consistent with the overall intent. This is just classic decentralized command, making sure people understand why they're doing what they're doing and understanding what the intent is so they can go out and take action. And here's what General Gray says. Marines will do whatever you ask them to if you tell them why. Unless intent is known, you are playing with half a hand.

People know what they like doing, but they don't like being told how. Telling them how restricts creativity. In every new assignment, I would talk to all the officers and staff NCOs about my thought process. It is important that intent is known. It's a good one to practice with your kids. Like don't tell them exactly what to do. Just give them some broad guidelines and tell them what the intent is.

Continues on here. Knowing intent allows the individual closest to the situation to determine how a task can be accomplished. Intent is a prerequisite to decentralized execution. Knowing the intent, the why, the how doesn't matter. And this is from the war fighting book. The burden of understanding falls on the senior and the subordinate alike.

And this is one thing that I always point out is like,

You should be happy when someone on your team asks why you want them to do something. Not mad. So when that goes, why do you want it like that? I shouldn't be like, because I said so. I should be like, well, here's what I'm trying to make happen. Here's the overall intent. That's good leadership. Next, you communicate by how as much as what you say. I'm going to quote from Warfighting. We believe that implicit communication...

Implicit communications to communicate through mutual understanding, using a minimum of key, well-understood phrases or even anticipating each other's thoughts is a faster, more effective way to communicate than through the use of detailed, explicit instructions. This is

when I wrote down the laws of combat for the first time and the number two was simple, that was because I was watching a platoon out in the field and they were trying to communicate with each other in like full...

detailed paragraphs of words. And you're... There's... You know, it's a training operation, but there's machine guns fires, there's explosions going off, there's people yelling and screaming. And, you know, this platoon commander's like, hey, what we need to do is we need to move another 150 meters southwest down this ravine. Once we get down there, we're going to set up a... He's going on this whole thing. And what he really needed to say was, pale white! Like, just...

That's why when it says a minimum of key, well understood phrases, peel, right? That's all you need to know, dude. That's all anybody needs to know. We all know what that means. We don't need to know 150 meters. We don't need to know perimeter at the end. We don't need to know about this ravine. We don't need to know any of that stuff. We just need to know peel, right? When you said we know what to do and we'll make it happen. So simple, clear, concise communication. Now this is interesting.

This is a story in here from someone named Master Sergeant J.D. Baker. You know who that is? I know who J.D. Baker is. That's J.D. Baker. Yeah. Who has been on this podcast multiple times, who we did the Civil War, which we still need to finish. We got up to Gettysburg. But J.D. Baker, Master Sergeant. So that's the same dude. This is him. Yeah. All right. This is J.D. I sent him a text. I sent him a picture of this yesterday. I'm like, this is you, right? He's like, absolutely. Absolutely.

So here's a story from our brother, J.D. Baker. In 1989, Marines were conducting combat operations in Panama. We were responsible for running combat patrols around the Arizon tank farm located on the Pacific side of the canal zone. Marines operated out of a fire base located in the tank farm. Few, if any, high-ranking officials ever made an appearance at the fire base except one.

As we were preparing for night operations, in came a couple of vehicles. We heard the Commandant was coming to visit, but we never expected to see him at the fire base. Obviously, we were mistaken. General Gray had been at the Naval base looking to see all Marines. When he found that most were in the fire base, he came out to be with the Marines. General Gray's presence lifted the spirits of all the Marines.

He did not just hang out in the combat operations center. He made his way out to the fighting positions and spoke with all the Marines going to conduct night operations. He personally thanked the Marines for the job they were doing and said if they needed anything to send it up the chain. General Gray's visit spoke volumes for the Marines. They felt they'd become comrades with the Commandant because he took the time to meet and speak with everyone in the fire base.

By the look of his staff members, this was not part of the planned itinerary. The presence of General Gray was felt by all. Master Sergeant J.D. Baker, USMC, retired." So J.D. putting out word. And I talked to J.D. He's saying he actually spent a lot of time with General Gray after he retired, which is awesome. Going through some more of these. I like this one a lot. "What you did isn't as important as what you were thinking.

Again, when people do things, look, they might make a mistake, but what were they thinking about? What was their intent? He says, in tactics, the most important thing is not whether you go right or left, but why you go right or left. That's Major General Al Gray. It's like so important. Got a whole section in here, leadership by walking around.

Marines called the Grey Governing's called him the Grey Ghost often showing up Unexpected places and times he would go out there and see people go out there and see what's happening That was his mode. Here's a brilliant one Do not make any more enemies than you already have as I often say It's not a good idea to form an antagonistic relationship with your boss with your peers with your subordinates. Why would you do that? I?

What about with the supply department? What about with the administrative department? No, don't make any enemies. Don't make any more enemies than you already have. Antagonistic relationships with people don't help you. They don't help them. They don't help the mission. They don't help the team.

In Vietnam, 1967, Major Al Gray said, there are two fundamentals when you're in a guerrilla and counterinsurgency warfare environment. One of them is you never do anything that's not good for the people you're trying to help. And number two, you don't ever make any more enemies than you've already got. Now here's one I have never heard before, but it's awesome. You can move elephants under their own power. Think about how smart this is.

The statement would be great advice and insight from any leader. It's especially powerful when you realize the statement comes from the man who, as the 29th Commandant, was in command of nearly 260,000 Marines. Managers may rely on the power of their positions. Leaders realize that power used is power lost. Some call it being empowering, which is power given.

We prefer power assumed. Whatever you call it, people moving on their own power can move organizations large and small as well as elephants. So isn't that like you cannot push an elephant. You can't pick it up and carry it.

You have to get it to move under its own power. And if you can do that, that movement, not only can that elephant move itself, it can move other things. It can knock down trees. But you can't throw the elephant at a tree to knock it down. You got to get that elephant to move under its own power. And that's the best form of leadership. The best form of leadership isn't I'm going to push you to do something. It's like how can I get you to do that thing on your own, under your own power?

Quote from General Gray, "Everyone moves on their own power, not yours." And the other thing I always fervently believed in, and I've said it 2,000 times in speeches, I've never met a Marine, officer or enlisted, a good one, that couldn't do 400% more if we let them. Good little quote from General Al Gray there. And now, I'm just gonna run into, there's a bunch of these here. Turn people loose.

When asked about how he transformed the Marine Corps, General Gray says he provided the guidance and then just turned the Marines loose. They did the rest. Oversupervision causes more problems. People can't grow, can't think if they're oversupervised. Isn't it interesting to think this is like the Marines and when people think of Marines, they think of just following orders and that's the way it's going to be. And it's like, no, develop the best in everybody. Achievement feeds on itself and creates more achievement.

Achievement feeds on itself, man. This is going back to the book. The book is called Malcolm Gladwell. And he wrote a book, the one that talks about 10,000 hours. And I can't think of the name of it right now. Outliers. Outliers. So in Outliers, one of the key components in Outliers is like you get a kid to do good.

in soccer by, hey, maybe he gets a little bit bigger, a little bit older. Put him in the, maybe he's seven. You put him in there with the six-year-olds. What does he do? He kind of dominates. A year is a big difference. So he goes out there, dominates, scores four goals, maybe five goals. What does he want to do when he gets home? Play soccer. Wants to play soccer. Wants to practice soccer. Wants to score some more goals. So what does he do? He gets some achievement. It's going to turn into more achievement. Absolutely.

As opposed to you take your seven-year-old son, you put him with the nine-year-olds, doesn't score any goals, kind of gets, everyone's faster than him. He's slow. What does he want to get when he gets home? Play video games. So give some achievement. Achievement feeds on itself. Nice way to make things happen. Mental toughness is more important than physical toughness. It's mental toughness that gets you over the hurdle when you're exhausted. Hey, that being said, I'll throw this out there.

Because people ask me this all the time about SEAL training. It's like, is it mental or physical? It's both. And it doesn't matter how mentally tough you are. If you haven't practiced climbing that freaking rope, you ain't climbing that freaking rope. That's the way it's happening. You need to be physically as hard as you can possibly be. And if you're mentally tough, you'll work that hard to get there.

But having somebody that's not physically fit and thinking that they're, cause they're mentally tough, they're going to be able to hang with you. And it ain't true. It's just not true. It's just not true. That's the equivalent of dudes that are like, well, street fighters. I see red bro. Watch out. It's the same thing, bro. It doesn't matter what color you see. It doesn't matter how mad you get. You get someone that's good at jujitsu or good at wrestling or good at boxing.

You take the big giant temper tantrum swing at him and a good boxer just like slip and you're getting knocked out you might even get knocked out with a straight right like not even a setup not a one-two-three not a combo no foot movement nothing just crack Like when you're an idiot and you go up against a good boxer. You're just getting KO'd So mental toughness is important. Please do not underestimate the physical toughness as well

Because it doesn't matter how bad you want it. It doesn't matter. There's like some you can give to it. If you took someone that was going to run, running is a good example, and they had to run as far as they could. Well, someone that is mentally weak that runs all the time will beat someone that's mentally tough that doesn't run. Yeah.

Now, a mentally tough person that hasn't trained for running against a non-mentally tough person that hasn't trained for running, obviously the mentally tough person is going to be gutted out. Like those blisters, keep going, whatever. But the non-mentally tough person, you know, Micah, she broke her leg, broke her femur at Echelon Front. She was running a marathon. She was like, I'm not stopping.

And she was finally, I think she made it to mile 24. She had found a stick on the side of the road to try and finish. But then the doctor, like someone medical checked her or something. They're like, yo, you need to stop. And so she stopped. She made 24 miles, but mental toughness was good. You know, solid check on the mental toughness. That's crazy. But if she wouldn't have been mentally tough, she probably would have made it, you know, 16 miles.

See what I'm saying? Yeah. Because she gutted through. I mean, when does your femur actually break from running? You see what I'm saying? So did it break at mile...

A lot of people would have been game over right there. She gutted through it. Yeah. Mentally tough. I mean, she was in the hospital. She had to get surgery, but we appreciate it. Go Micah. Yeah. And you figure marathon, slower running. Yeah, they break. But it's not like in football or something where it's like boom, one hit, one twist, whatever breaks. Usually. Yeah. It's not that unless they step in a hole or something like that. It's like stress fracture, stress fracture, break, break, break, cracker.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know how, I don't know what the dynamics of it. Is it like stress, stress, stress, stress, stress, crack? You know what I mean? Yeah. Or is it just like stress, stress, stress, stress, stress, stress, stress. And wait a second, let's check it. Oh, wait, that's already broken. Yeah, like, you know, 50 stress fractures on top of each other equals a break kind of a thing rather than one big break. Yeah. All at one time. Yeah. But I'm not sure if that's correct or not. This is our assumption. Yeah.

Our assumption is that like, oh, it doesn't just go. Yes. I think that's a reasonable assumption only because, you know, when you break your femur in one go. You're going to feel that one. You're not going to run one more step even, no less. I don't know. However many more miles. Depends on that mental toughness. Depends on the brake too, by the way. True. True. And it depends probably on your, yeah, on the brake, where the brake is.

what the level of break is how strong you are yeah that's because if you're strong your muscles might be able to power through a little bit more yeah you just get that good limp going yeah and a lot of times too when you when we think uh i broke my femur like what's the image in your head that thing is completely broken apart you know kind of a thing so i get yeah you're right you're right you're right well we'll see

We'll dig down on that one. Next one. You must be ready to go tonight with what you have in your pocket. Okay. A little preparedness activity there. Treat people the way you'd like to be treated, obviously. Take all the help you can get. This is an interesting one. Take all the help you can get. Boy, does that hurt the ego, doesn't it? So often it's like, I'm not, I'm not, you know, I'm okay. I'm fine. I don't need your help. No, actually, take all the help you can get. It's a good attitude.

Here's the one that you've been hearing since third grade. Do your homework. Boy, but boy, but when you put that in the perspective of life, do your freaking homework. Do your homework. Wherever two Marines are, one is in charge and one is following. It's a common thing. I heard that a lot about the Marine Corps. Spend a little time every day making sure you have people who could replace you. This is why we're training our subordinate leadership. We're training our team to get up and take our place. You must train and educate your own replacement.

Here's a good one. It's a poor carpenter that doesn't hit his thumb once in a while. He isn't driving many nails. The very best make mistakes. If you don't push yourself to your limits and beyond, you will limit your true potential. Yep. You're going to get caught sometimes. You know? You train jiu-jitsu, you're going to get tapped out sometimes. It's going to happen. Yeah. Not if you just sit on the side. If you sit on the side, you ain't getting tapped out. Yep. If you sit on the side, that's the one way to not get tapped out. Sit over there and watch.

Mistakes happen, the key is to learn from them. Here's one. Trains go down the tracks. You can get on or get off. Like, isn't that, that's like don't fight nature, right? You've got, like the train is going down the track and sometimes you gotta look at it and be like, all right, are we gonna get on this train or not? We're gonna get on this train or not because the train's gone and we can't stop it. We can either get on the train or get off the train. Sometimes we think we can control more than we can. Sometimes you gotta get on the train or get off the train, make a call.

So if you don't mind, read the quote again. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Here we go. Trains go down the tracks. That's the quote. And then it has a sub thing. You can get on, you can get off. Yeah, that strikes me. Coincidentally, I've been thinking about this recently.

We're kind of like life just goes on, you know, and you know how you can, you know, actually you say this in times of like hardship where you say, remember, don't dwell. Right. Kind of a thing where, so it kind of feels like that where life goes on and the more you start harping on or dwelling on something in the past, good or bad, by the way, you know, like you think of that touchdown you made in high school, you know, or whatever, good and bad.

where life is going to go on, people are going to develop themselves, the world is going to change. It's like, bro, what are you doing? You're still in high school making touchdowns? Or are you moving forward too? Uncle Rico over here. Yeah, or in bad ways. Are you holding a grudge or are you still embarrassed about...

slipping and I don't know, in freaking in the hallway or whatever, you know, kind of thing. It's like, basically, are you dwelling on something? And is that holding you back from thinking about the, actually it, it, what sparked this thought is, uh, one of this audio, but I'm trying to remember which one is audio book, but, but it said, um,

Something about like looking in the back versus looking forward. It was like the rear view mirror is only four inches wide. It was front windshield is four feet wide. It was one of those quotes, but it was like, you know, and one that I hadn't heard before. I forget what it is. I'm sorry to say, but it was a good one. But anyway, yeah, that's how that struck me right there. Whether the train is coming down the track, it's going down the track. What are you doing? You know, get on or get off. Yeah. Like you can't stop it. Yeah.

Next one, failure is an orphan while success has many followers. We all know that one. Loyalty goes down as well as up. A good plan well executed is better than a perfect plan delayed. There's Patton all over that one. And then it says, the subtitle says, once things start happening, the plan goes out the window. Be ready to adapt. Whenever you make assumptions, you need an alternate plan.

You can't predict the future. You can predict trends. That's a really good note to remember is that when you're making assumptions, cool, you can make assumptions and you can come up with a plan. But if you got an assumption, you better put an alternate plan in place in case your assumption isn't correct. Very, very important thing. If you have any question about which alternative to choose, pick the one I told you to do. Now, here's why I like this one.

is because you've heard me say, Echo Charles, that I'm always looking to use your plan. Right? Like, I'm looking to use your plan. Like, whether you're my boss, whether you're my subordinate, whether my peer, you come to me with a plan that you got, you put together and you want to do it this way, my goal is to do it your way. That's my goal. So this just kind of a similar spin on that is like, oh, well, if I'm not sure about how to do it and you got a good plan, let's go with it. Stay humble. People are like weapons, right?

They have capabilities and limitations. You have to know them both. Oh, isn't that nice? Isn't that nice? There's certain times where you need a certain weapon that has a certain range on it. And there's also limitations to that range and you might not want to use that weapon for that particular operation. It's the same thing with human beings. Don't be afraid to learn from others. Straightforward. And here's the last, the most lasting grayism.

Do as much good as you can for as many people as you can for as long as you can. Outstanding. And then they have a little sub sub note here. It says, and a special grayism for his very special wife, Jan gray. When asked how he has remained married for so many years, general gray said, tongue in cheek, you have to choose. You can be right or you can be happy.

And now we get another interesting excerpt. Fast forward a little bit. They have another interesting excerpt. And this is from Sergeant Robert Jones. Rob Jones. Hell yeah. Yes. Rob Jones. Oh, the real Rob Jones. The real Rob Jones. Dang, we're pulling out all the players here. This is like all our people. I know.

I did not write this book. Here we go. Rob Jones was still a corporal and had arrived at Bethesda only a day or two prior to General Gray's first visit to him. Rob was a recent graduate of Virginia Tech in 2010. He had been serving in Afghanistan as a combat engineer attached to 3rd Battalion, 7th Marines. While he was investigating an improvised explosive device, it exploded, leaving Rob a double amputee.

But Rob has never seen an unhappy sunrise and he lifts all around him with his optimism good cheer we can confirm that They're in his hospital room at Bethesda Rob was talking quietly with his dad when an unknown but pleasant-looking older gentleman in a coat and tie walked in hi I'm Al Gray the newcomer announced Rob recalled thinking do I know this guy?

Some pleasant chit-chat followed while Al Gray tried to find out if everything was okay with Corporal Jones, if he needed anything, and if the doctors were taking good care of him. Finding nothing amiss, Mr. Gray shook hands with Rob's father and Rob, and then handed the wounded warrior a commemorative coin that denoted the 29th Commandant of the Marine Corps. Rob studied the coin and then asked,

How long have you had this? Oh, probably 20 years or so, replied Al Gray. Did you really get it from the commandant? Asked the disbelieving Rob Jones. Oh, that's me, chuckled Al Gray in response as he left. And in that way, Sergeant Robert R. Jones, United States Marine Corps, joined a mass of others who might say, who doesn't know General Al Gray himself?

Marine forever continues to do as much as he can for as many as he can for as long as he can They are really words we can all live by and he does live by so there you go Rob Jones and I got some straight some text with Rob Jones and he was like he like like

All Marines, kind of like Chesty Puller. You know who Chesty Puller is. You also know who Al Gray is. And so he knew who Al Gray was, but he didn't know that that was Al Gray. Yeah. Because he was like, and he said to me, I think he sent me a text. I was like, well, I don't know who this old dude is. I've never seen a picture of a 20-year-old. You know, you see a picture of a guy that was 20 years ago when he was, what, probably 60 years old. Now he's 80. Mm-hmm.

He looks different and so Rob didn't know what he looked like as an 80 year old man. So He's Rob's like it wasn't my finest moment as a marine I'm like dude don't expect you know what each commandant looks like when they're older. Mm-hmm. So there you go close with this section right here to US Marines

When General Gray first spoke after assuming command of the United States Marine Corps on 30 June 1987, he spoke at length paying tribute to his predecessor and longtime personal friend, General PX Kelly. He then turned to the Marines in parade formation representing the entire Marine Corps and said, quote, this great nation loves her Corps of Marines. They pray for us. They support us. They fund us.

They also place a couple of demands on us. The nation demands that you and I and all others like us be a little bit special. The nation demands that we be the best led, the best trained, the best disciplined, particularly self-disciplined force on earth. The nation demands that we teach nothing but winning in battle and in life. We can do that tonight.

And by God, you're going to make it happen in the years to come. God bless and semper fidelis. General Al Gray, Commandant of the Marine Corps, 30 June 1987. So there you go. Some simple, straightforward, fundamental leadership lessons from one of the most respected leaders that we've known in this country, for sure. So there you go.

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My assessment would be that there are times when it's very beneficial and there's times when you should do it and there's times you should gamify it and there's times where you should put, there's another big thing is they put a conditional restrictions on what you can and can't like, you're not allowed to do this, but you can do this. Like, so you can set conditions for, to, to learn a certain way. I believe it's a, there's a lot of benefits to it.

But there's also a lot of benefits to showing a move and drilling it. So I think you got to use both. You got to have an open mind. That's where I'm at. I dig it. Yeah, man. So the, you know, situational training. Oh, yeah, for sure.

Basically, it's essentially a more specific version of that or a specific approach to that. Because you can be like, oh, you win when you get to their left side or whatever. You can set up all kinds of things. Yeah. So you just over index on these very specific situations. So now when you're in a full role or competition or whatever, it's like when that situation comes up, you're like, you have so much experience. Yeah.

Yeah. And there's like all this, you know, research around the methodology that you learn and how you learn faster by doing than you do from observing. Well, again, to your point, if you're counted zero knowledge and you just try and watch and learn, it's going to be much more difficult than when you, it's like when you teach a class to purple belts, right?

They can pick up a new move very quickly compared to white belts who are like, you know, they don't understand anything. So yes, not to get, but I'll give you some videos to watch and you can go down the rabbit, the ecological training rabbit hole if you want to. I'll send you down there. But speaking of jujitsu, we're training jujitsu. If you're training jujitsu, you need jujitsu gear. Originusa.com, American made gear, American made. By the way, we've always been doing American made gear.

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You know, you ever heard of, I forget that, actually, I don't even know the name of it, so I can't ask you if you ever heard of it, but this idea of the company paying their employees with like company credits that they can spend on only company stuff. Oh, yeah, that was like back in the day. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Indentured servitude, so Origin doesn't pay with Origin credits that they can only use in the vending machine. Yeah, you can use in the vending machine that we own. No, it's not like that. Okay, cool, cool.

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