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Jocko Underground: You Might Be Worrying Too Much About Your Kids.
2025/3/10
Jocko Podcast
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德国听众
Jocko: 我理解你担心孩子的安全，这是人之常情。但过度担忧可能会适得其反，妨碍孩子的成长和发展。适度的担忧是健康的，但如果担忧影响到你的日常生活，你需要寻求专业帮助。重要的是要找到平衡点，既要确保孩子的安全，又要让他们有足够的空间去探索和成长。
我建议你和你孩子的专业人士沟通，他们能提供更专业的建议。同时，也要记住，生活中存在一些无法避免的风险，与其过度担忧，不如培养孩子的应对能力和独立性。
让孩子经历一些小挫折，让他们学会从失败中吸取教训，这比过度保护更有益于他们的成长。
总而言之，作为父母，我们要做的不是消除所有风险，而是帮助孩子学会应对风险。
Echo Charles: (无发言)
德国听众: 我是一位40岁的德国男性，有两个孩子，我担心他们会因为疾病或意外事故而发生意外。这种担忧一直存在，并影响着我的日常生活。虽然我通过心理治疗、锻炼和纪律来管理我的焦虑症，但我仍然难以放下这种担忧，尤其是在孩子们独自上学、玩耍或外出时。
Deep Dive
This chapter explores the balance between protecting children and allowing them to experience life's risks. It delves into the potential negative effects of overprotection, such as stunted development and rebellion.
- Parental anxiety about children's safety is common and often healthy.
- Overprotecting children can lead to them developing irrational fears or rebelling.
- Children need to experience some risks to develop resilience and life skills.
- It's important to focus on what can be controlled, such as teaching children situational awareness and decision-making.
- Extreme protective measures can negatively impact a child's development and freedom.
- Parents should aim for a balanced approach, allowing children to encounter manageable risks.
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