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First Love Mixtape: Side A (Encore)

2025/5/28
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Lisa Selin Davis: 在我16岁那年夏天,在父亲的建议下,我做着艰苦的体力劳动,渴望着爱情。我遇到一个摇滚男孩,并深深被他吸引。我试图通过讲述自己的叛逆行为来吸引他的注意,但没有成功。后来,我鼓起勇气接近他,我们开始约会。他让我感受到被真正理解和接受的爱,就像Lou Reed的《I'll Be Your Mirror》歌词一样,他能看到我最羞耻的地方,并爱着这样的我。这首歌教会我,真正的爱是接受和欣赏对方的全部。 Mia Lee: Bob Dylan的《Don't Think Twice, It's All Right》在我16岁时教会了我关于爱的真谛。当时我正与我的高中男友分手,这首歌表达了对一段没有真正了解对方的感情的哀悼。虽然那可能不是最深刻的爱,但它仍然很有意义。这首歌成为了我的主题曲,帮助我度过了那段艰难的时期。 Dan Jones: 电影《Saturday Night Fever》及其主题曲《Staying Alive》在我16岁时给我带来了深刻的冲击。这部电影充满了性和性别颠覆,让我对世界有了新的认识。我当时甚至不知道“性别”这个词是什么意思,但这部电影让我感受到了前所未有的性和自由。它打破了我从小到大所感受到的束缚,让我看到了更多可能性。 Anna Martin: Billy Joel的《Just the Way You Are》在我16岁时教会了我关于爱。我曾经为了迎合别人而不断改变自己,但这首歌告诉我,我不需要这样做。Billy Joel唱道,他的爱人不需要改变她的外貌或她的谈吐,他爱她本来的样子。这首歌让我意识到,真正的爱是接受和欣赏对方的全部,而不是试图改变对方。

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Lisa Selin Davis recounts her teenage summer romance, intertwined with Lou Reed's "I'll Be Your Mirror." The song's message of acceptance resonated deeply as she navigated a challenging job and a first love that taught her about self-acceptance and the transformative power of love.
  • Lou Reed's "I'll Be Your Mirror" as a soundtrack to first love
  • Summer romance at 16
  • Healing through love and self-acceptance

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This episode of “Modern Love” features Lisa Selin Davis’s essay “What Lou Reed Taught Me About Love).” She writes about how the song “I’ll Be Your Mirror)” became the soundtrack to her summer romance with a floppy-haired “rocker kid” who inadvertently helped her find healing. Then, we hear from some members of the “Modern Love” team about the songs that influenced them as teenagers and about the memories — funny, empowering, nostalgic — that they carry with them.

Stay tuned for next week’s episode, where we’ll hear from our listeners about the songs that taught them about love.

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