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How to Be a REAL Success (Part 1)

2024/10/16
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John Maxwell: 真正的成功并非单打独斗,良好的人际关系至关重要。人们只有在你与他们相处融洽的情况下才会支持你。成功的关键在于培养他人,提升自身能力的同时,也要帮助团队成员共同成长。只有领导者不断提升自我,才能带领团队走向更高的目标。 John Maxwell还提出了一个五步人才培养法:1. 我先做;2. 我做,你跟着我一起做;3. 你做,我跟着你一起做;4. 你自己做;5. 你做,并且带着别人一起做。只有这样才能实现人才培养的良性循环,最终实现团队的持续发展。 Mark Cole: John Maxwell的成功公式包含四个方面:人际关系、培养他人、态度和领导力。如何处理好这四个方面,是决定一个人能否成功的关键。在人际关系方面,要平衡好受欢迎程度和领导力之间的关系,既要与人相处融洽,又要能够有效地领导团队。 Chris Robinson: 在人际关系方面,要积极主动地与他人建立联系,并努力解决人际冲突。如果与某人相处不融洽,要积极寻找原因,并尝试解决问题。有时候,问题可能出在价值观差异上,也可能出在个人风格差异上。重要的是要保持开放的心态,尊重彼此的差异。 Chris Robinson还分享了他与团队成员之间相处的故事,说明了积极沟通和相互理解的重要性。通过深入了解彼此的性格和工作方式,可以有效地解决人际冲突,并建立良好的合作关系。

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Why is it important to have good relationships in leadership?

Good relationships are crucial in leadership because people won’t go along with you unless they get along with you. Your success is largely determined by your ability to connect with others, add value to them, and build positive relationships.

Why should leaders be intentional about adding value to others?

Leaders should be intentional about adding value to others because it requires a shift from a naturally selfish mindset to a giving one. Intentionally adding value helps build positive relationships and makes others feel valued, which is essential for success.

Why is equipping others important for a leader's success?

Equipping others is important because your people can only grow to the level that you grow. By developing yourself and then training others, you compound your success, influence, and financial gains. Equipping others also helps them reach their full potential and contribute more effectively to the organization.

What are the five steps John Maxwell uses to equip others?

The five steps are: 1) I do it, 2) I do it and you are with me, 3) You do it and I am with you, 4) You do it, 5) You do it and someone is with you. These steps ensure that the person being equipped learns through observation, practice, and eventually becomes a leader who can equip others.

Why is it important for leaders to sometimes choose leading over being loved?

Leaders must sometimes choose leading over being loved because the higher the responsibility, the more difficult decisions they will face. Effective leadership sometimes requires making tough, unpopular decisions for the greater good of the organization or team.

How can leaders handle toxic relationships in the workplace?

Leaders should identify the root cause of why they don't get along with someone. If it's a values mismatch, they should consider distancing themselves. If it's a stylistic difference, they should embrace diversity and work on understanding the other person’s perspective. Resolving these issues can lead to better relationships and outcomes.

Why is empowerment a challenge for some leaders?

Empowerment can be challenging because leaders often want to stay involved and may feel the need to show how excited they are about their team's success. However, this can sometimes diminish the perceived empowerment of the team members. Effective empowerment involves giving complete responsibility and allowing team members to feel the weight and celebrate the results on their own.

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In this episode, leadership expert John Maxwell shares the first two of four transformative lessons that can significantly improve your life and leadership. Drawing from his years of experience and learning from leaders ahead of him, John reveals actionable insights to elevate your personal growth.  Following John's lesson, Mark Cole and Chris Robinson discuss the valuable leadership principles they've learned from John and their own leadership journeys. They also offer practical tips that you can immediately apply to enhance your life and leadership.  Key takeaways:  People won’t go along with you unless they get along with you. 

 To be highly successful, you have to equip other people. 


 Your people can only grow to the level that you grow. 


Our BONUS resource for this episode is the How to Be a REAL Success Worksheet, which includes fill-in-the-blank notes from John’s teaching. You can download the worksheet by visiting  MaxwellPodcast.com/RealSuccess) and clicking “Download the Bonus Resource.” 
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