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Sorting Through Conflict with Your Teen

2025/2/11
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Danny Huerta
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Jim Daly
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Jodie Berndt
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John Fuller: 作为家长,我经常对青少年冲突的起因感到惊讶和措手不及。孩子们在青少年时期会面临各种各样的问题,这些问题常常让我感到难以应对。我一直在努力学习如何更好地与孩子们沟通,并在冲突发生时保持冷静和理智。我希望能够更多地了解青少年的想法和感受,从而更好地帮助他们度过这个特殊的时期。 Danny Huerta: 我认为青少年时期并非总是充满冲突,有些青少年更容易产生冲突。以我的经验来看,女儿在青少年时期开始注重穿着打扮,这是她希望融入同龄群体的一种方式。作为父亲,我需要引导她如何在追求时尚的同时,保持适度和尊重。那次经历让我反思了界限的意义,以及如何更好地与孩子沟通这些界限。 Jim Daly: 我认为青少年与父母产生冲突是健康和自然的,这是他们逐渐走向独立的过程。作为父母,我们很难放手,总是想控制孩子的一切。但我们需要认识到,孩子有自己的想法和选择,我们应该给予他们适当的自由和信任。当然,这并不意味着我们完全放任不管,而是在必要时给予指导和支持。 Jodie Berndt: 我认为父母需要明白,冲突是家庭生活中不可避免的一部分。当冲突发生时,父母不应该感到失败或孤单,而应该以积极的态度去面对和解决。在处理青少年冲突时,谦逊和信任是非常重要的品质。父母要承认自己并不总是正确的,要倾听孩子的想法和感受,并给予他们尊重和理解。同时,父母也要信任上帝,相信祂会帮助他们度过难关。

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This chapter explores the common conflicts that arise during the teenage years, highlighting the unexpected nature of some issues and the importance of adjusting to the changes in a teenager's life. It emphasizes that conflict is not always a bad thing and that it's essential to anticipate and prepare for these challenges.
  • Teenage conflict is common and often unexpected.
  • Conflicts arise from various sources, including clothing choices, helping around the house, and smartphone usage.
  • It's important for parents to adjust to the changes and challenges that come with teenagers.

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Conflict is one of the more challenging aspects of raising teenagers. Jodie Berndt and Jim Daly bring up how you can deal with conflict well when tensions are high with your teen. Plus, Danny and John share about the need for humility when communicating with your teenager.

 

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