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Most Divorce is Unnecessary

2025/6/5
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Angela
一位年轻的麦克阿瑟奖获得者，通过戏剧和小说探索局外人、文化冲突和阶级冲突的主题。
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考虑多样化投资以减少风险，特别是当持有大量单一股票时。
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Dr. Laura: 我认为，婚姻中没有两个人是完全匹配的。那些看起来已经结婚很久的老夫妇，他们的秘诀在于学会放手，忍受那些无法改变的事情。很多现代夫妻因为一些问题选择离婚，但其实他们可以通过努力来克服。离婚对孩子来说是残酷的，所以我们应该尽力挽救婚姻。一味地抱怨和指责只会让情况更糟，回忆过去的美好时光能让夫妻关系更亲近。很多时候，夫妻之间的问题并非不可解决，关键在于双方是否愿意反思自身的问题，并为婚姻付出努力。所谓的“不再相爱”往往是因为双方没有为婚姻付出努力，而只是找了一个借口。大多数离婚是不必要的，不要因为懒惰而抛弃美好的婚姻。应该尝试倾听而不是指责，很多离婚理由是可以解决的，例如金钱问题、精神问题、缺乏关注等。与朋友抱怨会强化负面情绪，导致夫妻关系恶化。应该思考如何让自己成为更好的配偶，并采取行动。 Tracy: 我想分享我的经历。曾经，我因为丈夫的抑郁症而想要离开他。但是，当我开始听Dr. Laura的节目后，我决定改变自己。我开始对丈夫友善和尊重，让他发表自己的意见。结果，他的情绪得到了改善，我们的婚姻也变得美好了。我们再次拥有了性生活，我们彼此相爱，我们把彼此放在第一位。即使在疫情期间，我们也能一起度过难关。我非常感谢Dr. Laura，她帮助我挽救了我的婚姻。 Angela: 我想分享我的故事。我和丈夫结婚19年了，但我们一直假装一切都好。我们无法在沟通上达成一致，但我们都爱我们的孩子，我们希望一切都能好起来。Dr. Laura建议我变得更友善，不要提高嗓门，要赞美、微笑、拥抱和倾听。我意识到我一直很忙碌，缺乏耐心，容易对丈夫感到恼火。我决定改变自己，努力让丈夫快乐。我相信我的婚姻会好起来的。

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The podcast starts by contrasting the seemingly effortless long-lasting marriages with the high divorce rate today, suggesting that many divorces are avoidable. Dr. Laura aims to provide guidance on saving marriages.
  • Many couples who stay married have issues that would lead to divorce today.
  • The key to marital success is learning to let things go and work through issues.

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When you see a cute old couple who looks like they’ve been married 120 years, wrinkled, hunched over, walking down the street holding hands, you may be tempted to think they had some kind of special luck to make it together for that long. But, no two people are completely compatible. NONE. If you were to ask them what the key to their marital success has been, they’d likely tell you that they learned to let a lot of stuff go. They endured and maybe even ignored the things that weren’t going to change. They may have had issues that would lead a lot of today’s couples to divorce, but they found a way to work through them. And in this Deep Dive, I want to teach you how to do the same so that you can save your marriage.

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