The hosts participated in a podcast event in Chengdu where they discussed the topic of 1/0 roles in male homosexual relationships. They felt the discussion was incomplete and wanted to explore it further in a full episode.
In the early days of the LGBTQ+ community in China, roles were described as 'active' and 'passive' rather than 1/0. The concept of 1/0 became more prominent with the rise of internet forums and dating websites, where individuals were often asked to identify as 1 or 0.
Societal stereotypes often equate the 1 role with masculinity and the 0 role with femininity, mirroring traditional heterosexual gender roles. This leads to discrimination against those who identify as 0, as they are often seen as less masculine or inferior.
The stigma stems from societal norms that associate femininity with weakness and masculinity with strength. Being a '0' is often seen as adopting a 'feminine' role, which is devalued in patriarchal societies, leading to internalized shame and discrimination.
The term 'side' refers to individuals who do not identify strictly as 1 or 0 and may not engage in penetrative sex. It represents a shift away from traditional roles, emphasizing emotional and mental compatibility over physical roles.
In the past, more effeminate or androgynous men were often idealized in homosexual relationships. However, in recent years, there has been a shift towards valuing more traditionally masculine traits, such as physical strength and ruggedness, influenced by global trends like superhero culture.
Societal conditioning heavily influences preferences, as individuals are often taught to value traits that align with traditional gender roles. This can lead to a preference for masculine traits in male partners, as they are associated with strength and dominance.
The fear or discomfort arises from cognitive dissonance, where individuals struggle to reconcile the contradiction between a man's physical appearance and his feminine traits. This can lead to feelings of unease or fear due to the disruption of societal norms.
The 'Pà ěr duō' stereotype refers to men in Chengdu who are perceived as submissive or henpecked by their wives. This stereotype has historical roots and is often used humorously, but it also reflects broader societal attitudes towards gender roles and masculinity.
The hosts believe that role dynamics in homosexual relationships should be fluid and not strictly defined by traditional 1/0 roles. They advocate for greater flexibility and openness, allowing individuals to explore different roles based on their preferences and the needs of their relationships.
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主播:大牛 ,李乐,丹丹
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00:31 三位主播为什么要录这么一期播客
04:00 “你是小依还是小琳?“三个主播的自我认知居然大不同
16:39 为什么承认自己是小琳这么难!?
23:20 几种组合,风评如此不一样?
28:17 三位主播能不能接受“有女性气质”的男生?
34:15 txl的关系就是男女关系?
42:40 C'est trop dûr d'être xiaolin
51:55 为什么说成都的小琳有双重“buff”
55:37 为啥之前我们喜欢清秀美少年,而现在却喜欢壮硕糙大汉?
67:16 三位主播里面谁是side?以及side是个啥?
72:07 好物推荐
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丹丹:美食-芙蓉凰
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李乐:美食-老菜谱