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vol.24 女生专属性教育特辑 | 让我们科学健康地,为自我愉悦鼓掌

2024/10/1
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叶文洁
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霞玲:本期节目旨在探讨女性如何安全获得愉悦体验,成为自身身体的主体,并正视社会价值观对女性性观的束缚。节目中也呼吁平台对节目尺度更宽容,传递正能量。 追追:作为80后,我们缺乏性教育,而00后一代虽然接触到更多信息,但仍存在知识断层和观念误区。 叶文洁:作为00后情趣用品公司运营和性自修学士,我希望能分享更多关于女性性健康的知识,帮助女性正视自身性需求,打破社会对女性性欲的压抑。我分享了自己的经历,包括童年时期对性反应的羞耻感,以及成年后遭遇的妇科炎症和对性安全的重视。我强调女性应拥有对自身身体的主体意识,了解自身生理结构,并学会在亲密关系中表达自身需求。 叶文洁:在性愉悦方面,女性应先了解自身生理结构,例如G点等敏感部位,并可借助情趣用品辅助。同时,女性应在亲密关系中主动表达自身需求,避免被动等待。性与爱并非完全一体,性可以独立存在,但前提是双方互相尊重和沟通,并采取安全措施。 霞玲:女性应重视自身在性体验中的愉悦感受,并积极表达需求。在亲密关系中,双方应关注彼此感受,共同创造愉悦体验。 叶文洁:我分享了自己在亲密关系中遇到的问题,以及由此引发的对性爱分离的思考。我尝试过FWB关系,并认为性与爱可以分离,但前提是双方互相尊重和沟通,并采取安全措施。 叶文洁:在性体验中,女性可能会遇到疼痛或不愉悦等问题,例如干涩等。这些问题可能源于生理或心理因素,建议使用润滑剂等辅助工具,并寻求专业医生的帮助。女性应正视自身性健康问题,不要羞于就医。 霞玲:女性应正视妇科疾病,不要将其与性生活污名化。克服对妇科检查的恐惧,需要了解自身并非个例,并选择合适的就医环境。在性体验中,双方应放松并进行沟通,必要时寻求专业医生的帮助。

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Why is it important for women to understand their own bodies in the context of sexual pleasure?

Understanding one's own body allows women to communicate their needs effectively in intimate relationships, ensuring they experience pleasure rather than just serving their partner's desires. This self-awareness helps break the societal norm that women should be passive recipients in sexual experiences.

What are some common misconceptions about women and sexual health?

A common misconception is that women who experience sexual pleasure or use sex toys are promiscuous or morally questionable. Additionally, many believe that gynecological issues are directly linked to sexual activity, which is not always the case, as conditions like yeast infections are often related to hygiene and immunity rather than sexual behavior.

How can women ensure their sexual health and safety?

Women can ensure sexual health by using protection like condoms to prevent STDs, getting regular gynecological check-ups, and using home testing kits for diseases like HPV, HIV, and syphilis. It's also important to communicate openly with partners about sexual health and to use lubrication to prevent discomfort and condom breakage.

What role does societal perception play in women's sexual experiences?

Societal perceptions often stigmatize women's sexual autonomy, labeling them as 'selfish' if they seek personal pleasure. This stigma can lead to guilt and shame, preventing women from exploring their sexuality freely and openly discussing their needs in relationships.

What are some effective methods of contraception for women?

Effective contraceptive methods include condoms, which also protect against STDs, short-term hormonal pills, contraceptive injections, and intrauterine devices (IUDs). Each method has its own benefits and risks, and women should consult healthcare providers to choose the best option based on their health and lifestyle.

How can women overcome discomfort during sexual experiences?

Women can overcome discomfort by using lubricants to reduce dryness and pain, communicating openly with their partners about their needs, and seeking medical advice if they experience persistent pain or other symptoms that could indicate a health issue.

What is the significance of self-pleasure for women?

Self-pleasure allows women to explore their bodies and understand what brings them pleasure, which can enhance their sexual experiences with partners. It also helps in breaking the taboo around female sexuality and promotes a healthier, more positive view of sexual self-expression.

How can women navigate the stigma around gynecological health?

Women can navigate the stigma by educating themselves about gynecological health, seeking supportive healthcare providers, and discussing their experiences openly with trusted friends or support groups to normalize these conversations and reduce feelings of shame or embarrassment.

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本节围绕性健康与安全展开讨论,包括疾病预防、避孕方式、妇科病就医经验分享等,强调女性作为性主体的权利和意识。
  • 性传播疾病的预防和检测,包括HPV检测
  • 避孕方法的介绍和选择,包括避孕套、短效避孕药等
  • 妇科疾病的科普和就医建议,以及如何避免因羞耻感而延误治疗

Shownotes Transcript

从做播客起就很想做这样一期节目,为女性朋友们去讲讲这个话题,但一直没有找到合适的嘉宾。终于我们遇见了亲爱的文洁。本期节目从女性如何安全获得愉悦体验,做自己身体的主体进行了探讨,也希望姐妹们能大胆分享自己的疑惑和感受!(正向价值观引导,希望平台多多包容!!!)

我们聊这个话题一方面也是觉得这一类的信息分享比较缺乏,特别是女性在这个话题上有很多难言之隐,也很荣幸遇到文洁mm,把自己经验中学习、探索分享给我们。另一方面我们也想深入交流下女性在面都这个话题背后隐含着社会价值观的束缚,这个“束缚的反面”正是来自几千年父权社会下统治性关系的教化、甚至”剥削“,失去平等对待以及自由体验的权力。我们希望每个女性都能首先对自己的身体和感受负责,勇于表达不必委屈自己讨好他人,在关系和体验中都拥有独立、自由选择的权力。

**本期嘉宾:**叶文洁,00后情趣大厂运营,“性❤️自修学士”

本期shownotes

**03:16 **文洁经历分享:成为情趣大厂运营,让我有更多机会了解性

06:22 part 1:关于安全和健康

**13:43 **疾病预防:可以用试纸测

16:43 避孕的各种方式介绍

23:53 妇科病看病经历分享

31:27 part 2:女性如何获得愉悦

**33:06 **要先了解自己的身体

35:08 一些获得快乐的工具和途径分享

36:48 在亲密关系中去表达自己的需要

41:15 探讨性和爱是否可以分离?

55:33 part 3:遇到障碍或不愉悦的体验怎么办?

**57:13 **干涩:可以用润滑剂

01:00:30 双方太紧张,需要充分放松

01:02:13 要排除病理性的,需要看医生

课外知识分享:

书单:《快乐上等》《神圣的欢爱》