The concept of '偷感' refers to a subtle sense of stealing or borrowing behaviors in various aspects of life, such as secretly learning from others or adopting their methods. It can be seen in small, harmless actions like sneaking in extra study time or adopting workplace techniques from colleagues. While it can be a form of positive learning, it can also manifest negatively in the workplace when taken to extremes.
Director Li is portrayed as a classic example of a workplace 'thief' who covertly takes ideas and credit from others. He avoids admitting his lack of knowledge, secretly listens to others, and uses their ideas as his own. His behavior is characterized by a lack of genuine understanding, leading to awkward and ineffective applications of stolen ideas. This reflects a broader issue in modern workplaces where some individuals prioritize appearances over competence.
Workplace stealing behavior is linked to psychological mechanisms such as identity crisis, defense mechanisms, low self-esteem, and neuroticism. These individuals often struggle with self-identity and may resort to immature defense mechanisms like denial or projection. Their actions are driven by a need to mask insecurities and maintain a facade of competence, often at the expense of genuine collaboration and trust.
The podcast highlights several toxic logical fallacies, including ad hominem attacks, red herrings, straw man arguments, appeals to authority, false dilemmas, and post hoc reasoning. These fallacies are often used in workplace discussions to manipulate, distract, or undermine others. Recognizing these fallacies is crucial for maintaining clear and rational communication in professional settings.
To counter toxic logical fallacies, one should directly point out the fallacy, reveal the actual argument, provide counterexamples, and remain calm and rational. By staying focused on facts and logic, individuals can avoid being manipulated by emotional or misleading arguments. This approach helps maintain clarity and fairness in workplace discussions.
我们两位主播工作十余年,遍阅职场奇葩无数。这回遇到真偷人,还真是开了眼。这一期节目,邀请大家跟我们一起来盘点这些职场真偷人的有毒逻辑。用批判性思维能力,帮助我们在职场防偷防盗防pua!
著名的非形式逻辑学家罗伯特J.古拉(Robert J. Gula)在《有毒的逻辑》一书中,用通俗易懂的语言阐述日常生活中各种滥用逻辑的现象,通过书中大量的实例训练,可以帮助我们获得清晰严谨思考的技能。
01:05 细数生活中的偷感到职场上的真偷人
06:47 职场真偷人:不仅同级会暗戳戳,偷人领导也信奉从别人嘴里扒食吃
24:47 偷摸摸心理大起底:
- 同一性危机
- 心理防御机制
- 自卑感
- 神经官能症导致的合作困难
43:39 职场真偷人的有毒逻辑:
- 人身攻击(Ad Hominem)
- 分散注意力(Fallacies of Distraction)
- 红鲱鱼( ignoratio elenchi )
- 稻草人谬误(Straw Man)
- 诉诸权威(Appeal to Authority)
- 虚假的两难(False Dilemma)
- 因果关系错误(Post Hoc, Ergo Propter Hoc)
62:05 看穿有毒逻辑的深刻影响,掌握沟通优势,逃离感性语言、暗示等手段的操控
74:35 有毒逻辑的应对策略
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《有毒的逻辑》,罗伯特J.古拉
《我们内心的冲突》,卡伦·霍妮
《童年与社会》,埃里克·埃里克森
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