230. What is Mentoring? What is a Mentor? // Mentoring Minute
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All of us are here today because of our relationship with “that person”. You know, the one who made a profound impact on your life. For me, a few men made me who I am today. 

It was a man named Bob who invested into me when I was in college and helped me see my need for Jesus. It was a man named John who discipled me and taught me how to read the scriptures. It was a man named Steve who showed me the father heart of God and helped me overcome my fatherless past. 

Who got you to where you are today? Who has invested into you?

Whether it was a parent, professor, coach, or someone else, all of us are who we are today because of the investment of others.

You are here today to learn how to invest into others. You could be “that person” for your future mentee. 

There are million of kids today who could use a positive adult to come alongside them to support and love them. Some of our kids are dealing with some pretty tough challenges, such as fatherlessness, poverty, and abuse. Others could use another adult to comfort them during hard times and to pick them up when they fall down. We all could use as much encouragement as we can get. 

We believe that is the job of a mentor: 

• To make a disciple: “Follow me as a follow Christ.” 1 Corinthians 11:1

• A disciple is a follower. You follow Christ and your mentee gets the opportunity follow you. 

• Kids will experience Jesus as they experience you. What an amazing opportunity to show them the love of Christ through your relationship. You get to teach them with your words and show them with your actions what it means to follow Jesus Christ. 

• The bible tells us to love God, love others, and make disciples. 

• You love God. Mentoring is an excellent way to love others. And you have the joy to disciple them by creating a relationship based on trust, grace, and truth. 

• To fulfill potential: “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6

• We want to be a support and guide as your mentee grows and matures. Our desire is to offer wisdom and instruction when they face obstacles in their journey. As they trek down this path of life, we are on the sidelines championing them. We have the opportunity to teach tangible skills, as well as how to navigate the emotional, mental, and relationsal twists and turns of life.

A mentor’s job description:

SHOW UP: Showing up is the most important thing you can do as a mentor. How do you build any successful relationship? You spend time with that person.You learn new things about them and you experience life with them. You make them feel important. You make them feel valued. You make them feel like you matter. And you do that by showing up.

BUILD UP: Our desire is for our mentors to speak truth into the lives of our mentee. We want our mentors to encourage our mentees with every word that comes out of their mouth. Our words matter. Our tone matters. Our facial expressions and body language matter. We want our Forerunners to know that their mentors are for them, no matter what.

SHARE JESUS: As a mentor, you cannot give away what you don’t have. More than anything, we want our mentees to love Jesus Christ with all of their hearts. They will learn how to do that by emulating you. We are not here to produce good men. We are here to produce followers of Christ.

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