173. Art of Seduction: How to Get What You Want in Sex Work & In Business
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Hey slots, I've missed you. Today we're talking about the art of seduction and this topic is so near and dear to my heart because before I met the love of my life, I was reading the art of seduction and I firmly believe that seduction

What I digested from reading that book had a pivotal, pivotal play into my overall aura. I was also reading this book when I was a dancer at a strip club, and I also firmly believe it helped me make so much more money. I mean, I was so young when I read this book and it was,

Just really opened my eyes up like I felt like a budding rose to the possibilities of what I could get and earn by using not not just my body, but my intelligence. It wasn't about what I said. It was about how I said it.

So whether you're trying to get what you want in business or in bed, seduction is a powerful and authentic tool that can help you achieve your goals. So let's get into it.

the psychology of seduction. This has so much to do with the role of dopamine and oxytocin. So what is seduction really? It's not just about getting someone to do what you want, but it's about creating a sense of anticipation and excitement. And did you know that our brains are wired to respond to seduction?

When we're seduced, our brains release the dopamine, the oxytocin, these chemicals which create a sense of pleasure, a sense of bonding. It's like a natural high.

And I always say in business, it's not about what you sell. It's about how the product makes the customer feel because it's the feeling that makes you really remember something. Like when you go to a concert, sometimes you may not even remember what songs were played, but you'll always remember how the concert made you feel. So creating anticipation and excitement.

This is the importance of tease and building tension. And I remember the word play before I would try to get someone to take a dance with me in the back room at the club. And my name was Kitty. And I say this all the time, but...

One of my lines was, you know, are you into good kitty or bad kitty? And immediately I would know which route to take with my wordplay. They were just telling me exactly what I needed to know to really rope them in. So how do we create this sense of anticipation and excitement? It's all about teasing. It's all about building that tension. So

Think about a dancer's performance. We don't jump into the act. We build up to it. That there's a reason why the first song they're clothed and the second song they're not.

Typically. So creating a sense of anticipation and excitement in the audience is so critical. It's the art of the striptease. I always would tell my friends like dance, not just slower, but 10 times super slow-mo. Not only are you saving energy, but the buildup is so much more intense.

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What's something that works so well that's basically magic? Selling with Shopify. Now back to the show. So when we finally deliver, it's like this release, this explosion of all that built up energy. I mean, similar to an orgasm. It's the same in business and in bed because by building that excitement, we can get what we want and also have a hell of a lot of fun doing it.

So seduction in business, you know, creating a sense of anticipation towards sales, new product releases, and just an overall excitement about what you have to offer. So how do we apply it in business? It's really about creating a hype. Think about like a countdown to a product launch. You build up to it. You offer giveaways. You give this sense of excitement.

Just like, oh my God, I have to have this. There's a limited quantity. It's, you know, one of one. And when you finally launch, it's like this release of all the built up energy. You use the seduction to the audience to get what you want, whether it's sales, closing a deal or launching a new product.

like think about if you were a realtor and you have a client who's wanted the perfect house, you know, and you found one that hits all their boxes. So, you know, you give them a call and you're like, it has the pool. It has the, the kitchen you want. It has the open floor plan. Like there's so much wordplay to ensue to really get them hyped up before that, that balloon just pops before they get into the house and you seal the deal. Yeah.

So seduction in bed, of course, we can't forget about seduction in bed. It's all about creating a sense of anticipation with your partner. I mean, foreplay is there for a reason. So think about the striptease. You build up to it. You know, you might take a bra strap down, but then you pull it back up. You create this sense of anticipation with your partner. And when you finally deliver, you

the release is just huge. You can really use seduction to get what you want, whether it's just a night of passion or a long-term commitment. And honestly, if you read The Art of Seduction, you will see this dance that you take your words into the clouds and you really tug and pull. And it's not like...

you know these days how I feel like the youngins play games you know when they're getting to know each other I feel like with the art of seduction it's much more thoughtful it's much more intentional and I again it's a really fun book the um the art of seduction it's written by Robert Greene and Robert Greene has also written I believe the art of war

He's also written Mastery, The 48 Laws of Power. You've definitely, you know, some of these books are controversial, but I feel like they are very intuitive to the psyche. And if you know and understand how, like I said, not what you say, but how you say it, and when you can read the room,

when you can read your partner's body language, it only makes it that much easier to know what you want to say or how to say it or how to use your body to express it. Sometimes it's just about pausing before you say something. Sometimes it's about listening more. Sometimes it's about appearing unavailable, you

You know, like I said, some people would say it's playing games, but I think there's an art to it and I've done correctly. I mean, me, me, I've been with my guy over a decade now, so I think it's, it really worked for me.

Oh my goodness. So thank you for tuning in sluts. Today we learned about the art of seduction, including how to create a sense of anticipation and excitement. Now remember, this is a powerful tool. It can help you get what you want, but be careful with it. I love you guys and I will see you on next week's episode. Bye-bye now.

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