174. How to Give the Best Blow Job: Secrets From The Deep Throat
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Hey slutchpreneurs and all my professional goddesses, this episode was a requested one about how to give the best fucking blowjob. Oh boy. Are you a seasoned pro or are you just starting out? Because this episode's for you. And if you don't like dicks, then this episode's not for you. So let's get into it.

Before we get into the nitty gritty, let's talk about some basics. You guys, communication and consent are obviously very key when it comes to blowjobs. Make sure you're both on the same page about what you're comfortable with. And don't be afraid to ask for feedback. And of course, always prioritize your partner's pleasure and safety.

You know, I think consent can actually be really sexy for both partners. When you're about to take his cock out and you're like, wait, are you sure you want this? Or would you love a blowjob for me? Like those things to me, like hearing the guy say he wants it from you turns me the fuck on.

And also maybe you're sucking a strap on like whatever floats your boat and asking for feedback is also really nice too, because a lot of guys may be insecure about giving feedback. They could feel like it's like shaming the person doing it or saying they're a bad job. But like when, when,

When my guy's eating me out, like I am very firm in what I want. I am like slow the fuck down, you know, go up a little bit. Like sometimes giving that communication is so good because then you're going to kind of train them to what floats your boat and you're going to orgasm a lot more intensely and deeper. So never be shy to ask for feedback. You know, it's like, is the temperature okay? Is my speed good? Do you like it? Are you enjoying yourself?

I think it's very sexy. Do not be afraid to speak up. And some people do not like talking so much during sex. And maybe they just haven't practiced it. Or it's something they feel like isn't emulated in porn. Because remember, guys watch a lot of porn. And sometimes they just emulate what they see. And not everyone enjoys super aggressive sex and whatnot. Like pound town. And I think it's important to...

to consider and learn what someone may or may not like, because a lot of the times we don't even know what we like and that takes practice and being open-minded and going outside of the box. So let's talk about some techniques, some tips. Now that we've got the basics covered of talking about the blow job, let's get into the pace and the pressure because sometimes it's fun to keep your partner guessing and

and make sure they're not getting too comfortable. Like think about when you're listening to a song, it might start slow. It gets a little faster, gets into the chorus, but then it dips back down. Think about that when you're stroking his trombone, try using different strokes like fluttering or sliding. Don't be afraid to mix it up.

Me personally, I like to only start with the tip for quite some time. I mean, I want him to basically beg me to touch his shaft.

I want to swirl my tongue around the tip. I want to use my thumb going up and down just the front of like where the shaft meets the tip and then I'm gonna move my pointer finger to the other side that's closest to him and just rub that little spot where the tip meets the shaft. It's kind of like a ribbed area and

And it's just, it's such a fucking tease because there's a lot of nerve endings right there. And then maybe instead of stroking the whole thing with my hand, maybe I'm going to touch my thumbnail to my pointer fingernail and kind of make like, you know, if you're making like an okay sign with your hand and I'm just going to go like slide up and down over the tip of

with that circle I've created with my thumb and my pointer finger and still just using my tongue a little bit on the tip, but now that it's nice and wet and moist, just stroking it with just those two fingers. Oh, so lightly. It's going to literally drive him crazy because when you want him to come and your mouth sore and you're tired, then that's when you can

bring out both hands and, you know, swirl them both up and down on the shaft. But I like to take as much time as I can, just working the tip, spitting on it, looking up at him and using my words to tell him how beautiful his cock is. Oh my God, it's so hard. Oh my God, it's throbbing, like taking my mouth off of it from time to time to express that.

and blowing on it oh so gently, especially if it's like a little too slobbery. And I'm sure guys will say it can never be too slobbery, but sometimes just the sensation of blowing on it when it's wet at the tip can really intensify how they feel.

I feel like a blowjob is not a blowjob without the hands. Like I feel like the hands are so critical. So let's get into some advanced techniques. I feel like when you're feeling confident in your blowjob skills, you can really kind of think outside the box and take it to the next level and not test their boundaries, but obviously ask them, Hey, is it okay if I tickle down here a little bit?

But deep throating is part of the art of blowjobs. Now I'm going to be honest with you guys. Excuse me. When I'm talking so much and I'm not taking in enough oxygen, I tend to yawn. It's not that I'm bored. Trust me. I love talking about this.

But I am not a fan of deep throating. Like I feel like everyone's throats are just built different and I'm not trying to literally throw up on someone's dick. If I'm lacking spit, I will definitely shove it down harder to produce the saliva. But that's why I really take pride in my hand skills because I feel like I don't have to go so deep, um,

So with that being said, I know deep throating takes practice, breathe through your nose. And a lot of it's about angle. You know, there's been times I love doing this on vacation because the dogs aren't around and usually the bed's like super clean in a hotel and stuff. But like, I love laying on my back on the bed and having my head hang off of the bed. So think about like the Shavasana pose in yoga, like you're just laying flat on the bed, but your head is hanging off.

Now open your throat and have your guy come up to your mouth. So he's kind of standing above you. You're basically like upside down and see how that angle works for deep throating. I think he'll really enjoy it.

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So I want to talk about stimulating your partner's balls or his P spot. That's going to give him some extra pressure down there to finish off that blow job. This is my secret. This is my creme de la creme. You guys, you have his cock in your mouth. Maybe you have your left hand on the shaft squeezing it.

Remember when there's some constriction at the base of it, even if you just want to squeeze the very base of it where it meets his balls, all that tightness and constriction is going to increase his blood flow. It's going to increase his orgasm. It's going to love it.

So make sure to put, give some squeezes in there from time to time. And if he's comfortable with trying a cock ring, that's exactly what a cock ring does. That's one of my favorite sex tools for men because it will increase the orgasm. Like I just mentioned, and it's a very non intimidating toy. It doesn't even look like a sex toy at

Um, so that can be placed at the bottom of his shaft, or you can stretch it open and include his balls in the, where the cock ring squeezes. You don't want the ring on the balls. You want it underneath at the base. And you can find photos of that, or just look up how to put on a cock ring, um,

But if you guys end up having sex, that increased blood flow to his cock is going to make his cock feel like it's throbbing more, like it's thicker, like it's fuller. So you're going to enjoy that as well. So it's a win-win situation. So let's talk about the P spot. The P spot, and I probably read this in like Marie Claire when I was, shouldn't have been reading it.

It's between, it's the skin between the balls and his asshole. Don't be afraid. Even if it's a little hairy back there, don't be, don't be shy girl, because seeing how he comes, you, you gonna feel something after this. So lick your thumb, you know, like just give it a little bit of moisture and

Go like you got your left hand on the shaft. You got your mouth on the cock. You're sucking it. You're twisting it. Now, after you've licked your thumb,

go underneath him. You can even like use your left hand to pull his balls towards you, not pull, but just like move them towards you. And then circle that little area. Like I said, his ball sack skin is very sensitive. It's probably thin and you know, it hasn't seen a touch of sun, touch of sunshine ever. So it's sensitive. It's fragile, but circle, like apply a little bit of pressure right there and just circle it.

in between, like, if he's like, don't touch my ass, then don't touch his ass. Even though he probably don't know how good it feels, but don't touch it. I'm not going to touch it. I'm just going to touch right above it. And once he feels that pressure right there, it's literally like a button of pleasure.

Okay. Now, if you want to take it up a notch, you know, lick your pointer finger on your right hand and tickle around his asshole, maybe grace over it, maybe put pressure on it and say, look, I'm not going in it. I'm not, I promise you that, but I'm just going to like literally the wetter your finger is the better. Oh, he's gonna love it.

Now, maybe your hand is dry, your right hand, tickle his balls, like squeeze on one and squeeze on the other. And then pop one in your mouth, pop the other one in your mouth, pop both in your mouth.

Like the balls, when they get up in the stomach, like they want to come so bad. So like with your mouth, pull them out of his stomach. That makes sense. So lots of excitingness underneath the cock. There's so much to play around with, to edge him. And it's going to be the most memorable blow job of his life.

Now, the convenience of blowjobs is really important to me, especially in marriage. Okay. Especially in long-term relationships, because the thing is they can be simple and easy. If he's had a bad day and you're not really in the mood for sex, you're

This doesn't mean that one of you has to go unsatisfied. A blowjob is a great way to give your partner what they want without having to put in a lot of effort. I know a lot of cam models say like their pussies are sore at the end of the day using toys. And sometimes they just want to go out the way to show their partner affection and that they're special because sometimes guys can feel insecure if you're a sex worker, even as much as they say they aren't. It just...

you know, for the male ego, it's really nice to just give him a little blow job. Let's be real. It's just a great way to get out of having sex when you're not feeling it. And if you look, if you don't want to give him a blow job, you don't fucking have to. But like, I'm telling you, if someone asked me what the secret to marriage was, blow job would be at the top of the list.

Common mistakes. So we've covered the basics and some advanced techniques, my little slots, but what are common mistakes? One of the things that I've experienced is when I'm being too aggressive, definitely in my drinking days, going too fast, going too hard, moving my finger in an area I shouldn't, the off-limits zone. So remember, it's not about forcing your partner's cock down your throat. It's not always about what you see in porn. It's about making them feel good and

Now, the last thing I'll leave you with, the first time I took mushrooms, I was on a houseboat and I wanted to give babe a blowjob. And we watched a porno about an, it was like edging blowjob. And it was like a 30 minute video. And I just emulated everything she did in the video.

And I don't know if it was the mushrooms or the tutorial that was going on, but it was the most satisfying thing. It left my pussy so wet after giving him head like this. So I encourage you to go deeper and look up edging, hand jobs, blow jobs, and, you know, watch and learn. So take your time. Make sure you're not being too rough. Explore the underbelly of the cock and have fun.

There's no right or wrong way. Everyone's different, but consent is key. Exploring your boundaries and exploring what makes you feel good. And in turn, this goes for guys eating pussy too. Maybe we'll do another episode about that. But thanks for listening. I love you guys and I will see you on the next one. Bye-bye now.

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