Shownotes Transcript
Initiating sex is something that a lot of people struggle with. So why is it hard, and how can we make it easier? That’s what we’re talking about in today’s show. In this episode, we’re revisiting a wonderful conversation I had with Vanessa and Xander Marin, the co-hosts of the “Pillow Talks” podcast) and co-authors of the book, Sex Talks: Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life).
Some of the questions we answer include:
Why is initiating sex so hard for so many people?
What are the dos and don’ts of sexual initiation?
How do you figure out your initiation style?
How do you say “no” to a partner’s initiation attempt without hurting their feelings?
Are there ways to encourage your partner to initiate sex more often?
Make sure to check out Vanessa and Xander’s website), and visit their Youtube), Instagram), and TikTok) to learn more. And be sure to get a copy of Sex Talks!)
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