Dysthymia is a persistent, mild form of depression that doesn't lift. It's characterized by a low-grade sadness that doesn't significantly impair daily functioning but creates a constant sense of loneliness and uselessness.
Men may experience dysthymia more frequently due to feelings of uselessness, lack of direction, and weak social connections, which contribute to a persistent low-grade sadness that goes unaddressed in therapy.
Meditation and working out are effective in addressing dysthymia, as they have been clinically shown to improve self-perception and self-worth. Establishing a consistent routine of challenging oneself can also help.
Alexithymia is the inability to describe or recognize one's own emotions. Men with alexithymia may struggle to identify emotions beyond anger, happiness, or sadness, leading to difficulty in articulating feelings and responding appropriately in conversations.
Alexithymia makes it difficult for men to understand and describe their emotions, even though they may still respond to those emotions in conversations. This lack of emotional awareness can lead to inappropriate or unintentional reactions.
Derealization is a feeling that surroundings or experiences aren't real, often triggered by severe anxiety or PTSD. Men may experience it more due to societal conditioning to disconnect from emotions, making derealization a form of ultimate disconnection.
Derealization can be managed by talking to a trusted person about the experience, allowing underlying grief or trauma to surface. This can help release the emotional pressure causing the disconnection and restore a sense of reality.
Talking points: psychology, depression,
These are 3 conditions you may have never heard of before, but based on my experience working with men for 10+ years, they’ve got a significant presence. They’re also under-discussed.
(00:00:00) - Dysthymia, aka low-key depression
(00:04:25) - Alexithymia, when you can't describe emotions
(00:07:06) - Derealization, when nothing feels real
Further Reading
-Dysthymia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysthymia)
-Alexithymia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexithymia)
-Derealization: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Derealization)
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