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3 Mental Health Issues Men Struggle With More Than Women

2024/11/14
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Connor Beaton: 基于十年来与一万五千多名男性会谈的经验,我发现男性更容易遭受三种精神健康问题困扰,这三种问题通常被忽视或未被诊断。首先是忧郁症(Dysthymia),这是一种持续性的轻度抑郁症,患者虽然感到持续的轻微悲伤和孤独,但仍能维持正常生活。许多男性都经历过这种状态,但并未在治疗中得到充分关注。治疗方法包括规律锻炼、冥想和建立积极的日常习惯,同时也要关注童年创伤的影响。 其次是情感表达不能症(Alexithymia),患者难以识别、描述或表达自身情绪,这可能导致行为反应与情绪不符。有些男性只能识别愤怒,有些能识别愤怒、快乐和悲伤,还有一些男性几乎完全无法识别情绪。治疗需要专业人士的帮助,帮助患者连接身体感受,并找到表达方式。 最后是脱现实感(Derealization),患者感觉周围环境或自身经历不真实。这通常是创伤、创伤后应激障碍(PTSD)以及严重焦虑或抑郁的副产品,男性更容易出现这种症状。脱现实感可能是因为未解决的创伤或巨大的悲伤积压,导致精神试图通过“退出现实”来应对。治疗需要与信任的人沟通,释放积压的情绪。

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What is dysthymia and how does it manifest in men?

Dysthymia is a persistent, mild form of depression that doesn't lift. It's characterized by a low-grade sadness that doesn't significantly impair daily functioning but creates a constant sense of loneliness and uselessness.

Why do men often struggle with dysthymia more than women?

Men may experience dysthymia more frequently due to feelings of uselessness, lack of direction, and weak social connections, which contribute to a persistent low-grade sadness that goes unaddressed in therapy.

What are some effective ways to address dysthymia?

Meditation and working out are effective in addressing dysthymia, as they have been clinically shown to improve self-perception and self-worth. Establishing a consistent routine of challenging oneself can also help.

What is alexithymia and how does it affect men?

Alexithymia is the inability to describe or recognize one's own emotions. Men with alexithymia may struggle to identify emotions beyond anger, happiness, or sadness, leading to difficulty in articulating feelings and responding appropriately in conversations.

Why is alexithymia challenging for men in social interactions?

Alexithymia makes it difficult for men to understand and describe their emotions, even though they may still respond to those emotions in conversations. This lack of emotional awareness can lead to inappropriate or unintentional reactions.

What is derealization and why do men experience it more often?

Derealization is a feeling that surroundings or experiences aren't real, often triggered by severe anxiety or PTSD. Men may experience it more due to societal conditioning to disconnect from emotions, making derealization a form of ultimate disconnection.

How can derealization be managed or addressed?

Derealization can be managed by talking to a trusted person about the experience, allowing underlying grief or trauma to surface. This can help release the emotional pressure causing the disconnection and restore a sense of reality.

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Dysthymia is a persistent, mild form of depression that doesn't fully debilitate but impacts daily life. Many men experience this due to feelings of uselessness, lack of direction, and weak connections. The suggested coping mechanisms involve consistent exercise, meditation, and establishing a robust daily routine.
  • Dysthymia is a persistent, mild form of depression.
  • It's characterized by feelings of uselessness, lack of direction, and weak connections.
  • Consistent exercise and meditation are effective coping mechanisms.
  • A robust daily routine is crucial for managing dysthymia.

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Talking points: psychology, depression, 

These are 3 conditions you may have never heard of before, but based on my experience working with men for 10+ years, they’ve got a significant presence. They’re also under-discussed.

(00:00:00) - Dysthymia, aka low-key depression

(00:04:25) - Alexithymia, when you can't describe emotions

(00:07:06) - Derealization, when nothing feels real

Further Reading

-Dysthymia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dysthymia)

-Alexithymia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexithymia)

-Derealization: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Derealization)


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