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A Man's Guide To Inner Child Work

2025/1/23
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Connor Beaton: 我将探讨男性内在小孩疗愈,将其视为‘做父亲’你内心的男孩。父亲的缺失往往是你内在小孩真正需要的。例如,如果你的父亲缺乏边界感,那么你内在小孩就需要你成为一个能够设定边界、说不的人。内在小孩疗愈的核心是连接、理解和调和童年创伤带来的痛苦。这包括那些你试图与之脱节或不知如何处理的创伤、恐惧、未满足的需求以及忽视、遗弃或批评带来的痛苦。 成人关系中的冲突通常与童年的创伤和未满足的需求有关。例如,如果你童年时经常受到母亲的批评,你成年后可能对伴侣的批评非常敏感,难以设定边界。内在小孩疗愈能帮助你处理这些童年创伤,不再将这些痛苦投射到伴侣身上,从而改善人际关系。 内在小孩疗愈还能提升自尊和自我价值感,释放被压抑的创造力和想象力。童年时期,自尊心的发展容易受到批评和负面事件的影响。内在小孩疗愈能帮助你处理这些负面情绪,提升自我价值感。 内在小孩疗愈的方法包括:1. 重新连接内在小孩,回忆童年记忆,了解当时的感受和需求;2. 通过写信或对话的方式与内在小孩沟通,了解其未被满足的需求;3. 重新做父母,满足内在小孩未被满足的需求,例如:同情心、肯定、界限感;4. 为内在小孩创造玩耍和创造的空间;5. 持续反思和记录,必要时寻求专业人士的帮助。 在与内在小孩连接的过程中,你可能会接触到许多负面情绪,例如悲伤、孤独和恐惧。这时,寻求专业人士的帮助非常重要。内在小孩疗愈的最终目标是承认和疗愈你内在小孩的痛苦,并向他传达你能够陪伴他一起面对这些痛苦的信息。

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Talking points: psychology

You've probably seen this idea floating around social media for a while, and it's a solid framework for healing. But what does it actually mean, how does it work, and is it worthwhile if you're a man? This week, let's talk about what inner child work entails.

(00:00:00) - “What’s hidden in the father is revealed in the son”, and what inner child work actually means

(00:10:10) - The main benefits of this kind of work, and where to start

(00:17:35) - Two useful journaling exercises, and how to “father yourself”

(00:24:23) - Next steps


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