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Are You Letting Her Bad Behavior Make YOU The Bad Guy?

2025/5/22
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Connor Beaton: 我观察到，很多男性因为容忍女性的不良行为，最终导致关系破裂。很多女性提出离婚，并非因为男性有多糟糕，而是因为这些好男人缺少了关键的情感控制能力。女性希望被情感上理解，但更重要的是，她们希望男性能够控制自己的情绪，设定清晰的界限，而不是被她们的情绪所左右。如果男性能够以冷静、理智的方式表达自己的底线，女性反而会感到安全和信任。缺乏情感控制的男性会让女性感到不安全，最终导致关系破裂。因此，男性需要提升自己的情感成熟度，掌握自己的情绪，才能建立健康、稳定的关系。

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The podcast explores why many divorces are initiated by women, challenging the assumption that all men in such situations are inherently flawed. It posits that many good men miss a crucial factor leading to relationship breakdown.
  • Many divorces are initiated by women.
  • Good men might miss a crucial factor in relationships.
  • Women often express feeling emotionally unheard or uncared for.

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Talking points: relationships

Yes, that's a provocative title. Yes, listen to the whole thing. No, this isn't men being mad at women. This is what I've seen time and again, plus what I've been told by multiple women and couples I've worked with, and it's something both parties are responsible for.

(00:00:00) - The factor good men are missing

(00:04:24) - Defining “emotional containment”

(00:08:30) - The big caveat, and an example

So like I said, listen to the whole thing.

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