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David Whyte - On Forgiveness, Fear, And Being Fully Human

2025/2/10
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David Whyte: 我认为对话的本质在于内外相遇,这是一种动态的过程,将内在带到外在,外在带到内在。正是在这种相遇中,我们才有可能感受到真正的活力、鲜活,甚至是喜悦。这种喜悦并非源于内在的自我满足,而是在与世界的互动中产生的。这种互动会让我们变得更强大,同时也会舍弃我们身上较小的部分。这种舍弃,就像天主教徒所说的“解脱罪恶”,是一种蜕变,是生命中许多关键门槛的标志。年轻的男性心理可能难以理解这种召唤,但正是这种召唤,引领我们走向真正的自我发现和成长。

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Talking points: masculinity, culture, gratitude, anger, poetry

I don’t typically get starstruck or awed in interviews, even though I’ve talked to many incredible people. But David? Well, he’s had an immense impact on my life, and so much of my work and way of thinking lives inspired by him. He joined me in Seattle and shared so much wisdom, beauty, and of course, poetry. Dig into this one.

(00:00:00) - What is the “conversational nature of reality”, why the unknown is so uncomfortable, and the fear of “descent”

(00:18:44) - How the need for control kills off meaning and purpose, and how real poetry and philosophy come from NOT knowing what to say

(00:25:53) - David reads “Blessing of the Morning Light”

(00:32:42) - How does a man start building a relationship to the unknown parts of himself, and David’s relationship with his father

(00:44:24) - The role of anger and the power of poetry

(00:56:16) - On forgiveness and male friendship

(01:31:57) - How do you properly thank someone who’s had a profound impact on you?

David Whyte is an internationally renowned poet and author, and a scintillating and moving speaker. Behind these talents lies a very physical attempt to give voice to the wellsprings of human identity, human striving and, most difficult of all, the possibilities for human happiness. He draws from hundreds of memorized poems, his own and those of other beloved poets such as Wordsworth, Emily Dickinson, Keats, Pablo Neruda, Fleur Adcock and the sonnets of Shakespeare. He is the author of ten books of poetry, three books of prose on the transformative nature of work; a widely-acclaimed, best-selling book of essays, and an extensive audio collection.

Connect with David

-Website: https://davidwhyte.com/)

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidjwhyte/)

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PoetDavidWhyte/)

-YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@poetdavidwhyte)

-SubStack: https://davidwhyte.substack.com/)


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