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Jason Wilson - Becoming The Man The Moment Demands

2025/1/27
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Jason Wilson: 我从小在社区中受到的教导是,男性不应该对女性温柔,这导致我多年来在尊重女性方面存在问题。我最初认为男性在情感上被囚禁只是一种黑人问题,但后来我发现,各族裔的男性都面临着类似的困境。许多优秀的男人过着不尽人意的生活,因为他们只局限于男性气概的范畴,即提供和保护。我创造了“全能男人”的概念,认为男人应该具备各种特质,能够应对各种情况。男人感到厌倦,因为他们意识到,在虚伪的面具下没有自由,超人披风实际上是在扼杀他们,而不是帮助他们飞翔。许多男人认为自己的价值在于他们所做的事情,而不是他们是谁,这导致他们感到疲惫和空虚。男人应该努力提升自己的价值,但他们的价值不应该仅仅取决于他们的成就。父亲应该肯定儿子的存在本身,而不是仅仅关注他们的成就。许多年轻男性被那些宣扬冷漠和厌恶女性的男性网红所吸引,是因为他们缺乏认同感和归属感。那些看似坚不可摧的男性形象实际上是一种伪装,年轻男性被其吸引是因为它提供了一种安全感。男人不与女性分享情感的部分原因是,一些女性不懂得如何接纳男性情感,甚至会将之武器化。男人应该为了自己而改变,而不是为了取悦他人。我希望更多非裔美国人以外的男性能够了解在非洲裔美国社会中成长的经历,以及历史创伤对非洲裔美国人的影响。逆境是人生中最好的老师,它能磨练人的意志,使人变得更强大。“全能男人”是指那些能够超越男性特质局限,并具备多种特质的男人。现代男性最缺乏的是滋养者和绅士这两个特质。 Connor: (无核心论点,主要与Jason Wilson进行对话和引导讨论)

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Jason discusses how his upbringing in a hyper-masculine Black community influenced his perception of manhood, highlighting the challenges of suppressing emotions and the impact on his relationships with women. He emphasizes the harmful effects of the 'hyper-masculine black male' ideal and the need to unlearn these limiting beliefs.
  • Hyper-masculinity in Black communities, suppressing emotions, harmful impact on relationships, misleading mantras about manhood

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Talking points: masculinity, culture, race

It's always a highlight of my life speaking with Jason. This man and his tireless work shaping comprehensive, authentic men is nothing short of inspiring. Deeply grateful to have sat down with him to dig into the nuances of his new book (out Jan 28!), the manosphere, Black America, and what modern men miss out on. Listen. To. This.

(00:00:00) - How Jason’s environment shaped his perception of manhood, and the challenges of hypermasculinity

(00:11:02) - Jason’s take on the idea that men need to build value because they don’t have any inherently

(00:17:40) - What do young men find appealing about the manosphere, in spite of the reactivity and misogyny?

(00:23:39) - Why men don’t share their emotions with women, and what Jason wishes more non-Black men knew about growing up in Black America

(00:35:09) - Do men need extreme hardship in order to have self-respect?

(00:42:11) - On Jason’s new book and being a Comprehensive Man

(00:50:25) - What aspect of a comprehensive man is missing the most in modern culture?

Jason Wilson is the director of the Cave of Adullam Transformational Training Academy and bestselling author of Cry Like a Man and Battle Cry. Since 2005, Jason has been mentoring boys and young men, teaching them how to rise above life's inevitable challenges. His impactful work earned him the President's Volunteer Service Award from President Obama, and acclaimed actor Laurence Fishburne executive produced the award-winning ESPN Films documentary about Jason's work, titled The Cave of Adullam. He is a man of the Most High, a faithful husband to Nicole, and a devoted father to Alexis and Jason II.

Connect with Jason

-Website: https://mrjasonwilson.com/)

-NEW Book: The Man The Moment Demands: https://mrjasonwilson.com/the-man-the-moment-demands/)

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrjasonowilson)

-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrjasonowilson/)

-YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/MrJasonOWilson)


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