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Why You're Failing With Women: 3 Things To Know

2025/5/8
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我观察到许多男性在与女性建立关系方面遇到困难,这与现代社会对两性关系的期望有关。许多男性秉持着‘妻贤夫荣’的传统观念,认为只要取悦伴侣就能满足自身需求,这导致他们在关系中过度关注女性的需求,而忽略了自己的需求。这种做法会导致男性在关系中感到不满,甚至只能依靠伴侣给予的少量关注和爱意生存。 我建议男性改变这种不平衡的动态。首先,不要为了换取回报而过度付出,要重视自身的需求和期望。其次,要成为女性最好的选择,但不要以此炫耀。真正的王者气质不是征服,而是吸引,是让女性、机遇和友谊主动靠近。最后,要重新设定自身需求和期望的优先级,在关系中表达自己的需求和期望,这并不意味着要以敌对、威胁或强求的方式来表达,而应该以平静、坦诚、关怀和坚定的方式来表达。 重要的是,要从一开始就重视自身的需求和期望,这将有助于建立一个更平衡和健康的关系。如果你们已经建立了长期关系,那么可以逐步地、循序渐进地表达自己的需求和期望。通过这种方式,你可以测试彼此的兼容性,并让伴侣了解你也有自己的需求和期望,你不是一个没有需求和欲望的人。

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Talking points: relationships, mindset

I see so many men struggle with this, without ever knowing why. Part of it's the realities of modern dating, but there's a few things you can do to rise above. Listen in.

(00:00:00) - Here’s the situation

(00:04:32) - Stop overfunding the account in an effort to get something

(00:06:51) - Be her best option, but don’t stuff it in her face

(00:10:55) - Re-prioritize your needs and expectations, and do it like this


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