In Nordic countries, the long, dark winters can lead to increased suicide rates. Christmas decorations, lights, and activities like Christmas markets and community gatherings are organized to combat this. These events foster social interaction, reduce isolation, and create a sense of collective joy, helping to lower the overall depression levels during the harsh winter months.
The hosts reflect on 2024 with keywords like '峰回路转' (twists and turns), '柳暗花明' (light at the end of the tunnel), and '开心' (happiness). They discuss overcoming challenges, career changes, and personal growth. For instance, one host describes a year of job transitions and finding a more fulfilling role, while another shares how moving abroad brought clarity and stability. The third host emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and reducing self-criticism to achieve happiness.
The hosts highlight several favorites: TV shows like '边水往事' (a drama set in a fictionalized version of the Golden Triangle), '影后' (a series about female actors across generations), and '大王别慌张' (a comedic yet thought-provoking show). For movies, they mention '疯狂的麦克斯:狂暴女神' (Mad Max: Fury Road), '乌云背后的幸福线' (Silver Linings Playbook), and '年会不能停' (a workplace comedy). These choices reflect a mix of action, drama, and humor, with a focus on storytelling and emotional impact.
The hosts express mixed feelings about '再见爱人,' a popular reality show about troubled marriages. While it has become a cultural phenomenon, they critique its tendency to reduce complex marital issues to moral judgments and public shaming. They worry about the show's ethical implications, such as how it portrays participants and the potential long-term effects on public discourse about marriage. Despite its success, they question whether it fosters meaningful dialogue or simply exploits personal struggles for entertainment.
The podcast emphasizes the importance of self-care and mental health, particularly in the context of a challenging year. The hosts share personal strategies for managing stress, such as reducing self-criticism, setting realistic goals, and finding joy in small moments. They encourage listeners to prioritize their well-being, especially during busy or difficult times, and to recognize that happiness is not a constant state but a series of moments to be cherished.
不知不觉又到年末,本期是2024年的最后一期节目,也是《不上不下》的保留项目:年末盘点。我们习惯了匆忙度日,也总觉得日子庸常,而回顾的意义就在于带着一种事后的淡定去调取记忆、回味过往。也许会有惊喜,就像从去年冬天的大衣兜里摸出100块现金;也许会欣慰,扛过了一些艰难的时刻;也许会痛苦,只希望时间更快一点,让一切都变得更久远、更模糊才好。不管怎么样,希望大家在忙碌的间隙多关注自己、关心自己、肯定自己。明年的事儿明年再说吧,祝大家圣诞快乐,新年快乐~ 【主播】 小二:30+裸辞欧洲留学中(视频号/小红书/抖音:小二二二在欧洲) 宇山:影视行业从业者 【嘉宾】 一口京腔儿、正在享受年假的蛋蛋 【时间轴】 05:00 此时此刻对圣诞节的不同体感 13:45 圣诞节很可能是北欧人抗抑郁的一种手段 22:10 宇山的2024关键词:峰回路转 26:58 小二的2024关键词:柳暗花明 29:51 蛋蛋的2024关键词:开心 34:01 停止苛责自己是开心的第一步 43:23 年度最爱剧集:《边水往事》、《影后》、《大王别慌张》 56:14 年度最爱综艺:《喜剧之王单口季》、《思想验证区域》、《黑白厨师:料理阶级战争》 65:11 如果我是《再见爱人》的制片人,我不知道该开心还是该难过 72:56 年度最爱电影:《疯狂的麦克斯:狂暴女神》、《乌云背后的幸福线》、《年会不能停》 【互动方式】 微博@不上不下_Betwixt 搜索wx:shirleyxiaoling并标记听众,即可加入听友群。欢迎各位综艺粉丝、电视儿童,或者任何喜好听我们唠嗑的朋友进群互动。 【收听方式】 你可以在小宇宙、喜马拉雅、Apple Podcast、Pocket Casts找到我们,订阅收听【不上不下】