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Deep Dive: Most Divorce is Unnecessary

2025/6/5
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Angela
一位年轻的麦克阿瑟奖获得者，通过戏剧和小说探索局外人、文化冲突和阶级冲突的主题。
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考虑多样化投资以减少风险，特别是当持有大量单一股票时。
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Dr. Laura: 我发现，许多夫妻走向离婚并非因为不可调和的矛盾，而是因为缺乏沟通和努力。传统的婚姻咨询往往侧重于问题和抱怨，这反而会加剧矛盾。我提倡一种更积极的方法，鼓励夫妻回忆美好的过去，重新发现彼此的吸引力。我认为，很多时候，所谓的“感情破裂”只是因为夫妻双方没有像恋爱时那样，持续地为关系付出努力。当然，存在一些不可容忍的情况，如出轨或成瘾，但对于大多数“软性原因”，如沟通不畅或性格不合，我认为夫妻应该首先反思自身的问题，并尝试改变。一个小小的改变，比如一个拥抱或一句赞美，都可能产生巨大的积极影响。我经常建议夫妻专注于让对方快乐，通过这种方式重新建立联系。 Tracy: 在我婚姻的低谷期，我几乎要离开我的丈夫了，他一直患有抑郁症，这让我们的生活变得很艰难。但是，当我开始听Dr. Laura的节目后，我意识到我可以改变我的态度。我开始对他更友善、更尊重，并且让他表达自己的意见。令人惊讶的是，这竟然极大地改善了我们的关系。我们重新找回了爱和亲密，甚至在疫情期间，我们也能彼此支持，共同度过难关。我非常感谢Dr. Laura的建议，它真的挽救了我的婚姻。 Jack: 我承认，我和我的妻子正在经历一段艰难的时期，我们似乎在渐行渐远。Dr. Laura指出，这很可能是因为我们没有像以前那样为婚姻付出努力。她建议我们回忆美好的过去，重新发现彼此的优点。我意识到，我们可能真的太懒惰了，没有尽力去维护我们的关系。我愿意尝试Dr. Laura的建议，看看是否能够挽救我们的婚姻。 Angela: 我和我的丈夫在沟通上存在问题，我们已经假装一切都好几年了。Dr. Laura建议我变得更友善、更耐心，并且真正倾听我的丈夫。她认为，通过一些简单的行为，如赞美和拥抱，我可以改善我们的关系。我意识到，我一直过于忙碌和急躁，没有给予我的丈夫足够的关注和爱。我愿意尝试Dr. Laura的建议，看看是否能够重新找回我们之间的爱。

Deep Dive

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The podcast starts by contrasting the seemingly effortless longevity of some marriages with the incompatibility inherent in all relationships. It emphasizes that lasting marriages require letting go of unchangeable issues and finding ways to work through problems.
  • Many long-lasting marriages endure issues that would cause others to divorce.
  • The key is learning to let go of things that won't change.

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When you see a cute old couple who looks like they’ve been married 120 years, wrinkled, hunched over, walking down the street holding hands, you may be tempted to think they had some kind of special luck to make it together for that long. But, no two people are completely compatible. NONE. If you were to ask them what the key to their marital success has been, they’d likely tell you that they learned to let a lot of stuff go. They endured and maybe even ignored the things that weren’t going to change. They may have had issues that would lead a lot of today’s couples to divorce, but they found a way to work through them. And in this Deep Dive, I want to teach you how to do the same so that you can save your marriage.

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