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How Can I Light My Wife's Fire?
2025/6/20
Dr. Laura Call of the Day
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Dr. Laura
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Ryan
讨论创建自由派版本的乔·罗根的播客主持人。
Ryan: 我和妻子结婚22年，感情一直很好。但自从她进入更年期后，性欲明显降低，这让我感到很受挫。我尝试过主动，但经常被拒绝，也试过等待，但情况并没有改善。我理解她正在经历的痛苦，也想支持她，但我不知道该怎么做才能重燃我们之间的激情。
Dr. Laura: 你应该停止等待性行为的发生，而是通过感官上的关怀来帮助你的妻子。更年期对女性来说是一个挑战，你可以通过提供背部按摩、洗头发等服务，让她放松身心，放下防备。不要强求性行为，而是专注于让她感觉良好。你可以按摩她的手，表达你的关心和爱，但不要每天都做，要分散开，等待她表现出兴趣。当你按摩她的背部和腿部时，可能会激发她的性欲，这就像是极致的前戏。即使她主动表示准备好发生性关系，你也应该克制，只表达你想要亲近和让她感觉良好。购买按摩油等用品，这些方法非常有效。
Deep Dive
A husband seeks advice on rekindling intimacy with his wife who is experiencing perimenopause. He describes a decrease in sexual interest and his attempts to understand and support her while also expressing his own feelings of rejection.
- Perimenopause significantly impacted the couple's intimacy.
- Wife's disinterest in sex has increased over time.
- Husband's attempts to initiate intimacy often met with rejection or postponement.
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