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Vicki
Vicki: 我今年65岁，从未有过健康亲密的人际关系。年轻时曾被老师性侵犯，后来又撤销了指控，至今不明原因。大学毕业后，我与一位已婚男子有染，持续了四五年。最终，我搬到另一个州，与他断绝了联系。然而，这段经历一直困扰着我，我无法建立健康的人际关系，也无法摆脱内疚感。虽然我没有破坏他的家庭，但我始终无法原谅自己。这段经历占据了我生命中重要的位置，我无法抹去它，也无法放下它。我渴望获得一些指引，帮助我放下过去，不再被内疚感困扰。
Dr. Laura: 只有善良的人才会感到内疚，你的内疚感证明你是一个好人。你犯了一个错误，但你已经从中吸取教训，并努力向前迈进。你已经停止了错误的行为，搬离了，并且感到悔恨，这些都是进步的体现。不要再惩罚自己。放下过去就像把一件东西从桌子上挪开，腾出空间放新的东西。把过去的事情放在一边，专注于现在。你已经改变，成为更好的人，现在应该积极参与社交活动，走出过去。不要把自己困在过去，你并不邪恶。不要试图用你的故事去帮助别人，专注于让自己的生活更美好。
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Vicki, a 65-year-old woman who has never been married, shares her past experiences, including being molested by a teacher in high school and later having an affair with a married man for four to five years. She expresses her struggles with establishing healthy, intimate relationships with men and seeks clarity on how to move past these events.
- Vicki was molested by a teacher in high school and later recanted her report.
- She had a four to five-year-long affair with a married man.
- Vicki feels these past events have hindered her ability to form healthy relationships.
- She moved across the country to end the affair.
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