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Dr. Laura
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Aaron: 我和妻子结婚三年，感情很好，但最近在她的性满足方面遇到了一些障碍。我们有规律的性生活，但我常常难以让她达到性高潮。当我试图表达我对她的性满足的重视时，却常常适得其反，反而显得我关注的是自己的表现和不安全感。我希望能够更好地向她表达我对她的性满足的真诚关心，而不是显得自私或不谦虚。
我感到当她达到性高潮时非常兴奋，因为这确实让我感到兴奋。我知道有一些技巧可以更容易地让她达到性高潮，但我不知道如何更好地与她沟通。
Dr. Laura: 男性更容易达到性高潮，这是因为男性的性满足与生育直接相关，而女性则不然。女性的性高潮受多种因素影响，包括情绪、荷尔蒙、日常压力等。即使没有达到性高潮，女性也可能因高度兴奋而感到满足。因此，你不应该把妻子的性高潮与你的成功与否联系起来。
你可以尝试赞美她，例如在她达到性高潮后，赞美她放松的状态和美丽的容貌。这不会给她带来压力。你也可以尝试一些不同的技巧，并主动引导性行为，因为女性有时并不喜欢明确表达自己的需求。重要的是，要享受过程，保持轻松愉悦的心情。记住，女性的性高潮与生育无关，她即使一生都没有过性高潮，也能生育孩子。
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Aaron seeks advice on improving his wife's sexual satisfaction without making it about his performance or insecurities.
- Aaron has been married for three years and is looking to improve his wife's sexual satisfaction.
- He struggles with communicating his genuine interest in her pleasure without making it about his own performance.
- Dr. Laura discusses the biological differences in orgasms between men and women.
- Men's orgasms are tied to reproduction, while women's are not.
- Women may not always achieve orgasm but can still feel satisfied due to high arousal.
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