I Want to Please My Wife
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Hi, Dr. Laura. Thank you so much for taking my call. I had the chance to speak with you some time ago and I found your advice life-changing. So here I am again. My wife and I have been married for, yes, thank you, ma'am. My wife and I have been married for about three years together for four. I'd say a fairly fulfilling marriage. Lately, I've encountered some roadblocks, I suppose, as it relates to her, um,

sexual gratification, if you will. We're pretty regular and have a fairly healthy sex life. But I sometimes have difficulty getting her to the other side, if you will. When it happens, I try to articulate to her that how important her pleasure is to me. And when I do that, I seem to kind of

fall on my face and it ends up sounding more like an issue with my performance and my own insecurities so I'm here today to find out how I can better communicate to her that I am genuinely interested in her fulfillment without sounding self-absorbed or immodest if you will it's so exciting for me when you release into an orgasm

Okay. Just okay. That's it. It's so exciting. Because it is. A real man finds it very exciting that his woman can get there. But, you know, I mean, there are certain techniques, I'm sure, in all the years you've been together, you know, are more likely to get her there than not. But it's easier for men to have orgasms than it is for women.

Part of that is evolutionary biological because you need to have an orgasm in order to make babies. We don't have to have orgasms to make babies. An egg gets popped out all by itself. We don't have to have an orgasm to pop an egg up into the fallopian tube. So your sexual satisfaction is tied into reproduction. Ours isn't.

And women often have a lot more trouble with moods, hormones, you know, attitude during the day, something else on her mind. You could have a lot of things on your mind, but if you're getting stimulated the right way, you're going to have an orgasm, generally speaking. So it's a very different phenomenon. So you can't take it upon yourself whether she gets there or not.

And sometimes women don't get there but feel kind of satisfied anyway because the amount of arousal was so great that it felt good. So it's different for every circumstance. You don't want to have it be that she has to have an orgasm or you're devastated. Right. So things like, oh, honey, after she has, it's so sexy and exciting to watch you relax into an orgasm, you know? It's very exciting.

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Good. So you sort of get her there and then maybe join her in the next one or then go back to her or, you know, have some fun with it. Be playful. You know, drag her into the shower. Whatever she wants. I drag. Whatever she wants to do. Well, women don't always like to specify that. They like their men to sort of take them. I see. I see. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay.

All right. Very good. Thank you, ma'am. Yeah, you're very welcome. My number, 1-800-375-2872. Yeah, I bet a lot of you didn't think about it. A woman's orgasm has nothing to do with reproduction. She could never have an orgasm in her life and make 10 kids.

Somehow I look at that as depressing, but all right. My number, 1-800-375-2872. Check out my social media on Facebook and Instagram. I post stories, photos, and videos seven days a week and feature some of what you've sent me to. There's always something interesting going on there. You can find me at facebook.com slash drlaura and instagram.com slash drlauraprogram.

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