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My Dad is Ready to Be a Father
2025/3/18
Dr. Laura Call of the Day
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Lauren: 我从小就没有和父亲建立联系，他离开家庭后从未尽到责任，现在他年事已高才试图修复关系，我觉得这很虚伪和自私。他多次结婚，他的妻子曾写信给我，希望我给他一次机会。我收到了他写给我的信，声称没有关系让他很痛苦，但我并不这么认为。我觉得他只是在临终前才想起我们，这让我感到愤怒和受伤。我不想见他，也不想打电话给他，但我需要表达我的感受。
Dr. Laura: 面对父亲的联系，Lauren应该直接表达自己的感受，指出他多年来的忽视和自私，并拒绝进一步的联系。你可以写信告诉他你的感受，让他知道你对他的行为有多么失望和愤怒。告诉他，他多年来只顾自己，现在才想起家庭，这太虚伪了。你们之间没有感情基础，你不需要原谅他，也不需要给他机会。你应该保护自己，不要被他操控。
Dr. Laura: Lauren应该直接而坚定地表达自己的感受，无需顾虑父亲的感受。她应该明确表示，父亲过去的所作所为让她深受伤害，并且她不会原谅他。她应该拒绝任何进一步的接触，并保护自己的情感健康。
Deep Dive
A woman in her 50s is considering reconnecting with her estranged father, who left the family when she was young. Her father, now in his 70s, has sent her letters expressing his desire to reconnect. She is hesitant due to his past behavior and lack of involvement in her life.
- Estranged father attempts reconciliation after many years.
- Daughter is hesitant due to father's past neglect.
- The daughter is considering writing a letter to express her feelings.
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