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My Husband Did the Right Thing!

2025/4/13
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我最近发现我结婚三十多年的丈夫和一位同事之间有不恰当的短信往来。起初我感到非常震惊和不安,因为我们之前的婚姻生活一直很和谐,从未有过任何怀疑。我将此事告知丈夫,并让他听了我的电台来电录音。录音中,主持人建议我们夫妻二人一起与该同事沟通。我们按照建议做了,一起找到了那位同事,并与她进行了坦诚的交谈。 谈话中,同事表现得有些意外,虽然没有直接道歉,但她同意删除丈夫的电话号码,并表示以后只通过工作邮箱联系。她解释说只是因为她和丈夫有很多共同点,所以才经常联系。 丈夫在这次事件后也积极做出改变,他避免与同事单独相处,比如不再一起吃午饭,并开始反思自己行为中可能存在的潜在问题。虽然他表示自己从未想过和同事发展超出友谊的关系,但他现在意识到,同事深夜发短信的行为可能另有所图。 总的来说,这次事件让我们夫妻更加关注彼此,也更加珍惜我们的婚姻。通过坦诚沟通和积极行动,我们成功地解决了这个问题,并且我们的关系比以前更加紧密。

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Ann shares her positive experience following Dr. Laura's advice after discovering inappropriate texts between her husband and a colleague. They confronted the colleague together, leading to positive changes in communication and a stronger marital bond.
  • Husband discovered inappropriate texts from a colleague
  • Followed Dr. Laura's advice and confronted the colleague together
  • Positive changes in communication and marital bond
  • Colleague's reaction was surprised but ultimately cooperative

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Thanks for downloading my Call of the Day podcast. You too can participate in my live radio program heard weekdays from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern Time on Sirius XM Triumph 111. I understand. Welcome back to the program. Yes, I just I called about a month ago. My husband, I had found some text messages that

My husband of 30 years, over 30 years, had with a colleague and we I shared with him the pod, you know, through the podcast, my phone call into you. He listened to it and we followed the advice that you had gave. We went and talked to the colleague together, the two of us. And things happen like blocking numbers on his phone, blocking certain e-mails.

taken work email off of his phone. So I just wanted to let you know that things are going really well. I saw effort on his part to maintain our relationship and to take action to not further any kind of personal relationship with a colleague. Yeah, not make that a hobby. Yeah. Are you two being cuter with each other, I hope?

Yeah, a lot more, a lot more observant, a lot more attention. You know, it really shook me up, you know, because you there's some things that you said that were really hard, hard to hear and shook me up. And I told him how serious this was for me and how, you know, it shook me up royally. Out of 30 some years, I never had any kind of suspicion or doubt.

in our relationship, and this was probably the first time ever that something like that happened. That's good that we had three decades without this nonsense, so that says something to character. Yes. But, yeah, I just wanted you to know, I heard you suggest on the last caller that they have an intervention with, you know, a daughter, and I just...

Thought about, you know, where you suggested that my husband and I go talk to this colleague. And we did. And we, you know, he shared with her that. And what was her reaction in front of you? I'm dying to hear that. She was surprised. I walked into the room. I did not hear an apology from her, but she did say something along the lines. Well, how do you want me to contact you? And he said, do my work email.

And she goes, well, I could delete your phone number from my phone. And he said that would be fine. She was kind of businesslike, huh? She wasn't like mean or she was. Kind of businesslike. You're describing her being kind of businesslike.

Yeah. Yeah. And she goes, oh, well, I just thought we had a lot in common and we had a lot of similarities in our life. And I just was sharing, you know, our commonalities is what she said. Yeah. Okay. Well, probably she had stomachache ever since.

Yeah, he's making efforts like he avoids, he doesn't go down to lunch. And so he's avoiding places where there might be a conversation. And, you know, he said to me that he, you know, whatever the truth may be, but he said to me, he never thought it was more than just a friendship. But now that I brought all that up and he listened to that conversation,

the feedback, you know, from our phone call, he's, he wonders like there might've been some intentionality there in the contacting, you know, texting him at night. So I think his eyes were open a little bit to where this could have led. So I just want to thank you.

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