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My Mom is a Pain in the Neck

2025/3/10
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一位在摄影技术和设备方面有深入了解的播客主持人和摄影专家。
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Jordan: 我母亲因为我没有指定她的另一个女儿为我孩子的教母而对我实施冷暴力。起因是我女儿的洗礼派对之后,我们通过FaceTime与住在佛罗里达州的父母联系。不知何故,我母亲给了我和我的妻子冷遇。事后我才知道,她是因为我没有让她另一个女儿当教母而生气,因为她最近失业,心情不好。我试图通过信息与她沟通,解释我的理由,但她回应了一些不友好的评论。 我感到很受伤,因为我们并不知道为什么受到冷遇,这破坏了派对的气氛。我们只是想和家人分享喜悦,没想到会发生这样的事。我感到被她的行为蒙在鼓里,这让我很困惑和沮丧。我本想通过沟通解决问题,但她并没有理解我的想法,反而让我更加难过。 Dr. Laura: 这位母亲的行为是不可取的。她没有考虑到孩子的福祉,而是以自我为中心,将自己的情绪强加于人。她试图通过冷暴力来控制儿子,这种行为是不健康的。作为母亲,她应该以身作则,教导孩子如何正确处理人际关系,而不是用这种消极的方式来表达不满。她应该理解儿子的难处,并尝试与儿子进行有效的沟通,而不是一味地指责和抱怨。这位母亲需要意识到自己的行为对家庭关系造成的伤害,并积极寻求改变。 这位母亲的行为模式是典型的被动攻击,她试图通过冷暴力来惩罚儿子,而不是直接表达自己的不满。这种行为模式会对家庭关系造成严重的损害,并影响孩子的健康成长。这位母亲应该学习如何以健康的方式表达自己的情绪,并与家人进行有效的沟通。儿子应该学会如何设定界限,并保护自己的情感不受伤害。建议儿子不要再试图与母亲沟通,因为她的行为模式已经根深蒂固,很难改变。

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Okay, so it's kind of a long story, but I'm going to shorten it down nice and quick. About a month ago, my daughter had her baptism, great baptism. We went to my sister's house afterwards, who I chose to be the godparent, her and her husband. They asked if they could throw the baptism party afterwards. Everything was great. My parents live in Florida.

So we decided to give them a call on FaceTime at the party with everyone. And for some reason, my mom gave myself and my wife... Okay, start all over again. Start all over again. Leave out for some reason. You know these people. You know your mother. You know your dad. Yeah. So don't say for some reason. You know exactly why. So go ahead. Start that again. You called them to FaceTime in Florida during the baptism party and... To say hello. And my mom gave us the silent treatment.

We did not know why we were getting the silent treatment after the phone hung up in front of everybody, which kind of spoiled the mood for the rest of the party. My sister, who was the godparent whose house we were at. That's too bad that it spoiled everything for the rest of the party for everyone. Who gave your mother that much power?

No, well, it wasn't really. It was more my wife and I. We just kind of felt because we didn't know what it was about. We just kind of felt a little blindsided. Really? And how did your mother feel blindsided? No, no, sorry. My wife and I felt blindsided. And, and, I got that part. And, and, and, in what way do you think that your mother has felt blindsided?

Because I later found out that I didn't choose my other sister to be a godparent as well. I'm sorry, we set up multiple godparents now? That's news to me.

Do we have teams of godparents? Is that how it's done now? No. The reasoning was that she had recently lost her job and she wasn't feeling great. And so my mom was very upset that I wasn't nice and included her to make her feel better. Your mom is a pain in the neck. She's the greatest mom on earth. And she's a pain in the neck. And she's a pain in the neck.

Yes, thank you. You're right, Dr. Laura. Right. So she didn't think of the well-being of your child. She thought of the well-being of hers.

So let her pout. It's funny you say that. That kind of boils down to kind of what happened going forward. I then sent her a message after the party saying, hey, mom, I understand you're upset. Let's jump on a call so we can talk and I can explain my reasoning for this to try to just diffuse the whole situation. She responded back with some not so nice comments that

Oh, she's a wonderful mom. I love when you call and say, wonderful mom, and she pulls this destructive stuff, especially on a celebration. She's not a wonderful person. Sorry. And I think you should stop connecting with her. Shush. Please, just listen to me. I really think I'm going to help you. Mm-hmm.

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Go to quince.com slash doctor for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns. That's Q-U-I-N-C-E dot com slash doctor to get free shipping and 365 day returns. quince.com slash doctor. Stop playing your mother's game. Stop it. If she wants to be pissy because you didn't bow to her desire, let her. Don't keep explaining yourself. You have done nothing wrong.

She didn't care about the well-being of your kid. She only cared about the well-being of her other kid, hers. She wanted to use your child as a gift to make her other daughter happy when the other daughter just has problems in life, which are not solved by dedicating your kid to her. So your mother is outrageously unreasonable. Don't cater to it. She's had power too long in your family of pulling this.

passive-aggressive punishment if you displease her. I think it's enough. You're a grown man with a wife and a kid. No more playing your mother's game. You are correct. Good. Then leave it be. No more discussions about it. None. No texts about it. Nothing. Okay.

And someday, if you have the balls, and she comes at you again, you say, I was considering the well-being of my child, you were considering the well-being of your child, and you wanted me to donate my child to your cause. Okay. I hope someday you'll have the moxie to do that. My number, 1-800-375-2872. Just a wonderful mother.

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