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My Mom's Too Strict!

2025/2/16
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Michael: 我认为妈妈对我的手机使用规定太严格了。只要我有一个作业没交,她就会没收我的手机,直到我补交作业后的两周才能还给我。我觉得这样的惩罚时间太长了,希望能够在我补交作业后几天就拿回手机,而不是等那么久。我觉得这样能让我更快地改正错误,也能让我更有动力去完成作业。 Mom: 作为母亲,我认为对孩子严格要求是必要的。我制定这样的规定是为了让Michael明白完成作业的重要性,培养他的责任感。没收手机是一种有效的惩罚方式,可以让他意识到不完成作业的后果。我希望他能通过这个规定学会自律,按时完成作业,而不是总是想着如何逃避责任。我认为现在的惩罚时间是合理的,可以让他有足够的时间反思自己的行为。 Dr. Laura: 我认为这位母亲的做法是合理的。Michael应该明白,按时完成作业是他的责任,而不是一种可以讨价还价的条件。如果他能按时完成作业,就不会被没收手机。他应该把注意力放在如何更好地完成作业上,而不是想着如何逃避惩罚。同时,我也认为这位母亲应该给Michael一些空间,让他自己管理时间,培养他的自律能力。但是,如果他没有按时完成作业,就应该接受相应的惩罚。

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I don't need your first name. Whoa, everybody slow down. Let me join the party here. Mom, I'm just going to call you Mom. I don't care what your name is. Take it like a woman. Sure. And you're 37. That's a nice age. Michael, how old are you? I'm 15, ma'am. That's a hard age. That's a difficult age. I'd go back to 37, but I wouldn't go back to 15. Would you, Mom?

Absolutely not. See, it's a tough age. So we're both sympathetic to you, Michael. How can I help you? Okay. So me and my mom kind of have a problem with my phone and she's really strict on it. So I don't get it like hardly at all. And it's strictly Wi-Fi based. There's no data or anything on it. And lately she said, you made a rule now that school starts that if I have any missing assignments, I get it taken away.

For how long? Permanently? Or 20 minutes? Or what? Well, two weeks after I turn the assignment in. And that is kind of my problem. I'm sorry. I just want to know for how long she takes the phone away when you don't put an assignment in. Oh, she takes it away from the time that she sees that it's missing to two weeks after I turn it in. Okay. Okay.

Well, it seems like you have control over how much time you can have the phone. You do all your assignments, do them well, do them on time, and you're good to go. What's your complaint? I was just thinking maybe I could get it back once everything is turned in, or maybe a couple days after at least. Oh, you're trying to bargain. No way.

No way. Where the bargain is, where you have control is getting your things in on time. I'm not going to support your mother letting you get away with 50% because you decided it'd be nice to have it sooner after you decide you're going to hand your work in. No, sir, you have total control. Get your work in on time. And let me tell you one more thing. If you were my son, you wouldn't have a phone because I don't believe in them.

I believe in the little flip-top things if you need to make a call in emergency, but no phone, that's a smartphone. So you're ahead of the game. If you were my kid, boy, would you have a complaint. So your mother is giving you room, but she's making you earn it. And how obnoxious it is to say, I don't really want to have to totally earn it. I want to be able to get away with it a little bit. I want to be able to not be responsible about my homework and not get punished half as much. Come on, Mom.

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Okay. How much do you love me, Michael? How much do you love me? I love you so much, Dr. Laura. You're the best. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. Mom, give him a hug. He's a good kid. He just needed to learn this little rule in life. My number 1-800-3... I didn't expect him to say... I'm very grateful, but I didn't expect...

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