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Rebecca's Mom is a Wicked Witch

2025/2/25
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Rebecca: 我从小就生活在一个母亲经常因为生气而冷落我的家庭环境中。这种冷暴力持续多年,即使我试图修复关系,她也拒绝沟通。两年前,她在圣诞节期间不辞而别,至今没有联系。她还停止与我的两个孩子(13岁和11岁)来往,而他们以前经常见面。我试图通过向她道歉来修复关系,但我的父亲却认为是我和我的孩子打断了她,应该由我们来道歉。 这种状况让我感到非常焦虑和困惑,我不知道该如何处理与母亲的关系,以及如何保护我的孩子免受她的伤害。我非常渴望得到建议,帮助我走出困境。 Dr. Laura: Rebecca,你应该停止试图取悦你母亲,结束这种不健康的模式。你父亲的行为也很糟糕,他应该为自己的行为负责,而不是责备你。你应该保护你的孩子免受你母亲的伤害,继续你的生活。不要再试图修复这种已经无法修复的关系。告诉你的孩子真相,并教导他们不要为了取悦他人而牺牲自己的尊严。你应该为自己和你的孩子争取应有的尊重,不要再容忍这种冷暴力和不公平的对待。 与其试图修复与你母亲的关系,不如专注于建立一个健康快乐的家庭环境,让你和你的孩子能够远离这种负面影响。你应该为自己和你的孩子的幸福着想,不要再被你母亲的情绪所控制。记住,你值得拥有更好的生活,你的孩子也值得拥有一个健康的家庭。

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Rebecca describes her mother's emotionally abusive behavior, including silent treatments lasting weeks or months. Dr. Laura challenges Rebecca to take control of her life and stop seeking her mother's approval.
  • Mother's manipulative silent treatment
  • Father's enabling behavior
  • Rebecca's lack of self-respect
  • Impact on Rebecca's children

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Thanks for downloading my Call of the Day podcast. You too can participate in my live radio program heard weekdays from 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern Time on Sirius XM Triumph 111. Rebecca, welcome to the program. Yes, hi, Dr. Laura. I'm calling. I've listened to your show for a really long time. Thank you. And I'm nervous to call in, but I'm so curious to hear your advice. Okay. Okay.

I've grown up with a mom who throughout my life since being a child would, when she got angry, she would stop talking to me for weeks or months on end. And I would just have to kind of grovel to get her to forgive me. Sorry, I'm nervous. But two years ago, we were all together for Christmas and she left town without saying goodbye.

I wouldn't take my phone calls. It's been two years. I asked my dad what happened. He said that we interrupted her and that I should call her and apologize. She stopped talking to my children who are 13 and 11. She used to see them all the time. I have a recommendation. Okay. I think you need to throw a party that the Wicked Witch is out of your life. Really? Yeah.

Yes. Okay. Yeah. Party hats, party favors, good food. I think it's time you say enough. Can I ask you a question? Isn't that what you're here to do? Yes. Good. All right. Go for it. When I talk to my dad, he tells me I'm being selfish and that... Okay. Okay.

Stand back, make believe he's not your dad. How would you describe his behavior of defending and making everybody else feel responsible for his woman's bad behavior? Stand back. Tell me, what kind of a man does that? What kind of a man does that? What kind of a man does that? I figure eventually you'll hear my question. That's right.

So, frankly, I'm really sorry you got crappy parents. But how many more years do you want to play their game? It shows no self-respect. And then they're hurting your children, punishing your children. You're going to stand by and kiss her ass so she'll talk to your children? Are you serious? Thank you. That's what I needed to hear.

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You protect your kids from the Wicked Witch. Okay. Be done with this already. Do I... Get on with your life. Stop looking backwards, trying to repair something out of your control that is really disturbed. Your father's behavior is outrageous. Apologize to your mother. You interrupted her, so she's entitled to be this vicious back to you. Right.

Thank you. That's what I needed to hear. I get so confused. Yeah, I know. It's horrible. Okay. Do I tell my kids the truth? Yes. Okay. And you teach them an important lesson. In your life, no matter who it is, a friend, a boss, a neighbor, a relative, all of that, you should not kiss ass to try to make people be nice to you. Okay.

When it's really clear time and time again that they're just actors. Cease and desist. Okay. Thank you, Dr. Laura. Thank you. That's what I needed to hear. I really appreciate that. Thank you. You take care. Okay. Thank you. You're welcome.

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I'm anchoring myself to hope. Be inspired with Joel Osteen Radio. I just love Joel. He's the best, you know. I learn so much from him all the time. Oh, this is very uplifting. It's time to say this is a new day. I've been anchored to that junk long enough. And when you're encouraged, you can do anything. Promotion is coming. Healing is coming. Breakthroughs are coming. Your life will never be the same. Be inspired with Joel Osteen Radio. Sirius XM 128 and on the Sirius XM app.