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Refresher: Did Heather do the wrong thing by telling off her sister?

2025/3/6
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Heather: 我姐姐即将与一个对我的侄子和侄女实施情感虐待的男人结婚。最近一次事件是,我四岁的侄子在日托惹了麻烦,他姐夫把他带到河边,威胁说要把他留在那里,直到他意识到自己的错误。这让我无法再忍受,我无法再假装视而不见了。 我需要知道我是否做对了,因为自从我干预后,我姐姐就不让我看孩子们了。 Dr. Laura: Heather,你没有做错。你姐姐和她未婚夫一样糟糕,他们是一对。面对这种情况,如果你的家人不是那种互相隐瞒问题的人,我会建议你组织一次家庭干预。让家人一起劝说你姐姐,并明确表示如果看到任何虐待行为,你们都会报警。寻求专业人士(例如持证临床社会工作者)的帮助来组织这次干预,这将更有效果。

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Heather's nephew was emotionally abused by her future brother-in-law, leading to Heather's intervention and subsequent estrangement from her sister. The question discussed is whether Heather acted correctly.
  • Emotional abuse of a child by a future brother-in-law.
  • Intervention by the sister.
  • Sister's subsequent refusal to let Heather see the children.

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Time now for a refresher from my Dr. Laura Call of the Day archives. Remember, you can hear my live radio program weekdays 2 to 5 p.m. Eastern Time on Sirius XM Triumph 111. Heather, welcome to the program. Hello. Hi. What can I do for you?

I need to know that I did the right thing. My sister, who's going into a second marriage, is marrying a man that is emotionally abusive to my niece and nephews. And what does he do that you can see is emotionally abusive? What have you seen?

Well, the last thing that was the straw, my nephew, he's a handful, and I will admit that, but he's four. And he had gotten in trouble at daycare, so he took him to a little river thing with a bridge.

and made him get out and told him because he can't behave that he has to live there where the monsters are and where it gets cold. They walked back towards his truck, and my nephew then ran after him and was telling him that he was sorry. And when I found out that happened, that was kind of the last straw that I couldn't do anymore. I couldn't pretend like it wasn't happening anymore.

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I don't disagree with that. No, you did not do the wrong thing. And sadly, we can't take every starfish on the beach and throw it back in the ocean. Right. What I would do, if I sadly happen to be in your position, and this might be difficult because most families are full of weasels, but if your family is not one of those full of weasels, then you'll do an intervention on her. Because I'm sure you're not the only person who has seen some of this behavior.

No, it's not. So you get 10 people together, including mother, father, sisters, uncles, cousins, whoever, grandparents, and without her knowing, you all converge on her to do an intervention about what will happen if she marries him. And if any of you sees anything, you will call Child Protective Services, etc., etc., etc. Get a licensed clinical social worker to be involved, set it up, and close in on her. Okay.

That's what I would do if I were sadly in your position. Now, just give me a yes or no on this. Is your family full of a lot of weasels? No. Thank God. Okay, then this is going to be a great intervention. All right. You just made my day. As a matter of fact, you made my day. In celebration of Valentine's Day coming up, 1-800-Flowers.com is doing a bouquet a day giveaway. They want me to give away a bouquet a day, and you're getting it.

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