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Should I Take a Stand or Take a Hike?
2025/7/1
Dr. Laura Call of the Day
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Dr. Laura
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Erin
Erin: 我作为家庭主妇，一直以家庭为中心，支持丈夫和孩子，并为此感到自豪。我专注于自我提升，保持健康和积极。然而，我丈夫在管理我母亲的财务时出现了疏忽，这让我感到失望。更让我难过的是，我在一个社交圈子里受到了排斥，而我的丈夫和儿子们对此并不在意，甚至支持我继续容忍。我感到自己没有被优先考虑，长期以来的委屈让我开始考虑分居，但我内心又非常不舍得破坏这个家庭。
Dr. Laura: 我理解你感到委屈和失望，但我不认为这些问题严重到需要分居的地步。你应该采取立场，而不是选择逃避。告诉你的丈夫和儿子们，你不能再容忍这种被忽视和不尊重的待遇。让他们明白，家庭的和谐需要每个人的努力和付出。不要为了维持表面的和谐而牺牲自己的感受，要勇敢地表达自己的需求和期望。
Deep Dive
Erin, a stay-at-home mom for 17.5 years, describes her 24-year marriage. While initially appearing traditional and successful, issues arose in 2023 concerning her husband's mismanagement of her mother's finances and Erin's exclusion from a social group. The husband's lack of accountability and the sons' apparent acceptance of the situation are key concerns leading Erin to consider separation.
- 24-year marriage with two teenage sons
- Husband's mismanagement of mother's finances
- Exclusion from social group involving other families
- Husband and sons' lack of empathy
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