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37 一些婚姻中實際的困難

2025/5/18
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讲员: 在婚姻中实践仆人式领导是一个挑战,因为这与我们天生的自我中心倾向相悖。我们需要不断地被圣灵责备和引导,学习如何服侍对方,而不是一味地寻求被服侍。当夫妻双方都愿意放下自我,以基督的样式彼此服侍时,婚姻关系才能得到真正的改善。此外,华人文化中不愿寻求婚姻咨询,常常导致问题被掩盖,最终爆发。因此,我们需要改变观念,勇敢地寻求帮助,并在咨询中专注于改变自己,而不是试图改变对方。 听众A: 很多时候,我们做仆人不是发自内心,而是为了交换某些东西,这会导致内心的苦毒。真正的仆人式付出应该是无条件的,不求回报的。此外,我们常常在与上帝沟通时能够放下自我,但在夫妻关系中却很难做到。因此,我们需要更多地向上帝寻求力量和智慧,帮助我们在婚姻中更好地服侍对方。 听众B: 婚姻是一个长期的奋斗和抗战,需要不断地与自己的负面情绪作斗争。即使我们赢得了争论,自我中心和骄傲依然存在,苦毒问题没有真正解决。因此,我们需要学习在主的智慧里,应对无法改变的状态,明智地选择争吵的议题。 听众C: 我觉得很多时候我们 focus 在说就是不要把目光放在对方身上跟神的那份那个时候我觉得很多时候对我自己来说就是跟神去求啊去就是我觉得这个关系是很好的帮助我 heal 的一步对不对

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This chapter explores the concept of servant leadership within marriage, particularly within a Christian context. It highlights the challenges of balancing leadership and servitude roles, especially when one spouse is a believer and the other is not. The discussion emphasizes that servant leadership is an attitude, not a set of rules.
  • The concept of servant leadership in marriage is an oxymoron, challenging to understand and implement.
  • Disparities in faith between spouses significantly complicate the dynamics of servant leadership.
  • Servant leadership is primarily an attitude of service, not a prescribed set of actions.
  • The Bible's guidance on servant leadership is often misinterpreted or misused.

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