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The Emotions Expert: Why Avoiding Your Feelings Is Dangerous

2024/3/7
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Ali Abdaal: 本期节目的核心围绕着我最近完成了一本书的创作,但却感到迷茫,不知道下一步人生方向。我意识到自己很难感受到自己的情绪,并且在人际关系和自我连接方面存在一些问题。在与Joe Hudson的辅导过程中,我逐渐意识到自己对金钱的恐惧源于对安全感的缺乏,这阻碍了我按照自己的意愿生活。同时,我也发现自己倾向于将悲伤的情绪转化为成功的动力,而不是直接面对和处理悲伤。通过与Joe Hudson的对话,我开始学习如何关注身体感受,与内在自我连接,并尝试以更连接的方式处理日常工作和生活中的挑战。最终,我意识到,将‘更加连接’作为人生目标,而不是传统的业绩指标,能够帮助我更好地平衡事业和生活,并获得更深层次的幸福感。 Joe Hudson: 在辅导过程中,我引导Ali探索了他对金钱的恐惧以及其背后的安全感缺乏。我帮助他意识到,他过去常常通过抬高下巴或紧咬下颌来压抑情绪,这是一种常见的避免感受情绪的方式。我们一起探索了他对悲伤和爱的感受,并引导他同时体验这两种情绪,从而发现它们之间的联系和差异。我强调了关注身体感受的重要性,并建议他使用Yap app来提醒自己保持与自身的连接。我还解释了为什么有些人难以感受到情绪,这可能是因为早年经历的创伤或情感虐待导致了情绪的压抑。最后,我引导Ali思考如何以更连接的方式庆祝他的成功,并鼓励他给自己休息时间,从而更好地平衡工作和生活。

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Ali reflects on his recent achievements and the uncertainty of his next steps, expressing a desire to live life on his own terms and explore more fulfilling career paths.

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Hey gang, I have something a bit different to share with you this week. Joe Hudson is an executive coach who works with some of the world’s top leaders, thinkers, and organisations. But, before he got into coaching he was a venture capitalist and philanthropist with a super wide ranging career - so he comes to coaching with years of experience. This is my very own coaching call with Joe - we talk about personal growth and development, the fears and anxieties which can hold us back, and how to really feel our feelings. I really hope you enjoy and let me know what you think about this video format!

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(00:00) Intro

(00:57) Where is my life going?

(06:21) Uncovering deep anxieties

(14:56) Unpacking my goals

(24:46) How to increase a sense of connection in daily life

(31:12) Actually feeling your feelings

(41:45) Experimenting with emotions - sorrow and love

(50:46) How to sit with sadness

(56:53) Learning how to appreciate the wins in life

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