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World's Leading Expert On How To Solve Procrastination - Dr Tim Pychyl

2022/8/25
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Tim Pychyl: 本期节目探讨了拖延症的本质、成因及应对方法。拖延症并非简单的延迟,而是明知延迟会让自己更糟糕的情况下,仍然自愿延迟计划中的行动。它是一种以情绪为中心的应对策略,通过回避来获得奖励,即摆脱令人厌恶的刺激。解决拖延症的关键在于'开始',而'开始'的关键在于确定下一步行动。人们善于自我欺骗,经常以'明天再做'、'我压力下工作效率更高'等借口拖延。开始行动后,人们对任务的评价会发生积极变化,变得更享受、更容易、压力更小。拖延症与对短期奖励的偏好有关,人们更倾向于选择现在就能获得的较小奖励,而不是将来才能获得的较大奖励。 克服拖延症需要情绪管理和行动策略相结合。情绪管理方面,可以使用RAIN方法(识别、接纳、调查、滋养),帮助人们识别和处理负面情绪,例如焦虑、恐惧、完美主义等。行动策略方面,可以使用执行意图(implementation intentions),将目标分解成具体的行动步骤,并将其与特定情境联系起来。 此外,还需要关注自己可控的因素(投入),而不是不可控的因素(产出),设定过程性目标比结果性目标更有效。动机应该跟随行动,而不是相反,不要等待灵感或动力,而应该先行动起来。纪律与意志力有关,但过度依赖意志力不可取,可以尝试将意志力外包。 在行动的最后关头,需要勇气来面对不确定性,并肯定自我。当人们能够自主地掌控自己的生活时,拖延症就会消失。 Ali Abdaal: 本期节目与Tim Pychyl教授探讨了拖延症,涵盖了拖延症与延迟的区别、拖延症的进化心理学根源、拖延症的奖励机制、如何开始行动、目标设定、纪律、动机、如何让工作更令人振奋、目标追求与当下幸福感的关系、如何克服最后阶段的阻碍等方面。 Ali Abdaal分享了他自己的一些经验,例如通过将行动与日常习惯结合起来(例如,在刷牙时进行腿部拉伸),来克服拖延症。他还谈到了如何将任务分解成更小的、更易于管理的步骤,以及如何通过改变视角来提高工作效率。

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Procrastination is defined as the voluntary delay of an intended action despite expecting to be worse off for the delay. It is a type of delay, but not all delays are procrastination. There are purposeful delays, inevitable delays, and delays due to emotional problems which are not considered procrastination.

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We can all struggle with procrastination. Putting stuff off not only makes us feel bad but it can set us back in our careers and lives. So what do we do about it? Dr Tim Pychyl is as one of the world’s leading experts in procrastination. He has written two books about how and why we procrastinate, as well as many scientific papers. In this episode of Deep Dive I talk to Tim about what exactly procrastination is, how to nudge ourselves into better habits, and spirituality and flow. Tim is such a brilliant and knowledgable researcher and this conversation gave me fascinating look into the the psychology of procrastination.

0:00 Intro 1:58 Procrastination vs. delay 9:43 Why can procrastination feel good?13:41 Getting started 21:10 Goals, discipline, motivation 33:54 How can we achieve effortlessness? 38:02 Spirituality and flow 45:00 How do we nudge ourselves into habits? 56:44 Procrastination as an emotional problem 1:07:28 Why tips and tricks don’t always work 1:13:15 Reading philosophy1:15:14 Being a father

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📚 RESOURCES MENTIONED

The War of Art by Steven Pressfield - https://geni.us/H7z29SThe Moral Animal by Robert Wright - https://geni.us/fwolPQAtomic Habits by James Clear - https://geni.us/lsreiThe Art of Procrastination by John Perry - https://geni.us/RbB8ZPThe Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg - https://geni.us/h3XN0s6The Power of Vulnerability by Berne Brown - https://geni.us/b19TThe Willpower Instinct by Kelly McGonigal - https://geni.us/L8oK5The Courage to Teach by Parker Palmer - https://geni.us/7Aa9a5A Guide to the Good Life by William Irvine - https://geni.us/A7bExOKHappy by Derren Brown - https://geni.us/GHHIThe Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman - https://geni.us/alvI2oFour Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman - https://geni.us/oZwLThe Way of Zen by Alan Watts - https://geni.us/rqlvW6Radical Compassion by Tara Brach - https://geni.us/zypLAffect Regulation Training by Matthias Berking - https://geni.us/UlSk9zThe Courage to Be by Paul Tillich - https://geni.us/cf0JRMan’s Search for Meaning by Victor E Frankl - https://geni.us/nFjoNo

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