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Build Rapport, Master Conversational Skills and Learn Anything From Anyone with Andrew Warner

2022/9/21
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Andrew Warner: 本书的核心观点并非停止提问,而是提倡更有效的沟通方式。与其一味地提问,不如通过引导性语句或简短的过渡词(例如“because”)引导对方展开更深入的对话,从而获得更多信息并建立更好的沟通。在准备对话前,应先明确自身需求,思考希望从对话中获得什么,而不是考虑听众需要了解什么。在与陌生人交谈时,找到对方的兴趣点是打开话匣子的关键,可以从分享自身经历入手,引导对方回应。在对话中分享个人经历可以有效地拉近距离,引导对方也分享自己的经历和感受。当对方对你的提问有所抵触时,尝试“加入抵抗”策略,即认同对方的观点,从而引导对方进一步解释其想法。即使面对比较谨慎的人,也可以运用这些技巧,引导他们分享信息。“戏剧性低估”是一种有效的技巧,可以引导对方更详细地解释情况。在日常生活中,运用“because”等引导性词语,可以有效引导对方深入解释其想法和感受,从而促进更深入的沟通。 Chris Hutchins: 通过与Andrew Warner的对话,学习了如何成为更好的对话者,包括提问技巧、引导技巧、以及在不同情境下如何运用这些技巧。例如,在求职面试中,如何通过引导性语句来掌控谈话节奏,展现领导力;在与陌生人交谈时,如何找到对方的兴趣点,并引导对方分享;以及在与家人朋友的日常交流中,如何运用简单的引导性词语来促进更深入的沟通。同时,也学习了如何处理那些习惯于直接给出建议和解决问题的人,以及如何在对话中展现脆弱性,从而建立更深层次的联系。

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Andrew Warner discusses the importance of asking better questions and using 'magical phrases' instead of just questioning to become a more engaging conversationalist.

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#79: Entrepreneur and author, Andrew Warner, joins Chris to talk about ways to become a better, more exciting conversationalist. They discuss why this is a skill everyone should master and learn what most people get wrong about how they ask questions. Andrew shares ways to improve the kinds of questions you ask and how to build rapport with people you have just met.

Andrew Warner(@AndrewWarner)) is an entrepreneur and host of the hit startup podcast, where, 2,000+ episodes, he uncovers the secrets of the world’s best founders. After building two startups of his own, he started Mixergy, a place where successful people teach ambitious upstarts through interviews, courses, masterclasses, and events. His book is Stop Asking Questions: How to Lead High-Impact Interviews and Learn Anything from Anyone).

Full show notes at: https://allthehacks.com/interviews-andrew-warner)

 

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Full Show Notes

(1:38) Becoming a Better Conversationalist: Utilizing "Magical Phrases" Instead of Questioning

(3:25) Andrew's Motivation Behind Writing His Book

(4:02) Mastering Confidence Projection and Steering Conversations in Job Interviews

(5:50) Self-Reflection Guidelines for Preparing Conversations

(7:52) Effective Strategies for Engaging Unfamiliar Individuals in Conversation

(10:02) Conversation Techniques, and the Call to Join the Resistance

(13:30) Techniques for Encouraging Reserved Individuals to Embrace Openness

(18:08) Illustrative Instances of Positive and Tangible Outcomes

(19:36) Application of Conversational Strategies Beyond Professional Settings

(20:43) Transitioning into a More Inquisitive Learner from an Overconfident Expert

(24:11) Shifting Conversations to Discover Shared Areas of Interest

(26:53) Enhancing Conversational Proficiency through the Examination of Transcripts (Including Consent for Recording)

(33:40) Improving Conversational Skills by Practicing with Less Concerned Individuals

(38:22) The Value of Vulnerability in Conversations

(39:37) Gaining Consent for Posing Uncomfortable Inquiries

(43:54) Navigating Post-Relationship Building Follow-Ups

(47:53) Andrew's Insights into Fostering Listener Engagement

(52:33) Embracing the Positive Aspects of Receiving a "No"

(54:03) Ways to Contribute to All The Hacks

(55:23) Andrew's Constructive Feedback for Chris

(57:40) Locating Andrew Warner Online

(58:00) Library App Resources

 

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