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Masterclass on Habits and Becoming a Super Communicator with Charles Duhigg

2024/2/28
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Charles Duhigg: 本期节目探讨了习惯对生活和人际关系的影响,以及如何利用沟通技巧提升沟通能力。他解释了习惯循环的三个要素:线索、常规和奖励,并介绍了创建、改变和重定向习惯的策略,以及设定现实目标的重要性。他还深入探讨了如何利用沟通的科学原理,培养良好的沟通习惯,从而成为超级沟通者。他强调,理解线索和奖励是改变习惯的关键,并建议通过实验来识别它们。他还解释了关键性习惯的概念,以及如何通过改变自我认知来影响其他行为。他还讨论了如何制定有效的待办事项清单,以及如何通过创造一个更容易养成习惯的环境来提高效率。 Charles Duhigg: 他还解释了三种类型的对话:实用型对话、情感型对话和社交型对话,并强调了在同一时刻进行相同类型的对话的重要性。他指出,沟通风格没有性别差异,人们通常会使用自己最舒适的沟通方式。他建议养成提问的习惯,特别是深入的问题,以了解对方的价值观、信仰和经历。他还介绍了“循环理解”技巧,即重复对方所说的话,并询问是否理解正确,以证明自己正在倾听,并帮助自己更仔细地倾听。他还讨论了如何成为一个好的对话者,以及如何通过分享自己的想法和感受来保持对话的持续性。 Charles Duhigg: 他还解释了超级沟通者的概念,以及如何通过学习和练习来成为超级沟通者。他强调,沟通的目的是相互理解,而不是说服对方。他建议养成提问的习惯,特别是深入的问题,以了解对方的价值观、信仰和经历。他还建议准备一些备用问题,以便在对话中使用。 Chris Hutchins: Chris Hutchins主要与Charles Duhigg就如何建立和改变习惯,以及如何成为超级沟通者进行了探讨。他分享了自己在睡眠、饮食和锻炼方面养成新习惯的经验,并就如何设定现实的目标、如何利用环境来使习惯更容易养成,以及如何通过改变自我认知来影响其他行为等问题提出了自己的看法。他与Charles Duhigg就如何改变不良习惯,例如吃太多食物,以及如何利用关键性习惯来改善其他行为等问题进行了深入的讨论。他还就如何制定有效的待办事项清单,以及如何通过创造一个更容易养成习惯的环境来提高效率等问题提出了自己的看法。

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The episode discusses the process of creating and changing habits, emphasizing the importance of understanding the habit loop and using cues and rewards to reinforce new behaviors.

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#159: Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Charles Duhigg explores the impact of building habits on our lives and relationships. The episode covers the elements of a habit loop, effective strategies for creating, changing, and redirecting habits, the significance of setting realistic goals and much more. It also dive into ways to utilize the science of conversation and connection to build habits that transform you into a supercommunicator.

Charles Duhigg) is the author of The Power of Habit, which spent over three years on New York Times bestseller lists, Smarter Faster Better and most recently Supercommunicators. He currently writes for The New Yorker magazine and is a former columnist and senior editor at The New York Times.

Link to Full Show Notes: https://allthehacks.com/charles-duhigg-habits-supercommunicators)

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Full Show Notes

(02:41) Elements of a Habit Loop

(06:23) Ways to Create a Habit

(09:01) The Timeline to Build a Habit

(11:02) Ways to Change or Redirect Habits

(18:08) The Cookie Habit

(23:34) Importance of Setting Realistic Habits

(26:43) The Role of Keystone Habits

(31:26) How to Make Rewards Feel More Rewarding

(37:35) Create an Environment to Make the Habit Easier

(39:40) How to Create Effective To-Do Lists

(43:47) The Connection Between Communication & Habits

(47:11) Why There's No Gender Difference in Communication

(48:37) The Best Communication Habit

(53:51) An Example of a Social Conversation

(58:54) Listening During Conflict: Looping for Better Understanding

(1:00:59) Habits of a Good Conversationalist

(1:03:55) The Benefits and Value of Being a Supercommunicator

(1:05:28) Tactics to Become a Supercommunicator

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