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Money Talks: Navigating Uncomfortable Conversations with Loved Ones with Erin Lowry

2023/5/3
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Erin Lowry: 尽早与父母讨论财务状况至关重要,因为你可能成为他们退休计划中不可或缺的一部分。这不仅关乎他们的退休生活是否舒适,更关乎他们的尊严。大多数人都不愿谈论这些,而父母也可能不愿透露他们的财务状况,即使他们经济状况良好。然而,如果不进行这样的对话,当出现健康问题、失业或残疾等紧急情况时,你将措手不及。届时,你可能需要提供经济支持,但你可能没有做好准备。 2021年AARP的数据显示,美国有3800万护理人员为父母提供平均每周18小时的无偿护理,总计6000亿美元的无偿贡献。这表明许多人都在为年迈的父母提供经济支持,却没有得到任何报酬。这需要权衡工作、子女和个人生活,需要时间、精力和金钱。养老院的费用很高,而且大多数65岁以上的人会在某个时候经历某种形式的残疾,这会带来额外的费用。如果父母没有为退休储蓄足够的钱,那么他们的子女可能需要支付他们的生活费用。 即使父母的健康状况良好,也可能因为各种原因而需要子女的经济支持,例如投资失误或配偶去世。父母可能需要子女提供数千美元的月度经济支持。尽早开始与父母讨论财务问题非常重要,这样当出现紧急情况时,就不会那么紧张。 虽然有一些项目可以帮助经济困难的父母,例如医疗补助,但资格要求很高,一些父母可能因为养老金而无法获得医疗补助。因此,子女可能需要提供额外的支持。 很少有人与父母讨论过财务问题,即使是有财务顾问的人,也可能没有与顾问讨论过照顾父母的财务问题。父母的财务状况可能并不像看起来那样好,许多人,无论年龄大小,都超支或没有很好地管理自己的财务。父母可能因为各种原因而面临财务风险,例如为子女支付学费或婚礼费用。父母可能透支自己的退休金来帮助子女,这可能会导致他们未来的财务风险。父母可能因为社会压力或对子女的爱而承担超出自己能力的财务负担。 Chris Hutchins: 与父母进行财务对话的重要性,以及如何进行这些对话,包括一些可以使用的具体脚本,以及对话后的后续步骤。还讨论了订婚戒指、婚前协议和婚后协议、如何与朋友谈论金钱、借钱给他人等等。

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Discussing the importance of financial conversations with parents, including the potential need for adult children to support aging parents financially.

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#114: Personal finance expert and and author, Erin Lowry joins Chris to discuss the importance of having financial conversations with your parents, including sharing some specific scripts for initiating the discussion. They also cover financial advisors, estate planning, prenups/postnups, lending money to friends and more!

Erin Lowry (@brokemillennialblog)), best know for her three-part ‘Broke Millennial’ book series, is on a mission to help millennials navigate the complex world of personal finance, demystifying everything from budgeting and saving to investing and retirement planning. Erin's work has been featured in major publications such as The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, and Forbes.

Full show notes: https://allthehacks.com/money-conversations-erin-lowry)

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**Resources Mentioned**

Connect with Erin: Twitter) | Instagram) |  LinkedIn) | Website)

Erin’s Books:

AARP Report: Family Caregivers Provide $600 Billion in Unpaid Care Across the U.S)

Seniors & Medicare and Medicaid Enrollees)

MIT Age Lab Reports)

Financial Advisory Services: XY Planning Network) | CFP Board: Let's Make a Plan)

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Ramit Sethi’s Podcast: I Will Teach You To Be Rich)

Ramit Sethi’s Netflix Show: How to Get Rich)

Erin’s Japan Recommendations:

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Full Show Notes

(03:09) The Importance of Discussing Finances With Your Parents

(04:52) The Role of Children in Caring for Aging Parents

(07:41) Programs Available for Elderly Parents Struggling Financially

(09:56) Overcoming the Taboo: How Rare Are Money Talks?

(14:26) Approaching Money Conversations With Your Parents

(19:43) Financial Discussion Strategies

(22:49) Bringing in Third Parties: Using Mediators in Financial Discussions

(24:08) Scripts for Talking About Money With Your Parents

(27:39) Understanding Estate Planning

(28:44) Continuing the Conversation: Keeping Money Discussions Alive

(32:06) The Benefits of Working With a Financial Planner

(38:19) Financial Course Correction for Retirees

(41:18) Discussing Pertinent Information With Your Adult Children

(44:13) Advice for Parents

(47:51) Important Financial Documents: Compiling, Sharing, and Keeping Them Up-To-Date

(54:47) Discussing Prenups and Postnups

(1:12:03) Money Talks With Friends: Tips for Having Open Conversations

(1:13:50) Loaning Money to Friends

(1:14:54) Engagement Rings

(1:16:12) Japan Recommendations

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