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Linking: The Secret to Rewiring Painful Memories

2025/4/7
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Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

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Rick Hansen: 我开发了一种名为“连接”的心理疗法,它利用当下积极的体验来减轻过去痛苦记忆的影响。这基于大脑的记忆再巩固机制,即每次回忆都会使记忆变得不稳定,从而可以被新的体验所影响。通过将积极体验与消极记忆联系起来,我们可以逐渐减轻消极记忆的影响,达到自我疗愈的目的。连接并非适用于所有人,尤其对于创伤记忆较为强烈或近期的人,需要谨慎使用。在练习过程中,应保持积极体验强于消极体验,并避免被消极情绪完全控制。此外,我介绍了“橡皮擦协议”,一种通过干扰记忆再巩固过程来消除负面联想的方法。 在实际操作中,连接有三种层次:一是仅在意识层面感知积极和消极体验;二是同时感受积极和消极情绪;三是让积极体验深入影响消极体验。此外,我还介绍了从受伤的年轻自我的角度去看待现在的积极体验,以及如何找到与自身创伤或缺乏匹配的积极体验,如同找到所需的“维生素C”。 对于创伤经历者,应先培养其在当下时刻的积极品质,再尝试连接。如果连接过程中被负面情绪控制,应立即停止并转移注意力。 Forrest: 本期节目深入探讨了连接这种强大的心理疗法,它通过将积极体验与痛苦记忆联系起来,从而改变消极记忆。这基于大脑的记忆再巩固机制,每次回忆都会使记忆变得不稳定,从而可以被新的体验所影响。连接的挑战在于需要同时保持对积极和消极体验的觉知,并防止被消极情绪控制,同时保持积极情绪占据主导地位。 连接的有效性取决于积极体验是否强于消极体验,以及消极记忆的新旧程度。处理较旧的负面记忆时,应使用简单的语言和强烈的感受。匹配的积极体验效果最佳,例如,用他人的肯定来应对低自尊。 对于创伤经历者,可能难以将自身与创伤部分分离,从而难以进行连接。这时,应先培养其在当下时刻的积极品质,再尝试连接。此外,节目中还介绍了“橡皮擦协议”,一种通过干扰记忆再巩固过程来消除负面联想的方法。

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Forrest and Dr. Rick explore one of his most powerful psychological tools: *linking. *Over time, linking can help us rewire the brain, softening the impact of painful memories. They discuss the neuroscience behind this process, the role of memory reconsolidation, and the importance of matching positive experiences to our original pains. Rick shares personal examples, practical tips, and a few important cautions so you can apply this technique safely. This is a grounded, hands-on episode focused on one of his most high-impact ideas.

Warning: There is a brief mention of SA toward the end of the episode. 

You can watch this episode on YouTube).

Key Topics:

0:00: Introduction

1:45: What is linking?

5:30: The relationship between linking and memory, and coherence therapy

12:20: The challenges with linking, and making the positive stronger than the negative

20:40: How to practice linking

31:00: How to disentangle our adult selves from our ‘parts’

39:30: The “erasure protocol”

53:15: How long it takes for linking to help, and key questions to ask yourself

1:02:05: Recap

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