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Vol.96 生活不如意,去看电视剧

2024/11/7
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我最近经历了搬家和租房的诸多挑战,这些经历让我身心俱疲,也让我深刻反思如何更好地规划时间,保持身心健康,积极工作和生活。在租房过程中,我发现房屋的气场和环境对我的感受影响很大,也遇到了一些不愉快的事情,例如遇到不靠谱的二房东和小区噪音问题。这些经历让我总结了一些租房经验和建议,希望可以帮助到其他租房的朋友。此外,我还分享了在车站遇到的一个中年男子乱扔垃圾并辱骂我的事件,这让我反思女性应该保有适当的攻击性,来保护自己,并对抗社会上存在的厌女情绪。最后,我还推荐了一些影视作品,例如《金氏便利店》、《有生之年》和电影《决定出走的决心》,这些作品都以不同的角度探讨了家庭关系、社会议题和人生意义等方面的问题,引发了我对人生和社会的一些思考。

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What are some key tips for renting a house based on the speaker's experience?

When renting a house, it's important to check the safety and convenience of the neighborhood, including proximity to public transport and overall living conditions. Inside the house, inspect major appliances, plumbing, and gas systems. Ensure the landlord's responsibilities, such as repairs and fees, are clearly outlined in the contract. Avoid dealing with sub-landlords and always choose reputable agencies. Additionally, trust your intuition about the house's energy and whether it feels right for you.

Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of maintaining a certain level of aggression for women?

The speaker believes that maintaining a level of aggression is crucial for women to establish boundaries and protect themselves in a society where gender biases and misogyny still exist. Engaging in physical activities like sports can help build confidence and resilience, enabling women to better navigate real-world challenges and assert their presence.

What is the main theme of the TV show 'Kim's Convenience' recommended by the speaker?

'Kim's Convenience' is a comedy series that explores the dynamics of a Korean-Canadian family running a convenience store in Toronto. It delves into themes of family relationships, cultural identity, and generational conflicts, particularly focusing on the strained relationship between the father and his son, who left home after a major argument. The show uses humor to address serious issues common in East Asian families.

What does the speaker find particularly moving about the movie 'The Decision to Leave'?

The speaker is deeply moved by the emotional depth and the portrayal of everyday struggles in 'The Decision to Leave'. A particularly poignant moment is when the mother, played by Yong Mei, tells her daughter to pursue her own life while resigning herself to her own fate. This scene highlights the sacrifices and emotional burdens often carried by women, resonating strongly with the speaker and evoking a profound sense of empathy and sadness.

How does the speaker describe the impact of societal expectations on men and women differently in 'The Years We Lived'?

In 'The Years We Lived', societal expectations are shown to be more lenient towards men, allowing them more freedom and fewer responsibilities, even when they fail or return home after setbacks. In contrast, women like Chen Jialing face harsher judgments and pressures to conform to societal norms, such as finding a suitable job or marrying. This disparity highlights the broader societal tolerance for male failures and the stricter scrutiny of women's choices.

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本期节目分享了主播最近搬家的经历,以及过程中遇到的各种问题,例如与二房东的纠纷等。同时,主播也分享了一些租房经验和技巧,提醒大家注意哪些细节,避免踩坑。
  • 搬家过程中的时间和精力消耗
  • 租房过程中需要注意的安全、便利设施、房屋质量等问题
  • 与二房东的纠纷及处理经验
  • 租房小贴士:列清单、检查电器、确认权责范围、选择大中介、签订详细合同等

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这是一期临时起意的节目,继上次艰难的solo节目之后,一萌再一次勇敢solo!少了交流的对象,总是有些别扭。就像这几个月以来的生活,总有磕磕绊绊,总有小小的不舒心、不如意。我知道正在听节目的你也一样,快乐有时,烦恼有时。很多事情陷在当下的情绪旋涡中会愤怒,也会无力,但过去了就会开阔天空。

今天的你还好吗?我想和你分享我生活中那些疙疙瘩瘩的小事,也希望分一点我的勇气给你。

| 内容导览 |

01:27 分享搬家的事情

07:37 租房小tips

10:30 分享生活中的另一件小事

15:20 女性应该保有适当的攻击性

16:04 推荐《金氏便利店》

18:50 推荐《有生之年》

29:02 推荐《出走的决心》

| 本期提及书影音 |

剧集:《金氏便利店》《有生之年》《麻醉风暴》1、2《俗女养成记》

电影:《决定出走的决心》《尚气》《芭比》 《富都青年》

《那个叫欧维的男人决定去死》《但愿人长久》《地久天长》

书籍:《猫鱼》

| 本期音乐 |

片头曲:李星宇作品,感谢支持

片尾曲:Good Friend Song-Layton Wu

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| 制作团队 |

本期主播:

马一萌(微博@马一萌yimeng)、小红书:一萌):环游世界的前电影制片,京城食神,双语主持人

剪辑包装:一萌

shownotes:一萌

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