Folks in America are spendy this holiday season — especially online. Yet there also seems to be a bit of a disconnect between how people feel about their own financial situations and how they’re spending. Today, we’ll examine and discuss some of the data with Sucharita Kodali, vice president of research and advisory firm Forrester. Plus, from “trad wives” to “soft girls,” we’ll hear more about trends embracing women as homemakers and men as breadwinners.