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How To Be Stronger Than You Have Ever Been

2024/11/28
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Suze Orman's Women & Money (And Everyone Smart Enough To Listen)
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C. Zoe
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Cilia (听众来信)
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KT
KT 是苏泽·奥曼《女人和钱》播客的合作伙伴和制作人，专注于回答听众关于个人财务管理的各种问题。
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Suze Orman
以革命性的方法指导个人财务，拥有超过40年的经验，主持多个财务节目和播客。
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Suze Orman 和 KT 讨论了一位听众 Cilia 的来信，Cilia 的父母终身财务不负责任，并一直向她索要钱财。Suze Orman 认为，父母有责任抚养和教育子女，但子女没有义务照顾那些在财务上不负责任的父母。她建议 Cilia 设定界限，停止向父母提供金钱援助，让他们体验“触底反弹”的过程，从而促使他们改变。她强调，Cilia 应该优先考虑自身需求，而不是一味地满足父母的索求。将钱给不负责任的人，实际上是在损害自己。Suze Orman 还指出，童年时期关于金钱的早期记忆会影响一个人的一生，即使是负面的记忆，也可能促使人们在财务上更加负责。她鼓励 Cilia 从依赖中解脱出来，才能获得真正的自由和力量。KT 分享了她自身积极的家庭经验，并建议 Cilia 与父母坦诚沟通，表达自己的感受，并提出一些父母可以自力更生的建议，例如变卖闲置物品、搬到更小的住所或找兼职工作。她强调，Cilia 应该为了自身利益设定界限，而不是为了取悦父母。 KT 从自身积极的家庭经验出发，认为父母应该为子女负责，但子女不应承担财务不负责任父母的经济责任。她建议 Cilia 与父母坦诚沟通，表达自己因父母只关注金钱而感到悲伤和沮丧。她建议 Cilia 设定界限，停止向父母提供金钱援助，但同时可以提供其他形式的帮助，例如提供食物或烹饪。KT 的建议更侧重于情感沟通和寻求双方理解，同时帮助父母找到自力更生的途径。 Cilia 在来信中描述了她父母终身财务不负责任，并一直向她索要钱财的经历，即使在她年幼时就拿走了她的积蓄。她感到进退两难，既担心不给钱会让她感到内疚，又担心给钱会助长父母的不良行为。她寻求 Suze Orman 和 KT 的建议，如何才能在给予的同时，不扮演父母的角色，以及是否真的存在子女对父母的经济责任。

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Suze and KT discuss an email from a listener, Cilia, who is struggling with her financially irresponsible parents. They explore whether there is a financial obligation for children to support such parents.
  • Cilia's parents have been financially irresponsible throughout her life.
  • She feels guilty for not helping but also feels taken advantage of.
  • The discussion highlights the emotional and financial complexities of such relationships.

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For this Thanksgiving episode, Suze and KT have a conversation about an email from a listener who is being taken advantage of by their family. Can you relate to the story? Do you know when helping someone else, may be hurting you? **Protect your financial future with the Must Have Docs: **https://bit.ly/3Vq1V3G)Get your savings going with Alliant Credit Union: https://bit.ly/3rg0Yio)**Get Suze’s special offers for podcast listeners at suzeorman.com/offer)Join Suze’s Women & Money Community for FREE and ASK SUZE your questions which may just end up on the podcast. Download the app by following one of these links: CLICK HERE FOR APPLE): **https://apple.co/2KcAHbH)

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