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🎤 PODCAST • Disrespectful Teen ~ My goth daughter is disrespectful and defiant.

2025/6/16
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Matthew: 我的女儿15岁，她有时非常不尊重人且叛逆，经常提高嗓门说难听的话，不愿配合。我和我的妻子尝试使用Total Transformation Program来改善育儿方式，但效果不佳。我们甚至考虑过是否应该像一些住宿项目那样，从零开始对孩子进行行为矫正。她喜欢说一些关于死亡的负面言论，比如“除非我死了”。她曾经喜欢哥特风格，但我们阻止了她，给她买了一些带袖子的上衣，因为她总是喜欢穿无袖的。她也喜欢画画和听音乐，但她听的音乐比较特别，她喜欢阅读，但她读的是关于战斗的动漫。 Ellen Kenner: 你可以通过激励她来转变她的行为。发掘孩子更健康的价值观，并关注它们。当孩子们叛逆时，他们内心深处也感到害怕，仍然渴望与父母保持联系。如果你能提供其他选择，她可能仍然喜欢那种音乐。重要的是关注她擅长的事情。也要给她介绍一些好的电影，创造一些有趣的家庭时光，不要总是强调“这是我的东西”。女儿只是品味不好，说了一些不好的话，鼓励她在语言上更加优雅和细致。我建议阅读《如何说孩子才会听，怎么听孩子才肯说》和《父母与青少年之间》这两本书。

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A parent seeks advice on dealing with their 15-year-old daughter's disrespectful behavior and defiance. The discussion explores the daughter's goth phase, the parent's parenting approach and the search for solutions.
  • Daughter's disrespectful and defiant behavior
  • Parents' ineffective parenting
  • Daughter's interest in goth culture
  • Seeking solutions to improve communication and behavior

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