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The Myth of Arrival: Stop Chasing the Ending — Beneath The Surface

2025/6/17
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Sean DeLaney: 我认为我们常常活在一种幻觉中,以为在未来的某个时刻,我们会最终抵达某个地方,感到满足,所有的压力和焦虑都会消失。但事实并非如此。没有终点,没有一个地方可以让我们摆脱所有的恐惧和问题。我们不应该把希望寄托在外部的事物上,而应该专注于当下,享受过程。我发现,当我们把平和的心境寄托于外部时,实际上剥夺了自己现在就拥有这种心境的能力。相反,我应该致力于成为一个什么样的人,无论我面临什么情况。我应该关注那些永无止境的内在潜能,例如智慧、临在、热情和善良,并在我所扮演的每一个角色中培养和表达它们。我应该活在当下,而不是为了未来的目标而牺牲现在。我应该信任自己,找到自己热爱并愿意为之奋斗的事业,并在这个过程中享受纯粹的快乐。我应该有耐心,接受生活中的不确定性和痛苦,让它们成熟和改变我。我应该停止追逐虚幻的目标,而是把精力和注意力放在当下的舞蹈中。我相信,只有当我们停止追逐这些海市蜃楼,才能真正活出有意义的生活。

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So many of us live with the illusion that there’s a final moment of arrival—a place where the striving stops, the doubt fades, and we finally become enough*. But what if that place doesn’t exist? In this episode of Beneath the Surface*, we’re unraveling the myth of arrival. We explore the subtle ways this illusion robs us of presence, poisons our progress, and keeps us from experiencing the richness of what’s already here. You’ll hear:

Why chasing “someday” slowly erodes your joy and self-trust How to shift from a destination-based life to one rooted in presence and being What it means to live from* wholeness, not for* it

This isn’t just a mindset shift, it’s a new approach to life.  Because your life isn’t a finish line to cross. It’s a living expression to enjoy. There is no arrival. And that’s the gift. Stay Connected with Sean 🌐 Explore more at WhatGotYouThere.com) 📚 Get my latest books, tools & coaching SeanDeLaneyCoaching.com) 📩 Reach out or connect with me directly [email protected]) If this resonates, share it with a friend who’s walking a similar path. TikTok) YouTube) Twitter) Instagram)  I am Sean DeLaney), the executive performance coach with over a decade of experience working with CEOs, executives, and leadership teams, guiding them beyond traditional definitions of success.

Interested in working together? https://seandelaneycoaching.com)