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The day isn't over after dinner

2025/4/10
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Before Breakfast

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Laura: 我想提醒大家,一天的结束并非在晚餐之后。即使在感觉非常忙碌的生活中,记住这一点也能帮助你找到相当多的时间。我知道许多人的早晨都是为了让每个人出门而疯狂地奔波。工作日是马不停蹄的。然后每个人都需要在之后被接走。可能会有活动,而让每个人吃饱饭本身就是一个每日的斗争。你吃完晚饭后收拾厨房,最后心想,呼,我们完成了。 但是,一天的结束并非在晚餐之后。可能还剩下几个小时。例如,如果你在晚上7点30分吃完饭并收拾好,在晚上10点30分睡觉,那就是三个小时。你可能不会认为上午9点到中午12点的工作时间不存在,或者太短而无法使用。晚餐后的时间完全相同。即使你让孩子们上床睡觉,直到比如说晚上8点30分才完成,在10点30分之前还有两个小时。如果你一天清醒16个小时,那么两个小时就是十六分之一,或者12.5%。 如果你工作8个小时,那么两个小时就是你非工作时间的四分之一,或者25%。这可能是你实际工作日可支配时间的很大一部分。如果你认为一天在晚餐后就结束了,那么你就不会考虑这段可支配时间。但是,如果你提醒自己一天在晚餐后并没有结束,你可能会考虑你想用它做什么。这会打开很多可能性。 当然,大多数人在晚餐后精力非常有限。这段时间肯定有一些更高能量的选择,例如加入皮克球联盟、去健身房、在合唱团唱歌或在某个地方做志愿者。但如果所有这些听起来都不太可能发生,你仍然可以找到一些低能量的计划。决定你想阅读30分钟是很棒的。决定你想做一个20分钟的瑜伽视频也很棒。打电话给朋友很好。 做拼图或从事其他爱好也是如此。正如我经常在这个节目中说的那样,休闲时间太宝贵了,不能对休闲完全悠闲。当你提醒自己一天在晚餐后并没有结束时,你就可以利用更多潜在的休闲时间。如果你不考虑这段时间,它就不会发生。但是,一点点刻意会让更多的享受成为可能。

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You're listening to an iHeart Podcast. Hey, listeners. You know I can't be bothered with lengthy beauty routines. Who has time for that? That's why I am so glad I discovered Merit. Merit is all about simplicity, high-performing products, and enhancing your natural beauty. If you're like me and prefer a less-is-more approach, you'll love that Merit can help you look put together in five minutes or less.

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Head to MeritBeauty.com and get their signature makeup bag free with your first order. For clean, effortless, high-performing makeup, head to MeritBeauty.com. Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good morning, this is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's tip is a reminder that the day isn't over after dinner.

Remembering this can help you find a fair amount of time, even in what feels like a really busy life. So I know many people's mornings are a frantic dash to get everyone out the door. The workday is go, go, go. And then everyone needs to be collected afterwards. There might be activities and getting everyone fed can be its own daily struggle. You clean up the kitchen after dinner and finally think, phew, we are done.

And certainly most people don't have a ton of energy by the late evening. But the day isn't over after dinner. There might still be several hours left. For instance, if you are done with dinner and clean up by 7.30 p.m. and you go to bed at 10.30 p.m., that is three hours.

You probably don't view the 9 a.m. to noon shift at work as not existing or as being too small to use. That time after dinner is the exact same amount. Even if you are getting kids to bed and aren't done with that until, let's say, 8.30, there are two hours until 10.30. If you are awake for 16 hours a day, then two hours is one-eighth of that, or 12.5%.

If you work eight hours, then two hours is a full 25% of your non-working time. And it might be the bulk of your actual weekday discretionary time. If you think of the day as being done after dinner, then you won't think about this discretionary time. But if you remind yourself that the day isn't done after dinner, you might think about what you'd like to do with it. And that opens up a lot of possibility.

Now, to be sure, most people have very limited energy after dinner. There are certainly higher energy options for this time, like joining a pickleball league or going to the gym or singing in a choir or volunteering somewhere. But if all of that sounds like it isn't going to happen, you can still figure out some lower energy intentions. Deciding you'd like to read for 30 minutes is great. Deciding you'd like to do a 20-minute yoga video is also amazing. Calling a friend is good.

as is doing a puzzle or working on another hobby. As I often say on this show, leisure time is too precious to be totally leisurely about leisure. When you remind yourself that the day isn't over after dinner, then you can take advantage of more potential leisure time. If you don't think about this time, it won't happen. But a little intentionality makes more enjoyment possible. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening.

And here's to making the most of our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach me at laura at lauravandercam.com. Before Breakfast is a production of iHeartMedia. For more podcasts from iHeartMedia, please visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Hey, listeners.

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Hey listeners, you know I can't be bothered with lengthy beauty routines. Who has time for that? That's why I am so glad I discovered Merit. Merit is all about simplicity, high-performing products, and enhancing your natural beauty. If you're like me and prefer a less is more approach, you'll love that Merit can help you look put together in five minutes or less.

My favorite product has to be the minimalist. It's a two in one foundation and concealer that gives me smooth, even coverage with zero fuss. I also like the flush balm for cheeks. My shade is archival and it gives me that healthy, natural flush of color that blends in beautifully and makes me look like I spent more time on my makeup than I actually did. Ready to simplify your routine and make mornings a breeze.

Head to MeritBeauty.com and get their signature makeup bag free with your first order. For clean, effortless, high-performing makeup, head to MeritBeauty.com.