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Hello, hello, beautiful souls, and welcome to the Claim Your Power podcast, the ultimate show for all things new age spirituality, entrepreneurship, and embodied leadership. I'm your host, Kim Peretz. I'm an author, entrepreneur, and yoga enthusiast. If you're ready to step up, tap into your gifts, and unleash your potential, you are at the right place. It's time to claim your power.
Hello, my beautiful friends, and welcome back to the Claim Your Power podcast.
I just want to start off this episode and say really quickly that this podcast has been growing tremendously the past two months. And I just want to take a moment and say thank you. Thank you for joining me every single week. Thank you for listening to me, for giving me a platform to share my voice. I am just so eternally grateful. And if you're able to go and leave a review of what you think about the podcast and give it the amount of stars that you think it deserves on Spotify or on Apple Podcasts, I would
really, really be so grateful for it and it really, really helps me out. And so I just wanna say thank you for that. I'm really excited to dive into today's topic because this is something very powerful. Like today we're gonna be talking about something that has changed my life.
And it is the law of detachment. If you've never heard of the law of detachment before, it's one of the universal laws. And it basically states that the more that you detach from the outcome and let it go, the more you will attract the outcome that is in your highest good.
The more that you resist, try to control, chase, hold on, you will repel the outcome and the more that you let go, surrender and allow the universe to take the steering wheel is when things actually start unfolding in your highest good. Law of Detachment, being able to master this universal law will change your entire fucking life and let me tell you why.
When you are able to have this mentality of like what flows, flows, what crashes, crashes. I have myself and that's what counts and what's meant for me will never pass me by. You become fucking unbreakable in every area of your life.
Because you are taking back your power from the external circumstances. What happens when we detach ourselves to every single outcome? Oh, and quick PSA, I just want to say that it's not humanly possible to detach from every single thing. Like attachment is part of human conditions.
It's healthy to have certain attachments, but being attached to every single thing and trying to control every single area of your life and attaching yourself to specific people and specific outcomes all the time will never get you the results you want because detachment, you're in this energy of like, I don't have it yet.
I want it, but I don't have it. And releasing and letting go and allowing what's meant for you to flow into your life is this energy of like, I already know I have it. It's mine. What desires I have already seek me and I don't need to do anything else except exist. And this is the mentality that I want to get all of you guys on because it is life-changing. So you're probably asking yourself, how the heck do I detach from the outcome? How do I practice the law of detachment?
Well, it's very, very simple. I'm going to give you the key to the law of detachment. It is all about establishing neutrality in your life. The truth is you will never be able to 100% detach from something. It's just humanly impossible and honestly, I don't think it has anything to do with our experience on earth because if you were detached from every single thing, you wouldn't really be able to experience love and joy and pain and all the things that are like essential to the human experience.
But detachment is all about truly establishing neutrality. And that means that you are going around and walking around with this mindset of what's meant for me will never pass me by. And that is why it is safe for me to let this go and allow the universe to take the steering wheel.
It's not about, you know, being completely aloof to your life and ignoring everything and just like completely detaching from reality. It's about being neutral. It's telling yourself what flows flows, what crashes crashes. If this person walks into my life, great. If they walk out of my life, also great. I have myself and I have my soul and I have my heart and that is enough and that is my center. If I get this opportunity, that's great. That's wonderful. If I don't get that opportunity, that's also great because that means that when one door closes, another one opens.
and you establish the state of neutrality, where like, I want you to imagine yourself
You're just like sitting, maybe you're sitting crisscross applesauce, your hands are in front of your heart like in a namaste yoga position. And he's just like, see everything around you is like swirling and there's wind and there's tornadoes, but you're there and you're just in your yogi position. You're just sitting, you're feeling neutral and you're feeling aligned. And no matter what happens behind you, you're neutral, you're detached. You allow what's meant for you to come to you. You don't chase, you attract.
And that is the key. And also, I want to say that law of detachment is all about being in your feminine energy. It's about being in the receiving mode. It's about being open. It's about allowing things instead of trying to control things. The masculine energy is all about chasing and controlling things and making things be perfect and being analytical and logical. But the feminine says it's all about
receiving and being and allowing and that is a beautiful place to be in because in that place you receive what you want in that place you attract and manifest not from a place of resistance and control you'll never be able to manifest from that energy and if you do manifest something it might not be what you actually want because you're in this stagnant energy I'm telling you that the second that you detach from the outcome and allow yourself to just be and you work on mastering the law of attachment
is the moment that you will see so many things in your external reality change. And you will start seeing your desires and your manifestations start just chasing you instead of you constantly having to chase them. It's really crazy how life works, but the less that you are attached to something and the less you're just like so dependent on something, the easier it will be for you to get it and attract it. And it's because you're not emotionally like super, super charged when you're thinking about that thing.
and you're not emotionally dependent on it and there's no dependency and when there's no dependency and detachment you are in this receiving mode and it's a beautiful place to be in and let me guys I want to give you like a little example of how this is coming to fruition into my life so it's currently February 9th as I'm filming this so in three months of time of listening to this episode I could probably be in a completely different perspective on this aspect of my life but
But currently in February, I'm in this mindset of I am single. I am strong. I am powerful. I am committed to my energy. I am committed to my goals and my dreams and my wellness and
and I am not interested in settling or accommodating for much masculine men energy right now. So I go out with my girlfriends and I meet guys and I meet men and I'm nice to them, but I don't really want to pursue anything beyond that. And it's not because my heart is closed and it's not because I am reluctant or I feel rejected or any of that. Like I've done a lot of the healing work and the shadow work
it's simply because I'm currently in a really, really good place and I just want to soak it up. I just want to enjoy it. And I know that the right person will come into my life without force, without me having to chase them. It will just happen. It will just be like this divine intervention. It will happen. And so I have just...
founded such a beautiful experience in my life right now and so much gratitude for where I'm at and this opportunity for me to really defo all my energy into me and my vibration. And so I have completely detached from the outcome of being in a relationship right now. Completely. And what I am telling you that the amount of male attention that I have been receiving in the past months because of this mentality is insane. Because
I remember looking back like three years ago, my young self who like really wanted a relationship, really wanted a boyfriend. I just kept attracting these guys who were like emotionally unavailable or didn't want me or were inconsistent or I just didn't attract any guys at all. And it's because I wanted it so badly. I was so attached to it. I was so dependent on it. And now years later, I'm in this new energy of like, I love my life. I am so devoted to my vibration and my life and I love it and I'm happy and I'm surrounded by so much love and abundance and I love it and I'm just soaking it up.
And that is when I've just been attracting crazy amounts of men, like men wanting to take me on dates, men opening the doors for me, men buying me gifts. And I'm just like, where's this coming from? Like, I don't really want any of this. And it is because when you don't want something, when you are detached from it, when you just like have no desire for it anymore, and when you're just like, you don't care, you just stop giving a fuck.
that is when the universe is like ding ding ding she can live without it so I will show her an abundance of it and mastering the law of detachment has nothing to do with just relationships like you can apply the law of detachment to everything in your life
to success, to certain jobs that you want to call in, to vacations, to travel opportunities, to friendships. The more that you are able to just put the desire out into the universe and just the second that you have a desire, the second that you write it down, it's out there. If you think the universe forgot about it, you are so wrong. The universe already has it in the back of its mind. Not that the universe has a mind, but the universe knows what you want. Your higher self knows that you want that desire and now let it work in the background.
Let it conspire in your favor subconsciously or the things cosmically that you're not able to see. You put it out there.
And that is where the peace comes in and the freedom. It's like when you're like, okay, I know I want it. I put it out there. So now I can relax. Now I can take a step back, sit in the steering wheel, let the universe to do the action, let the universe take place. And that's not to say you don't take any inspired action. You just sit on the couch and you just assume that everything will come to you because no, this is a physical reality. You have to take action and inspired action. You have to be creative because you are the creator of your reality.
But I'm also saying that you do not have to control every single aspect of your life. I think there's this fallacy that a lot of people think that if you let something go or you detach from it or you forgive that person or you let that person go or you just detach completely from that scenario or the outcome that you want, people think that if you do that, you're basically giving it up and that it won't come to fruition then and it won't become reality.
But what I found in my own life is all the times that I actually was able to let it go is when things shifted, is when I started receiving more, when things just started to flow to me and come to me with ease. And the situations that I desperately just tried to hold on and I tried to control and I tried to resist, those are the situations that I repelled. Those are the people that resisted me most. Those were the outcomes and the experiences that didn't come out the way that I wanted them to. And it's because I was so depressed.
dependent on controlling the outcome and I was taking myself out of the present moment because essentially law of detachment is just all about being present.
Non-attachment is just about being now in the now it's about practicing gratitude and joy and abundance in where you are now Not where you were yesterday in the past not where you're gonna be tomorrow because neither of those things exist in them anymore The past is gone. The future is literally non-existent. You create your future by living the present So you might as well just be in the fucking now you might as well just experience the now because every single time that you are just
thinking about the past or obsessing about the future, you're taking yourself out of the present moment. And you know what the present moment is? It's a gift and you do not wanna deprive yourself of experiencing all this joy and abundance and love that is in the now when you're just so focused on what you don't have, when you're focused on the attachment and the dependency of things. Detachment doesn't mean forgetting or giving up your desires.
It's all about freeing your energy from being drained by obsessively focusing on the specific outcome because desperation clouds your clarity and energy from being in receiving mode. You have to be able to surrender all your big visions and all your plans to the universe.
Give it to the universe. Make space for it. Sometimes what you want isn't what you actually need or isn't what your higher self actually wants. So you obsessing over the outcome and obsessing over a specific situation is actually blocking you from experiencing what your higher self actually has destined for you. Like what if what you want isn't right, but there's something infinitely better that you haven't even thought of? So by trying your best to actively make room for what it is that is in your highest good by letting it go,
is life-changing. When you desperately cling on to something or constantly chase after it or try to control it and attach yourself to it, you are automatically repelling that thing and pushing it further away from you. And it is because you are in an energy of lack and scarcity that is rooted in deep fear. And we...
We are not in fear. If you are listening to my podcast, we are stepping away from fear and stepping into our power. Fear is a low vibrational state. You need to be in a state of abundance. And how are you in a state of abundance? You stay grounded. You stay rooted. You stay committed to yourself. You remind yourself that what's meant for you
will always be yours. So there's no need to chase or desperately cling on or desperately hold on because you are only pushing that thing away. And the more that you let go and you take a step back and you allow the universe and life to take on the steering wheel is the more that you will naturally attract what's meant for you to come in.
I call this non-attachment technique the path of least resistance. I actually heard it from Abraham Hicks. It's a very famous term and it's all about being present and stop resisting life and just flowing with life. It's about staying grounded and rooted in your why. In order for you to manifest the best outcomes, you have to be able to completely give it up. You have to be able to give up what you want and then you will allow what's in your highest good to come in.
Because you are in this confident energy versus a needing energy. Detach from the outcome that you have built inside your head and in your mind about that situation that you cannot control. And instead, focus on what you can control in your life. It is not an easy thing to do, but it is very worthwhile. Because amidst doing this, you will find your power. And you will find so much good that you haven't even thought of in your life when you're able to relinquish control back to the universe.
So I want to end this podcast episode with a beautiful quote of wisdom. In detachment lies the wisdom of uncertainty. In the wisdom of uncertainty lies the freedom from our past, from the known, which is the prison of our past conditioning. And in our willingness to step into the unknown, the field of all possibilities, we surrender ourselves to the creative mind that orchestrates the dance of the universe.
According to spiritual law, you can have anything your heart desires. However, if your happiness, sense of security, or feelings of power depend on someone or something in your life, then you are attached to that person or thing, and it is a chain in which you are binded to a lower frequency that keeps you stuck.
Your guidance is to ask the angels to help you cut the cord that tied to you those people, those things, and those emotions. And when those attachments are released, you can no longer be manipulated. This enables you to reclaim your power and be genuine, freeing your spirit and that of others. Let go now. I release control and everything. My spirit is free.
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