Welcome back. Happy 2022!!

I thought I would chat today on something a bit lighter. Personal style. And although this might seem not as important as healing, and goals or things like that. I would beg to differ. I have really embraced my boujee libra roots and accepted and honoured that my style, what I'm wearing, how my house looks affects me on a deeper level. And I'm going to throw it out there that it's probably affecting you too.

Now this isn't to say that we have to spend a ton or money or any money at all. And I will get into that today on tips and ways to create this without spending, because their are lots. But just really diving into, how are you showing up. How are you presenting yourself? And mostly for the sole reason of how it makes you feel. I think this is way more important than how others look at you. We need to start with ourselves. If you are wanting to make more money, get a new job, start dating or have your husband desire you more. Treat you like a queen. Well. . . we need to start showing up as that person.

And what better way than to dress the part. Think about it, in movies - if actors didn't dress as the character they were playing, think how less affective that would be. Yet. . I feel like we put it off as selfish, indulgent for ourselves to look and feel good.

So where are you not showing up, dressing as the part you are wanting to play?

If you want to make more money, dress like a boss (not a power suit) but what makes you FEEL like a boss. Like someone who makes amazing money. If you want to be ravished, noticed, adored by your husband. Start dressing in what makes you feel sexy. Start radiating that energy. Giving off those vibes. (again, doesn't need to be scandalous, just a piece of clothing that feels sexy to you, that you feel sexy in)

And this can carry through to your house too. How does your house make you feel? When you walk in. Does it feel like the house of someone who ___________ (insert your desired feeling). And it can start with decluttering. Getting rid of things that don't feel aligned. Cleaning. Rearranging. Thrifting. Again - get creative. This doesn't have to cost money. But also permission if you do want to buy something new.

Would LOVE to know what you think. Does this resonate? Do you struggle with this? Or does it come easy?

Where is one area that you could step in up in? Are you intimidated by style or fashion, makeup or beauty?

@charlygoss is the Calgary stylist I mentioned to does cost effective monthly style outs you can purchase.

Let me know - DM over @xo.shannonmargaret to continue the conversation.

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Xo Shannon

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EP.22 Your personal STYLE, trying something new