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Guilt Trips & Gross Guys

2024/10/3
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Hot Mess with Alix Earle

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Alix 和 Ashtin 在本期节目中讨论了约会中模糊同意的灰色地带,以及女生们在面临不适的性行为时,由于各种原因(例如缺乏安全感、寻求认可、害怕得罪对方等)而勉强同意的情况。她们分享了各自的亲身经历,并鼓励女生们要勇敢地为自己发声,拒绝任何让自己感到不舒服的行为。她们强调,说‘不’不会让女生变得不性感或不受欢迎,女生们不欠任何人任何东西,任何时候都有权说不。节目中还讨论了女生们在约会中寻求认可的心理,以及如何克服这种心理,建立自信,维护自身权益。 Alix 和 Ashtin 详细分析了女生们在大学派对或正式场合中,由于各种原因(例如害怕得罪对方、不想辜负对方等)而勉强同意一些事情的情况。她们指出,这种现象在大学环境中尤其普遍,因为大学的交友文化和派对文化会给女生们带来额外的压力。她们鼓励女生们要学会直接拒绝,并意识到自己并不欠任何人任何东西。如果对方因此生气,那说明这个人有问题,而不是你的错。她们还分享了如何处理一些具体情况,例如被对方强行亲吻或触碰臀部,以及如何应对那些在被拒绝后变得粗鲁或贬低人的男生。

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Alix kicks off the podcast by expressing her worry over Ashton's sudden disappearance, which turns out to be a trip to Detroit and Las Vegas. Ashton shares her Vegas adventures, including her experience at the Sphere and a Pilates session with John, while Alix talks about her upcoming trip to Paris Fashion Week.
  • Ashton's surprise trip to Las Vegas causes a brief scare for Alix.
  • Ashton enjoys unexpected attention from fans in Vegas.
  • Ashton recounts her experience at the Sphere, highlighting the steep seating and lack of railings.
  • Alix expresses her fear of heights and potential panic at the Sphere.
  • Ashton and Alix discuss John's Pilates prowess and the challenges of using the equipment.
  • Alix reveals Ashton's initial plans to join her for Paris Fashion Week.

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This week, Alix and Ashtin sit down to talk about the “gray areas” of hooking up. They discuss reasons girls give consent when they don’t actually want to— including insecurity, validation, fear, and more. They even share personal stories on the topic and discuss ways they could have handled these situations better. The two offer advice to their female listeners and encourage them to always stand up for themselves.

 

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