Divorce Expectations vs Reality
I Choose Me with Jennie Garth
Deep Dive
Why do Thelma and Louise prefer long-distance dating?
They enjoy the compartmentalization it offers, allowing them to fully engage during visits while maintaining their independence and personal lives in between.
What is the dating scene like in Los Angeles for women in their 50s?
It's challenging, with fewer age-appropriate men available and many men preferring to date younger women. Thelma and Louise note that out of their 10 best friends, 8.5 are single, highlighting the scarcity of good options.
What is one thing people often overlook about dating post-divorce?
Many don't anticipate how difficult it can be to find a significant relationship after divorce. Thelma and Louise both expected it to be easier and didn't foresee still being single years later.
How do Thelma and Louise handle discussing past marriages on dates?
They avoid delving too deeply into it on the first date, preferring a lighter conversation. They have a general, non-inflammatory response ready to share early on, with more depth reserved for later in the relationship.
What is Thelma's view on sharing a bed with a partner in a future relationship?
She finds the idea of sharing a bed, closet, and bathroom 24/7 to be her
What is Louise's worst dating story?
She broke up with a guy and the next day saw him on a first date in the same outfit he wore on their date. The awkward encounter left her feeling uneasy, though she didn't regret the breakup.
Do Thelma and Louise believe you need to be fully healed from a previous relationship to date again?
Thelma believes it's essential to be fully healed before starting a new relationship, while Louise thinks it depends on the intensity of the breakup and the emotional work needed to move on.
What is Thelma's preferred first date activity?
She prefers meeting at a bar or restaurant with background noise, as it takes the pressure off and allows for a more natural conversation to flow.
- Red flags in dating include disparaging remarks about exes.
- It's important to have healthy relationships with exes.
- How and when to discuss past relationships on a date is crucial.
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