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詹妮弗和泵泵们感觉自己像个大人物，因为本周的嘉宾是一个*非常*重要的人物。设计专家、Netflix《酷儿眼睛》的艾美奖提名主持人鲍比·伯克加入了女孩们的讨论。三人讨论了从在路怒事件中被警察叫到的经历，到在高度宗教环境中成长为同性恋的感受。预购鲍比即将出版的书《在家：好的设计如何有益于心灵》，请访问bobbyberk.com/book
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詹妮弗·韦尔奇: @mizzwelch 安吉·“泵泵”·沙利文: @pumpspumpspumps
鲍比·伯克: @bobby </context> <raw_text>0 听众，在这一集的《I've Had It》中，我们与eHarmony合作，这是一款可以找到你可以做自己的约会应用。泵泵，约会应用上发生了什么？人们在约会应用上试图表现得与自己不符的情况真是令人难以置信。
我喜欢eHarmony的原因是它是真实的人，真实的关系。你听到了，听众。这就是我们与eHarmony合作的原因，因为在eHarmony上约会是不同的。eHarmony知道，要找到真实的东西，eHarmony旨在帮助你通过他们独特的性格测试在个人资料中展现你的个性。
他们甚至会突出你与潜在匹配者之间的相似之处。那就是魔法发生的时刻。当你形成真正的联系，真实感带来亲密感。听众，给eHarmony一个机会，开始他们的兼容性测验，这样你就可以找到一个可以做自己的伴侣。eHarmony，找到理解你的人。
好吧，泵泵，你今天有一个非常重要的日子。我是说，这是一个令人兴奋的日子，我们有一个播客。所以事情是这样的。我们很牛，因为我们有国际听众。有时我们还有一些嘉宾来确认我们的牛逼。对，今天的嘉宾更是确认了我们有多牛逼...
以及我们有多牛逼。因为他绝对是个牛逼的人。他是个牛逼的人。他要来我们的播客。我们的播客是牛逼的。你是牛逼的。我是牛逼的。凯莉是牛逼的。理查德是牛逼的。这是牛逼之城。《I've Had It》播客。
结束故事。对。事不宜迟，让我介绍一下设计专家和Netflix《酷儿眼睛》的艾美奖提名主持人。让我们欢迎鲍比·伯克来到《I've Had It》。是的。好的，鲍比，欢迎来到《I've Had It》。你好吗？很好。你们呢？我们很好。我喜欢“y'all”。
这是我德克萨斯州的根源。是的，我们是大“y'all”爱好者。喝几杯酒，我和我妈妈通电话时，你们会真的听到它。哦，是的。我们现在在俄克拉荷马城，那是我们居住的地方。所以我们是“y'all”的大爱好者。我是个大“y'all”爱好者。好吧，鲍比，你知道，我不知道你对我们了解多少，但这是一个播客，我们正在揭露日常的挫折和公众的日常混乱。你知道这个名字，《I've Had It》。所以我们想直接问你，你对什么感到厌烦。我最大的厌烦是那些对周围环境毫无意识的人。
你知道，超市里那些人，当他们去找东西时，就把购物车留在过道中间，尽可能狭窄的地方。就想着，啊，没关系，大家可以去其他过道。或者，你知道，路上那些左转的人，明明有左转车道，却把车的后部停在中间车道，仍然觉得，什么？
我可以占用两个车道。所以就是那些对周围其他人超级无意识的人，或者也许他们意识到了，但就是不在乎。既然你之前说了“fuck”，我也来加入这个混乱。是的。这是我们在《I've Had It》播客的使命声明的一部分，揭露这种情况，我们称之为令人窒息的无意识。当你看到它时，真的让人窒息。就像，
超市里那个人，购物车在中间，然后他们弯腰去拿东西，露出四英寸的屁股，你根本不想看到的？老实说，这取决于...
我想说，这取决于。也许他们意识到了，他们非常清楚。对。我总是觉得你得感受到空气在你的裂缝上。好吧，我会这么想，但当我看到你有骆驼趾时，我说你有骆驼趾。但在骆驼趾里没有空气。对，但有一条缝在你的阴部上。那是一首乡村歌曲。他们得感受到空气在他们的裂缝上。没错。他们得感受到空气在裂缝上。是的。
哦，还有他们妈妈的屁股。哦，我的天，你唱得真好。是的。所有这些才华。真令人印象深刻。是的，我觉得对我来说，我就是一个超级敏感的人，过于敏感。实际上我希望我不是，因为有时...
<context>Queer Eye for All Y'all with Bobby Berk Jennifer 和 Pumps 感觉自己像个大人物，因为我们本周的嘉宾是一个 *非常* 重要的人物。设计专家和 Netflix 的《Queer Eye》艾美奖提名主持人 Bobby Berk 加入了女孩们。三人讨论了从在路怒事件中被警察叫到，直到在高度宗教环境中成长为同性恋的感受。预购 Bobby 即将出版的书《Right at Home: How Good Design is Good for the Mind》，请访问 bobbyberk.com/book
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Jennifer Welch: @mizzwelch Angie "Pumps" Sullivan: @pumpspumpspumps
Bobby Berk: @bobby </context> <raw_text>0 drive myself to the point of insanity by being super hyper aware. Like I remember years ago when my husband and I would live in, lived in New York, like I'm a very fast walker and we would just be strolling along on our day off. And I would still be, you know, on an LA run, a New York walk, you
And my husband would be like, I don't, why are you walking so fast? We don't have anywhere to be. And I'm like, well, you know what? There are 18 million people behind me that do have somewhere to be. I will not be the person that makes them miss their train.
Right. I love that. No, I have, I'm with you. I have, and I'm an interior designer as well. And so maybe it's just like our attention to detail and everything. I'm so overtly aware of what I'm doing and if it could impede on somebody else's space or, and then if I happen to be a violator, I'm immediately like, oh my God, I'm so sorry. Like overly, overly apologizing to the person for the violation on that.
Totally. I go full Canada.
So speaking of like unaware, there's a really funny story that, so about a year and a half ago, my oldest son, he was moving to Syracuse to be a freshman at Syracuse university. So I called pumps and this is the greatest thing about pumps. Like she's a friend that you can call and say, Hey, I'm moving Dylan to Syracuse. Do you want to come and help? And she's like, Oh my God, absolutely. I would absolutely love to do it. And when she says she would love to help,
She means it. And then when you get her there, she's an incredible helper. She'll box, she'll clean with a smile. And she's like...
oh my God, Dylan, I'm so excited to see you. She's a former sorority girl. So it's like, oh my God, this is so great. This is amazing. So we're moving them into the dorm and we go downstairs to the mail room because I'd shipped some stuff from Amazon to arrive. So we go downstairs and there's this little like probably junior at Syracuse, little whippersnapper. I can't believe you're telling this. And I said, hey, I need to pick up something for Dylan Welch's room 649. And she like looked at pumps in me and she goes,
are you guys students? And we're like, no, obviously. You're like, but thank you. So, so then, then, uh, she's like, well, only the student can pick up the package. And I'm like, okay. So we turn around. So pumps has gone from, I'm here to help Rob Ross, his spoon ball. Let's go Dylan. And then all of a sudden she activates pump savage mode. She goes, no,
Maybe if that girl would quit being a cunt and get some awareness, she'd realize that we weren't in fact students. And I'm like falling over on the campus of Syracuse, crying, laughing because she's just like completely given me whiplash from like, she's excited and, you know, invigorated and rah, rah, let's go orange Syracuse to call in college students, students, cunts, just casually. I think we're going to be fast friends. Yeah.
Because that is a word I use a lot in my car in LA. Yes. Oh, I bet. A friend of mine was visiting the other day in the car with me for quite some time. She was like, you know what? I just didn't realize there were so many stupid cunts in LA. Everyone you pass is a stupid cunt. My 18-month-old, my youngest child, he was 18 months. We were going into the doctor's office and I stopped to let people go and he goes, I
go stupid go and I was like oh gosh he's heard me say that calling everybody stupid I mean he was just so happy to call him stupid barely could talk but able to say stupid yeah I just the idiots on the road again it's just people that
They're just, they think they're the only person on the road and that nobody else has anywhere to be but them. The other day I was on the way to a doctor's appointment and there was a car broken down on the right lane. So I was trying to get over in the left lane and also to get out of the way of people who were trying to turn right at the street before. And there was this woman with a full car length in front of her, making it impossible for me to scoot over in the left lane. So I did the polite little like beep, beep, like, hey, you probably don't know
that you have a full car? And I just kind of went like, you know, hi, can you move up a little bit? And she's like, does one of these numbers in her rear view mirror. And so I was like, and she was like,
Oh, the devil bird. And I was like, fuck you, bitch. And so she was like, and she gets out of her car. And so, of course, I instantly pick up my phone and start recording her. And she's like, I'm calling the police. For what? Because I honked at you and called you a stupid bitch. What? Okay, baby. Yes, I called you.
Please, you're violent. I was like, please, please do call the police. And I made sure I was loud and she's on the phone with 911. I can hear her talking with them. I was like, call the police. So that way when they get here, they can see that you are filing a false fucking 911 call because somebody honked at you and hurt your feelings. I'm like, are you for real? And the person on the other line clearly was like, man, what's going on? And she was like, no, no, no. No, he's being violent. He's being violent. He didn't just honk at me.
This is what we call a titty baby. I mean, this is a titty baby. She was not paying attention to how much space she had. She's spatially unaware, which is unacceptable. You remind her, you know, let's nudge forward. And then all of a sudden she's a victim. And then just the histrionics.
right of calling the police so back to the word cunt really quick i just want to revisit this because in london that went up from tan the british cunt yeah that's what i was bringing up is in the uk they use cunt in a way that pumps and i and maybe you can join us in this we want to make it more mainstream right united states so my husband and i were in hyde park and he has an
It's a breathtaking level of lack of self-awareness. It drives me fucking crazy. Same with my husband. So we're walking and then part of the sidewalk is for pedestrians. The other part is for bicyclers and the British are fucking psychos about their bikes. Right? So Josh kind of steps over into the bike lane, right? As the cyclist is coming by and the cyclist immediately calls Josh a fucking cunt.
And I was like, I love this city. I love this country. Long live the king. Long live the queen. What do I need to do? I immediately was like, I fucking love these people. I mean, I didn't think like, oh, I've got to defend Josh. I was like, he is a cunt. I appreciate that. It was a totally like unaware move on his part. I loved it.
Tan, I remember the very first day of auditions, he kept using cunt, cunt this, cunt that. And finally I like pulled him aside and I was like, girl, I'm like, you have got to stop saying cunt so much. This is not the UK. Like,
That is, that is a word like at that point, like where we were doing auditions, like the whole panel we were in front of was all female. And I was like, some of them might be cool with it, but some of them might be getting really offended. And I'm like, you're, you're cute little British accent only goes so far when you use it. I love that. Okay. I want to talk about next something that when I read your bio that I think is super duper interesting. So you were raised in the Bible belt.
And a very religious culture. And obviously we live in the Bible Belt. And I was raised with like no religion at all, which is very strange for somebody. I know. It was very, very awesome. But...
Lucky you to not have like been indoctrinated and guilt and like all this weird stuff impressed upon you as a child. Yes. But one thing that I, I have always found so disturbing living here. So I had a friend about 15 years ago and I didn't have kids at the time, but she did. And it was very obvious to me that her son was gay and he was like 10 or 11, but she was pretty religious and it was kind of overtly religious. So,
So she said to me one time we're having coffee and she's like, you know, I've just told him if you ever think you're gay, that's just the devil. That's just Satan. And I said to my friend,
That's kind of child abuse to say that. Like you shouldn't say that to him, like threaten him with that. I think that's really damaging. I heard that all the time growing up, but yeah. Really? I want you to share with our listener a little bit about your childhood and your journey. And one question, cause I want to ask it now in case I forget after you went through what you went through in your childhood, do you think that your homosexuality saved you?
From that kind of life that you could have had. And you can get to that answer as you tell us about your story. Did it save me from still being in Mount Vernon with like nine kids and a wife I hate? Absolutely. Oh, Lord. Yeah. I mean...
I grew up as siblings of God, you know, and I categorize that as like the worst of the worst. And they're the tongue talkers, right? Exactly. Okay. Exactly. They're the Pentecostal denomination that they even think Baptists are going to hell. Oh, wow. Mormons are going to hell. Presbyterians, Lutherans, anybody that is not the exact flavor of Christian that they are is going to hell.
Right. It's like, it's crazy. Like I remember growing up and like wanting to go to church with a friend who went to a Baptist church and my parents would be like, Oh my God, no, you can't go to a Baptist church. They will indoctrinate you to, and you'll end up in hell. Like they, they dance. So it's just,
Again, you are made to believe that only the way that that preacher up there and your parents teach you, that is the only way you will have eternal life. That is the only way you will not burn in hell. Even the people who are also Christians, you know, per se, even the way they do it is going to send you to hell. So it doesn't matter.
shock me at all that evangelicals are like the biggest magas out there because young age, they are taught to believe what that preacher says is the only truth. It doesn't matter if some other church is like, oh, well, maybe this guy that's married to like a prostitute and a stripper and like has, you know, done all these other crazy things. Maybe he's not the Messiah, you know, maybe he's not a good Christian. Yeah.
president, but no, it's, they are brainwashed to only believe what their denomination tells them. So it's when back in 2016, everyone was like, oh, there's no way he's going to win. There's no way he's going to win. I'm like, oh, he's going to win. Absolutely going to win. Cause I grew up in that, in that mindset around those people. And they believe they're brainwashed from a young age. And
Again, you didn't grow up in church. But people that are listening that grew up in church, it's, oh, you got to have faith. Right. So the moment you question anything, you're bad. Oh, no, you don't have faith. So you're on your way to hell if you don't have faith. Right.
What amazes me, so obviously I was, I grew up in the suburbs of Oklahoma City. So I was like, I'm probably still on so many prayer warrior lists, but I was like prime for evangelicals to recruit because that's a huge part of their religion is the recruiting aspect of it.
And so I tried because I wanted to fit in because all of my friends were like super Bible thumpers. And, you know, it was fellowship of Christian athletes. And I tried around like middle school, high school, but I was never like truly indoctrinated. And so you weren't brainwashed as a child. Right. So I approach most religions the same way people approach Greek mythology. They all equally sound kind of ridiculous, you know, like Noah and being 900 years old. That was Methuselah and he was 959.
But what amazes me about it as a non-religious person is how much focus is put on others.
Others either recruiting others to join or who's Bobby fucking who's pumps fucking it's always it's never seems to be about how do I make myself a better person and mind my own fucking business. It is the biggest busy body misery loves company who's fucking who club I've ever seen in my life and I fucking had it.
I have had it totally free. Freedom of speech and freedoms if you're a white Christian. Right. Everybody else, no. Everybody else's mere existence is coming for their freedom. Right, right. Like existing, me being, loving someone, being able to marry who I want. That's not coming for your freedom. That's exactly right. Yep. That's it. Careof is a sponsor of today's episode.
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Now let's lighten it up a little bit since we've solved the world, the country's problems. Thank you, Bobby. Okay, Bobby, it's time to play our game. Had it or hit it? Oh my God. Welcome to had it or hit it? I would hit it. Had it. I hit it every day, sometimes twice a day. Had it or hit it? Silk flowers.
Oh, no. Had it. Had it. I've had it. Absolutely had it. Tell them about the time that we met. Okay. So the first time I met Jennifer, she was coming over to my house and I was redoing like the ground floor kitchen. It was a hookup? No.
She wanted it to be. I wanted it to be. See the gay agenda? See how they push it? Right. I would be her wife tomorrow. I am really trying with this gay agenda. Kylie and I are with pumps. But anyway, proceed. Okay, so she walks in my house and I hadn't met her before. And she comes in and she's like, I said, I don't give a shit about... You look just like your pictures. Sorry.
Sorry, I won't interrupt. No, no, no, no, no. I said, I don't really care. Like, just do what you think. I'm not real into it. I wouldn't even notice probably. And she goes, well, I can tell that because you have silk flowers in your entry hall on your dining room table. And then you have a picture. The only thing worse than silk flowers is pictures of silk flowers. And you've got both right here in the front room. And I was like head over heels in love immediately. Or word art.
A word art is terrible. It is a red flag. I walked into my desert home the other day. And again, we Airbnb it out when we're not using it. And I walk in and like, this house has been an architectural digest. Like it is very tastefully done. Right. Walk in the kitchen and on the ledge above the stove, there's a word art that says laugh.
Oh, we had it.
No, it's word art. I cannot stand. I hate the hashtag blessed or the use of the word blessed or blessed blessings. It makes me. Except unless it's in the sentence, bless your heart. That's correct. No, I do love that. That's correct. Which is also go fuck yourself as the three of us know. But when people say, I just, we are so very blessed. I'm just like, shut the fuck up. I've had it. And word art is awful. Okay. Okay.
Had it or hit it? Hit it, meaning you will love it, Bobby. Starbucks. Hit it. Yeah. Although I think yesterday was the first time I'd had it in months. I don't drink a lot of coffee anymore. I used to.
No, I've kind of moved on to Celsius, which is probably not great either, but. Oh, the caffeinated. Yeah. It's an energy drink. Oh, okay. But I wouldn't put it in the same category as like a Red Bull or a Rockstar or something. Like it doesn't smell like drunken desperation. A non-white trash energy drink. Yeah. Kind of a gay energy drink. A gay energy drink. Yeah. If you drink enough of them, you'll be gay. Yeah.
Pops is going to have one more and she's just going to be like, I need to buy some. Okay. Bobby had it or hit it. Influencers. I've had it.
I've had, you know, there are, there are some good ones out there. The ones I've had though, are the ones that produce these so overly staged videos that they try to pass off as real. And I'm like, are you that big of an idiot? Or do you just think everyone else is that big of an idiot? They're going to believe this bullshit. Right. I think they do believe the bullshit because I have
a daughter in college. And I mean, she buys all that shit, hook, line and sinker. I've kind of, I've had it with influencers, but I'm also a part of the problem because I hate follow a few. So yeah, I don't, I don't think I follow. I follow a couple. I do. I don't had it or hit it. Karate chopped pillows. Yeah.
I had it. Same. I had it. Although you will see me often on Queer Eye doing some karate chop pillows, but that's just because we need a shot of me doing something. And that's the quickest and easiest thing to do before the hero walks through the door. And it looks very designer. I'll tell you what I've started to do. I just did an install before I came here.
So I chop because I started designing in the 90s. And so that's when I started my career. I'm much younger than pumps, if you were curious. Four years is not that much. So I chop and then I'm like, no, that's out now. And then I do a side chop. So you can add that to career. I now do a top chop side.
Side chop. And then it makes the perfect, like I had to install these. Perfect little starfish. Yes. It's like, and then push it a little bit. So it's not too choppy. So you can add that kind of, and you can, you could put a, you could put a jazz hand at the end. Do you love it? Okay. Had it or hit it as we head into gay pride month, rainbow capitalism. Oh, I mean, yeah.
It's hard for me to say had it because I've definitely benefited from that rainbow capitalism, but I definitely think that there are some companies that should learn that being an ally isn't just slapping a rainbow on something once every June. It's, you know, like Disney did where they, you know, backed, backed the, you know, against the don't say gay bill. It's about activism year round, not just once a month or once a year. That's true. That's true. Are the intentions true?
always great no a lot of times the intentions are just to make money but i think visibility is so so important and i i think that rainbow capitalism gives people that hope they you know and at least i mean they're making money off of everything and let's it i mean we live in the biggest capitalistic market ever let's make sure we're making if they're going to do it let's make money off of the good fight instead of just being racist pricks you know like i i'm
I'm far more down with, with that. I kind of, I'm with you that I think there are kids that, you know, like the friend I told you who was telling her kid that it's, you know, if you're thinking about being gay, it's Satan, like that it's some sort of choice that seeing that and knowing, okay, wait, something's wrong with my mom. I'm not the problem. It's this archaic viewpoint that is the problem. So I think that that can really help.
Yeah, I do as well. And, you know, when I work with these companies and during pride and stuff, I always make them do a large donation to a charity that I work with. I'm like, if you're going to make money off of us, you need to give that money back to us. I agree. I think that's really good. I think that's smart. Bobby, I mean, I just feel like...
I mean, I feel like we fucking crushed it. I feel like this was a slam dunk. I feel like we solved so many fucking problems today. We have the most amazing charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent. Yeah.
Well, you know what that means? Oh, I see you next Tuesday. I love that. On RuPaul's Drag Race. She's always like, I want to see your charisma, uniqueness, nerve and talent. And for like 20 seasons, no one ever realized that she's saying cunt y'all. Like five, 60 years ago, people finally started talking about it. They're like, oh my God, all
all these years, she's been saying cunt. And I was like, yeah, what? Yeah, you're dumb. You're dumb. I have to say, I'm a huge Queer Eye fan. Huge. And I'll tell you what, like, I was thinking about why do I love that show so much? Because I'm not a crier at movies or anything. I'm hard pressed to cry. But when I walk...
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鲍比·伯克: @bobby </context> <raw_text>0 但是当我观看那些剧集时，像是从我不喜欢自己，我对自己的皮肤感到不舒服，我觉得我不够好，到最后他们的变化是显而易见的。这种感觉让我有点感动。告诉我们的听众，我想你有一本新书要出版。你能告诉我们的听众关于你的新书吗？是的。我的新书将在九月出版，现在可以预购。书名叫《在家》。嗯，
你知道，多年来，人们一直在说，哦，你应该做一本设计书或者写一本回忆录。当我做事情时，我想做一些能帮助别人的事情。设计书很美，不要误解我的意思。但设计书的制作成本很高，对吧。因此，它们的售价也很高。所以，漂亮的咖啡桌设计书，并不是每个人都能负担得起。而且一本漂亮的设计书并不一定真的能帮助人们。所以我决定写一本关于心理健康与设计交集的书，以及如何
你的家真的影响你生活的每一个方面。我们深入探讨色彩理论、光线、风水和组织。我们真的讨论了家中每一件事如何影响你的心理健康。就像你的家就像你的手机充电器。如果你晚上不把手机插上，或者那个线有短路，你的手机就无法撑过第二天，因为它没有充满电。你的家就是你的充电器。你必须...
在家时充满电。这样你才能度过生活。这就是这本书的全部内容，教人们如何找出自己的风格，以及如何接受自己的风格是独一无二的。它不必看起来像杂志。它不必是设计师所说的那样。关键是把让你快乐的东西放在家里。我喜欢这个。我完全同意。我时不时会接受室内设计杂志的采访，他们会问，什么是最热门的趋势？哦，
我讨厌这个问题。
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个人家庭的项目。是的。我是说，你在引导这些人经历这个过程。所以这确实是一个旅程，我已经厌倦了这些旅程，但那是另一集的内容，我很高兴你在做这个。我迫不及待想要得到它。我知道我很兴奋，鲍比。我无法告诉你我有多喜欢你来这里，以及你个人的故事，从你的成长经历到成为如此聪明、迷人和伟大的倡导者，为那些走出虐待宗教环境的男人、女人、男孩和女孩发声，你称之为这样的，因为我相信这确实是这样，你正在帮助其他处于这种情况的人，告诉他们，嘿，你可以摆脱这个，你可以拥有一个美好的生活。我在骨子里感受到这一点，这让我非常开心。谢谢你。对你的才华和你克服困难的故事充满了钦佩。这真的很令人印象深刻。是的。
是的，鲍比，非常感谢你告诉我们你厌倦了什么。我们在超市里的购物车会变得更好。是的，因为我在这方面有点犯规。我在想。鲍比，非常非常感谢你。祝你有一个美好的一周，祝你的书和《酷眼》的新季节好运。我们是你的忠实粉丝。能请你来真是太有趣了。你真是太棒了。非常感谢。再见。好的，热潮之旅继续。我是说，他是最棒的。
我爱他。我个人非常喜欢他直言不讳的风格。我真的很喜欢这一点。我爱他。我只是觉得能有这样一个酷的人在我们的播客上真是太有趣了。太酷了。我真的很喜欢他。他有趣、甜美，并且在他所做的事情上非常出色。请给我们一个五星好评。我们热衷于支持边缘化人群。如果你不喜欢这一点，那就去听其他播客吧。我们不适合你。
好的。你来错地方了。关注我们。哦，关注我们的Patreon。我们在那儿讨论女同性恋的泵泵事。好吧，随便。无论如何，我们下周二见。下周二见。再见，听众。
我是约翰·格洛弗。艾美奖获奖研究员约翰·格洛弗，我是玛丽莎·平森。批评上未获赞誉的电视编剧玛丽莎·平森。我们是新播客《品牌与约翰和玛丽莎》的主持人。每周加入我们，探索世界上最有趣和标志性的品牌，比如沃尔玛。他们还保留那些说“欢迎来到沃尔玛”的老年人吗？不，他们把他们都去掉了。所以你只是想让更多的老年人在商店里？我希望每个员工都超过90岁。还有亨氏。亨氏。亨氏。我说亨氏就像我是个德国独裁者。在你了解这些传奇品牌的同时，你也会了解我们一点。嘿，约翰，你还在鞋子里睡觉吗？不。
我想一年大约有三次我会穿着鞋子睡着。你告诉我你永远不应该看好市鸡肉底下的东西。好吧，我认为你永远不应该看鸡肉底下的东西。所以每周三收听《品牌与约翰和玛丽莎》的全新剧集。5月24日可在你获取播客的地方收听。到时见。
听众，在这一集的《我已经厌倦了》中，我们与eHarmony合作，这是一个可以找到你可以做自己的人的约会应用。泵泵，约会应用上发生了什么？人们在约会应用上试图表现得与自己不一样的情况真是不可思议。
我喜欢eHarmony的原因是它是真实的人，真实的关系。你听到了，听众。这就是我们与eHarmony合作的原因，因为在eHarmony上的约会是不同的。eHarmony知道，要找到真实的东西，eHarmony旨在帮助你通过他们独特的个性测试在你的个人资料中展现出你的个性。他们
甚至会突出你与潜在匹配者的相似之处。那就是魔法发生的时刻。当你形成真正的联系时，真实感会导致亲密感。听众，给eHarmony一个机会，开始他们的兼容性测验，这样你就可以找到一个可以做自己的伴侣。eHarmony，找到理解你的人。
听众，在这一集的《我已经厌倦了》中，我们与eHarmony合作，这是一个可以找到你可以做自己的人的约会应用。泵泵，约会应用上发生了什么？人们在约会应用上试图表现得与自己不一样的情况真是不可思议。
我喜欢eHarmony的原因是它是真实的人，真实的关系。你听到了，听众。这就是我们与eHarmony合作的原因，因为在eHarmony上的约会是不同的。eHarmony知道，要找到真实的东西，eHarmony旨在帮助你通过他们独特的个性测试在你的个人资料中展现出你的个性。他们
甚至会突出你与潜在匹配者的相似之处。那就是魔法发生的时刻。当你形成真正的联系时，真实感会导致亲密感。听众，给eHarmony一个机会，开始他们的兼容性测验，这样你就可以找到一个可以做自己的伴侣。eHarmony，找到理解你的人。